Can you have both

[Cook my Sock]

Could a Bisexual person go out and have both a boyfriend & girlfriend at the same time or would that just be weird?

[SparklingStar]

I would consider that cheating. However, one of my my bi friends has a boyfriend who would be totally fine if she had a girlfriend at the same time. As long as both of your partners are completely aware and agree to the arrangement, do what you want to do. I'm not sure if there would be any legal issues though...

[Cook my Sock]

I would consider that cheating. However, one of my my bi friends has a boyfriend who would be totally fine if she had a girlfriend at the same time. As long as both of your partners are completely aware and agree to the arrangement, do what you want to do. I'm not sure if there would be any legal issues though...

Yeah he's not gonna be bothered he's getting a two for one deal lol.

[Ethe14]

I think it depends on the two people. I knew that I couldn't handle my boyfriend and a girlfriend on top of that. It would be too much.

[Thelizzerd]

No unless it's a threesome!

[Melodic]

Yeah, it depends on the whole relationship in general.

[Croconaw]

That would be cheating. I don't think anyone should do this.

[Star Wolf]

I don't really think it's fair to either partners, because then they wouldn't really get to feel like your special someone. I think it would be awfully hard to share your lover with another person.


If you want to have both a boyfriend and girlfriend, it would probably be best if all three of you were together, in a three-way relationship, instead of them both just with you. That way, in such a case, all three would be attracted to each other. (As strange as that sounds.)

[Typhlosion]

Yes, you can, but you would need consent from all of them (ask the intended first, obviously). Polygamy isn't common, truly, but some people do practice and/or accept it.

[ksdnfkfr]

I would say that no commitment dating around with both a boy and a girl at the same time happens.

[Blood]

That would honestly depend on the people in the relationship and the rules of the relationship. I know of people who do it, and it'd be something I'd love to give a shot one day, but unless all of the people are agreeable and know about each other it's considered cheating.

[abc983055235235231a]

Like a few people have said, it's fine as long as everyone in the relationship knows what is going on, and consents to it.
Polyamorous relationships require trust and communication and honesty (well so do monogamous relationships...). There's absolutely nothing wrong with them, though.

[phuckphace]

sounds pretty complicated IMO, but it would definitely be easiest if both guys in said relationship are bisexual. that way they're both into the girl as well and there's a lesser chance that one of the guys (gay) would start to get jealous of the other guy also being involved with the girl. and then of course the girl would have to be cool with/into the idea of two guys getting it on.

[Rallo]

Well there wouldn't be anything overly stopping you if both persons agreed, though that would be extremely complicated..

[Dalcourt]

Could a Bisexual person go out and have both a boyfriend & girlfriend at the same time or would that just be weird?

I'd say it depends on the people involved. If they are all okay with it why not. Otherwise if one of the two partners doesn't know that you have another partner I'd say it's cheating, so yeah.

[workingatperfect]

Yes, you can, but you would need consent from all of them (ask the intended first, obviously). Polygamy isn't common, truly, but some people do practice and/or accept it.

Basically this. If you're going to, you have to be totally straightforward about it to both partners. I know three people actually that are poly-amorous. One is a married woman with a boyfriend. This is more of an open-love situation. The other two are a hetero couple who allow other women into the relationship and the girl also sleeps with other men outside of the relationship. This is really more of a sexual thing.

So yes it is possible, but it is difficult to find people who are accepting of this since bisexuality isn't a free pass to mess around with or date as many people as you want.

[ninja789]

personally I wouldn't think that would work
I think our minds are only really geared to be with one person at a time

[Hey-Im-Connor]

that wud be weird for me but whatever works for you!