Bi or just hormones?

[Zayleron]

Hey,

So I’m 16 from Australia and lately I’ve began to question my own sexuality. I’ve done some stuff with close mates such as trading BJs and I was fine with it nothing against it at all. I would however be open to going all the way if the guy was right I guess if that makes any sense idk... but I still want to marry a woman settle down and have a family of my own. So I’m unsure if it’s just I am Bi or just teenage hormones I guess idk

[pauly]

It could be either. But it's too early to label yourself, so go with the feelings you have now and don't worry; your sexuality will become clearer as time goes along. :)

[ska8er]

I agree with pauly ^ above but I
would say it could b the hormones.
I know cause Ive felt like squirrels
where sword fighting in my head.
I thought of getting married and
having a family some days and
then the next I wanted to go
one and one with a guy. U have
mixed feelings right now. Just let
things play out before over thinking
of who or what u r going to do.

[Falcons_11]

Not knowing your age, probably you're just bi curious or just experimenting with your close friends if you are just starting puberty. There is nothing wrong with doing that with friends if they agree. You will sort it out later as you get older, assuming you are still young.

[Zayleron]

Not knowing your age, probably you're just bi curious or just experimenting with your close friends if you are just starting puberty. There is nothing wrong with doing that with friends if they agree. You will sort it out later as you get older, assuming you are still young.

I agree with pauly ^ above but I
would say it could b the hormones.
I know cause Ive felt like squirrels
where sword fighting in my head.
I thought of getting married and
having a family some days and
then the next I wanted to go
one and one with a guy. U have
mixed feelings right now. Just let
things play out before over thinking
of who or what u r going to do.

It could be either. But it's too early to label yourself, so go with the feelings you have now and don't worry; your sexuality will become clearer as time goes along. :)


Thanks guys helps a lot, yeah dunno guess I’ll just wait it out and see, I’ve only experimented with mates of mine who I’m really close with and they were also cool and wanted to never really with anyone out of that and that’s where I’m unsure what I’d be comfortable with but guess will wait and see

[azurzg]

Relax, explore, enjoy. Take it easy :)

[jamie_n5]

I wouldn't worry about it at this time. It could just be curiosity and experimenting. Give it time and you may be bi but don't think that you have to label yourself now.

[Jericho14]

Don't worry about the labels just now, just enjoy exploring. Im pretty much on the same boat as well.

[ska8er]

Thanks guys helps a lot, yeah dunno guess I’ll just wait it out and see, I’ve only experimented with mates of mine who I’m really close with and they were also cool and wanted to never really with anyone out of that and that’s where I’m unsure what I’d be comfortable with but guess will wait and see

For now just have fun experimenting. ;);)

[rgconrad23]

I agree with what everyone has said - have fun! Even bi guys get married. ;)

[Datboi123]

Could be a little bit of both. A lot of people are like that. Either or doesnt mean you're a bad person.

[Hermes]

So you are uncertain if you are Bi or what?

I think you're concerned about whether having enough attraction to guys to be able to enjoy some sexual fun with them is a phase or something more permanent. I think that's the thing that only time will tell about. But how's you attraction to girls? You mentioned wanting a wife and children in future but is that because you fancy girls or because that's just how you've always thought adulthood would be?

As other people have said there is no need to worry too much - you can just "play it by ear" for the time being and see if all becomes clear.

[justa16yearoldaussie]

some people don't know they're sexuality well into their 30's, you might just be curious.

[logan2002]

I have found when you are younger it is easier to do stuff, hj, bj, with a guy then girl