The leather strap

[Riley2015]

my dad still gives me the strap. i'm 17 and i have asked him to stop as i feel like its abuse plus i'm too old for spanking? does anyone think its abuse and how can i get him to stop? i've been getting the strap for years and sick of it now. he never listens when i try to talk to him about anything and he gets mad at me even more and tells me to shut up. he has always been strict but i am 17 now and its getting too much, i am fed up with it and anyway i try to be good but i have a lot of problems and i try to get some help from my social worker and the therapist but my dad thinks he helps by being strict and spanking me but i don't think he is helping by doing this :what:

[ska8er]

U can stop it by not being bad or if u
have probs u cant control then try to
get some help maybe through ur social
worker.

[Ragle]

Why should he blame himself? This dad seems to be an true idiot, if I remember older threads of the OP. It's always the same topic. Hm, or the OP has a fetish.


If I had such father to endure there would be only two options for me :

1. I would beat the hell out of him so that he feels what I have to endure. He would then probably face my fullest anger.

2. Since there seems to be no support in the family, I would do anything to get out of this family.

The choice probably is No 2.

[kro814]

I think if you tell the social worker that you are still being beaten at age 17; he/she would be able to help you.

[Adamant]

In UK it just isn't allowed. I know that doesn't help but maybe it shows that if you ask your social worker he can intervene. My argument would be if it hasn't worked after all these years he should try another way.

[Emilyfox]

Call the cops
If he had to use a weapon on you that’s assault

[Chrisbm]

I still get the belt by my dad and I am 20

[Adamant]

My dad was violent to mum and me. So she packed a bag and we ran.
It shouldn't happen. Tell someone, get help.

[evansk8]

Report it to your social worker. Sorry you have to deal with this. A spanking is one thing. But this sounds like abuse. I haven't been spanked for a while, but I guess I've deserved the ones I've got. Nobody likes to get a butt whoopin but at least its over and done with!

[Catt]

Call child services, it’s not remotely discipline if he is beating you with a weapon especially at your age

[Cangirl]

The problem with reporting is that his dad will get in huge trouble with the authorities and maybe he doesn't want that. But if it doesn't work by telling him to stop then that might be the only option :(

[Emilyfox]

If after he hits you with it you just cry “Yes daddy harder!”
If that doesn’t make him stop and reevaluate his life, nothing will

[kro814]

This post began last September. You indicated at that time you were already receiving services from a therapist and social worker.

Everyone that responded to your post suggested that you advise either of those professionals of the ongoing physical abuse.

Have you contacted either one or both of your situation? If so, have things gotten better?

[Zika]

If after he hits you with it you just cry “Yes daddy harder!”
If that doesn’t make him stop and reevaluate his life, nothing will

As a serious response, that's stupid.
As a humorous response, that's out of line.

[Emilyfox]

As a serious response, that's stupid.
As a humorous response, that's out of line.

I figured it was just make believe at this point

[kro814]

Given that he is almost 18 and then an adult, I hope his situation has improved. I wasn't thinking he was lying about it.

[Emilyfox]

Given that he is almost 18 and then an adult, I hope his situation has improved. I wasn't thinking he was lying about it.

Hopefully stands up for himself, no one should be getting the belt ever, but when man sized? Not the age for that kind of discipline

[Zika]

I figured it was just make believe at this point

I'm sure many of the posts in this thread are fake, as are many of the members of this site. But for those for whom it may be true (and it certainly does happen), sexualizing it as you have, is sick and mocks those who do have to deal with it.

This is the abuse forum.

I guess we don't have a 'sexual fantasy' forum here, where you could post you fantasies, but maybe somewhere else.

[Emilyfox]

I'm sure many of the posts in this thread are fake, as are many of the members of this site. But for those for whom it may be true (and it certainly does happen), sexualizing it as you have, is sick and mocks those who do have to deal with it.

This is the abuse forum.

I guess we don't have a 'sexual fantasy' forum here, where you could post you fantasies, but maybe somewhere else.

Not my style
I just can’t imagine being adult sized and putting up with that

[Zika]

Not my style
I just can’t imagine being adult sized and putting up with that

What you can't imagine has nothing to do with you sexualizing someone else's abuse.

And if you think physical size is the only factor involved in ending abuse, you have no clue what so ever as to the complexities of abuse from a parent.

Your comment defies common sense, even for a '14 year old.'

[Atlantis]

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