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jakeq
October 11th, 2019, 11:47 AM
I am dating my friends brother in secret right now for a couple a weeks. We r both gay and like eachother but im afraid hes gonna think its weird so we cant be friends any more..

Do u guys have advice on how to tell my friend? thx :D

ska8er
October 11th, 2019, 01:37 PM
I am dating my friends brother in secret right now for a couple a weeks. We r both gay and like eachother but im afraid hes gonna think its weird so we cant be friends any more..

Do u guys have advice on how to tell my friend? thx :D

Does ur friend know either one of u r gay?
Its ur life and I don't c why u have to get
ur friend mixed up in this unless u think u
r going to lose a friend. I would not tell ur
friend not to b friends anymore until u know
for sure how he will take it. U r jumping the
gun thinking he is going to think it is weird.
I would discuss this with your crush first to
see what he has to say about it before u jump
to any conclusions.

Impressionist1910
October 11th, 2019, 03:00 PM
I am dating my friends brother in secret right now for a couple a weeks. We r both gay and like eachother but im afraid hes gonna think its weird so we cant be friends any more..

Do u guys have advice on how to tell my friend? thx :D

You could always wait and see how things unfold.
If you're uncertain how it's going to affect your relationship with your friend, it might do you justice to make sure your romantic relationship with his brother is going to last a while first

Second Chance
October 12th, 2019, 12:58 AM
I am dating my friends brother in secret right now for a couple a weeks. We r both gay and like eachother but im afraid hes gonna think its weird so we cant be friends any more..

Do u guys have advice on how to tell my friend? thx :D

This is a really tough situation, and there are no easy answers. What I will say is that you need to figure out how your friend feels about his brother being gay and you going out with the brother. If you and your friend are close, then try to bring up that you like his brother. If your friend is homophobic or does not like the idea of someone going out with his brother, then you might need to take a step back for the sake of peace. You do not want to be in a situation where you are dividing two brothers, and you will need to take things really slowly. If going out with your friend's brother will cause you to lose a friend along with causing tension in his family, then it is not worth going out with the brother no matter how much you like him. If you can gradually get your friend to accept the fact that you like his brother and that you would still like to be his friend, then maybe things can work out.