Low Libido

[Aero Solas]

Hi. Iv been dating my girlfriend for around 1 year and 3 months now and i cant help thinking that my libido (i think thats the proper term) is low.

Since we started dating, iv always had trouble cumming to her touch. Weather it be by sex, oral or a handjob. However its not that i dont feel horny and its not that i dont have sexual feelings for her. Its physical. Like my dick seems to loose sensitivity after a while of doing whatever we're doing. Either way, the good tingly feeling just kinda fades away and makes it really hard to cum. I get that tingly feeling when i tease myself after not cumming for a while. Thats when its really strong.

To conclude, i have sexual desires for my partner but i have trouble getting the good feeling that leads to cum when doing sexual actions. If anyone has any idea on what this might be abou, please let me know. (If you need any other info, feel free to ask) thanks.

Info:
Age: 16
Gender: Male
No known STI's/blood born viruses
No known genetal problems

[ska8er]

It could mean many things. Are u taking any
kind of medications? You may have a low
testosterone count or thyroid problem. Do
u have diabetes? Or it could b anxiety of
some sort. If it continues I would go see a
doctor for a checkup.

[Aero Solas]

It could mean many things. Are u taking any
kind of medications? You may have a low
testosterone count or thyroid problem. Do
u have diabetes? Or it could b anxiety of
some sort. If it continues I would go see a
doctor for a checkup.

Im not taking medication, i dont have diabetes and i dont think im anxious. I dont know my testostrone count and idek what a thyroid is lol. And its been "noticably" (migjt have been a problem before hand but wasnt aware) happening since iv been with my gf (1 year and 3 months).

[Ozzie13]

Do you masturbate?

[ska8er]

Im not taking medication, i dont have diabetes and i dont think im anxious. I dont know my testostrone count and idek what a thyroid is lol. And its been "noticably" (migjt have been a problem before hand but wasnt aware) happening since iv been with my gf (1 year and 3 months).

IDK if it continues I would see a doctor.
Maybe ur girlfriend doesn't turn u on as
much as u would like. A teen should not
have this kind of prob of losing an orgasm.

[Aero Solas]

Do you masturbate?

Yeah

[Aero Solas]

IDK if it continues I would see a doctor.
Maybe ur girlfriend doesn't turn u on as
much as u would like. A teen should not
have this kind of prob of losing an orgasm.

Alright thanks. Im thinking of consulting my doc about it. Cause thats why im wondering about this. As a teen, from what iv heard from friends and all, this isnt the norm and it mildly affects me.

[jamie_n5]

I would say that you have some subconscious feeling of guilt or fear of pregnancy or some other physiological hangup. You probably should see your doctor and maybe you will need some physiological counseling.

[justa16yearoldaussie]

it could be a heap of things, low testosterone, anxiety, depression; even if it doesn't seem apparent there could be something in your sub-conscious that's causing your loss of libido

[Michael75]

This happened me fairly recently which is strange. Proper lost my whole sex drive struggled to get hard with this girl that I really really liked. Lasted for about 3 weeks then suddenly it just came back felt like I was 14 again

[TeenBoy2002]

Lots of men struggle with this in bed and it’s quite often down subconsciously worrying about performance, worrying that you may not be good enough etc