Being straight and getting a crush on another boy

[Oscar-V3.0]

Hi
I'm 14.5 and I had several girl friends, I had my first kiss at 10, and I started to 'really date' girls at 11-12.
I've never been interested in boys. Ok i admit sometimes i find a boy cute, but i'm not interested in kissing or dating them.
Then suddenly without warning i have a crush on another boy at my sports club.
Is it possible to become gay or bi after dating girls for like 4 years and without never being interested in boys before?

#RealConfused

[Nnoki]

Yes, a lot of guys think they're straight until they find out to have a crush on a guy and "switch" to bi
And many discover later in life that they only liked girls because they thought that's what they were supposed to do and "switch" to gay

It is your own journey to sexuality, depends on you if you accept it or not

[mick01]

Forget about giving it a name or label and just follow your feelings and instincts. For a long time I thought I was gay and then all of a sudden I met a girl I really liked and she became my girlfriend and we had a great time. So just go with whatever your feelings tell you.

[Lionsden04]

I guess it can be possible only know how you feel about a certain someone, it shouldn’t matter what other people think though if what makes you happy that matters

[ska8er]

At 14 ur hormones r like two squirrels juggling
knives in ur head. U can like a guy or find one
cute with being straight. Sometimes u have
feelings for girls and at other times with guys.
Its all puberty related. Just let it play out before
u make any decisions of who u r or what u like.

[arca]

In a short answer, yes it's perfectly reasonable

No one can know at birth whether they are gay or bi. Its something that comes to everyone at some point. I remember my first crush on a guy. It's completely normal for it to just now be coming to you. The same thing happened to me, I dated a few girls and now I am gay. We didn't know any better back then.

[JayA]

It could mean that you are more attracted to the person and not the sex. There is always a physical attraction but if you are like me, it doesn't matter if it is a boy or girl -- if they are jerks I don't stay attracted to them.

[jamie_n5]

Well you don't become gay or bi from having a crush. You are born gay or bi. It is quite normal to find other guys cute or be infatuated with their bodies or their dicks and balls. All of us are curious beings and especially during puberty. If you eventually are driven to want to and do date a guy then I guess you are bi but for now I would still consider you to be straight and curious. You are still apt to maybe experiment with some other guys and that is perfectly normal too.

[Oscar-V3.0]

Well you don't become gay or bi from having a crush. You are born gay or bi. It is quite normal to find other guys cute or be infatuated with their bodies or their dicks and balls. All of us are curious beings and especially during puberty. If you eventually are driven to want to and do date a guy then I guess you are bi but for now I would still consider you to be straight and curious. You are still apt to maybe experiment with some other guys and that is perfectly normal too.
I think it's more than just curiosity, as I feel things for him that I dont feel for guys which are also cute and just as cool and that I've known for way longer.
I think he has something special, just dont know what or how to define it
I'm not sure what I feel for him, I'm not sure that it's real love, but it's something else than friendship

Hmmm am I clear? :whoops:

[Red Light Bandit]

Feel free to define yourself as straight or bi or any other sexuality
If this is just an occasional crush, and you feel that your attraction to girls is much greater and much more important to your life than your attraction to this boy I think you can keep defining yourself as straight
Just don't feel pressured to label yourself in any sexuality.

[jamie_n5]

I think it's more than just curiosity, as I feel things for him that I dont feel for guys which are also cute and just as cool and that I've known for way longer.
I think he has something special, just dont know what or how to define it
I'm not sure what I feel for him, I'm not sure that it's real love, but it's something else than friendship

Hmmm am I clear? :whoops:

Well just follow your heart and your instincts and judgement. You'll be fine then.