Age Differences

[penxasck14]

I'm 14 years old by the way
I usually attracted to people around my age, but sometimes I can be into people a little younger than me, like 9. i know thats a bit weird, but does that automaticaly make me a creep or something? Cuz I don't think so..
I'm bi and my friends know but some af them think its weird I can like boys and girls that young.
So how bad is it and is anyone else like this or is it only me??

[ShineintheDark]

You're young, hormonal and going through a lot of changes. It may be a genuine attraction that will persist through your whole life or it may suddenly go in the blink of an eye. As long as you understand why it's not necessarily appropriate and don;t try and pursue anything with a kid that young, you'll be fine.

[scott2002]

If your attraction to kids that much younger than you is at all sexual, you HAVE TO NEVER DO ANYTHING SEXUAL with them. The age difference between 9 and 14 is way too big. Use this as your test for anything you might think about doing with a 9 year-old:
"If my mom was here watching us and saw us doing what I'm thinking about doing, would she be upset??"
You don't ever need to be touching them down there, and they have no business touching you down there, either.

[Second Chance]

I'm 14 years old by the way
I usually attracted to people around my age, but sometimes I can be into people a little younger than me, like 9. i know thats a bit weird, but does that automaticaly make me a creep or something? Cuz I don't think so..
I'm bi and my friends know but some af them think its weird I can like boys and girls that young.
So how bad is it and is anyone else like this or is it only me??

I totally agree with the poster above, and being attracted to anyone belong 12/13 is not healthy or right. Most people start puberty around 12/13 and enter junior high school around that time, and those folks would at least be close to your age. Doing anything with a person in elementary school is plain wrong, and you do not want to enter that territory. Assuming you are going to enter high school, then I would not do anything lower than eighth grade. If you are still in eighth grade, then try not to go below seventh grade for a partner.

I would say try to stay within two years of your age group when looking for someone. Avoid elementary school kids, and remember that kids that young are looking up to you and will do what you tell them to do just because they want to seem cool. Elementary school kids are too young to make decisions about relationships and sexuality, and it is best to avoid them and not to have any interest in them. I would add to the other poster by saying that think about how the parents of the young kid would feel if you were more than friends with the kid which is why you need to be careful.

[jamie_n5]

During puberty you will get feelings like that. Most likely when you are at the end stage you will narrow that to like 2-3 years older or younger that you are more attracted to.