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jakeq
June 10th, 2019, 08:26 PM
I fap with my friends too, but when I told them I do it with my brother they said it was wierd so idk

HFrint
June 10th, 2019, 08:44 PM
I have with my cousin

ska8er
June 10th, 2019, 09:00 PM
Its not weird if it is ok with him.

Second Chance
June 10th, 2019, 09:46 PM
I fap with my friends too, but when I told them I do it with my brother they said it was wierd so idk

Based upon what I have seen around here it does not seem uncommon for brothers to fap with one another. I just would say do not take anything beyond masturbating with your brother because that could lead to problems. As long as you and your brother are just masturbating and not involved sexually with one another, then you are not doing anything bad. Just make sure you and your brother are all right with this and that no one feels forced to masturbate with the other.

flogrown2001
June 10th, 2019, 10:40 PM
as long as you are both cool with it, there is absolutely nothing wrong with it. treat it as a bonding experience!

Hermes
June 11th, 2019, 04:11 AM
When you say fap with, what do you mean? Do it at the same time, possibly in the open so you could each see each other? I would not have though that was uncommon for brothers who share a bedroom. Or do you mean doing each other?

Anyway, as to what difference it makes if it is your brother, obviously people are reacting because they heard incest is bad and think of this as incest. Incest being bad has got adopted by religions and in law in some places but the whole thing stems from the fact that inbreeding limits the genetic diversity of the babies and makes them more prone to diseases and problems. Jacking off together won't result in a baby so there is nothing to worry about there,

scott2002
June 11th, 2019, 06:13 AM
What is the age difference between you and your brother (what are your ages?), and are you the younger or the older brother? And I'm curious which one of you initiated it and how the two of you decided to actually do it together.
I had a J/O friend whose 14 y.o. brother taught him how to masturbate when he was 12, and then they did it together quite a bit after that. My friend showed me techniques that his older brother showed him.

Zachary G
June 11th, 2019, 07:10 AM
Nah, nothing at all wrong with having a fap with your bro. as long as you two are cool with it, then go for it. It can be a great binding experience plus, nobody needs to know what you do in your private time, thats your business and nobody elses - ya know?

justa16yearoldaussie
June 11th, 2019, 07:22 AM
its completely fine and a lot of other do it too, so long as its consensual

mick01
June 11th, 2019, 09:05 AM
If its consensual, there's nothing wrong with it. And I agree it can be a bonding experience. I have shared a room with my brother for always and we're perfectly comfortable doing it in our room.

jakeq
June 11th, 2019, 10:16 AM
What is the age difference between you and your brother (what are your ages?), and are you the younger or the older brother? And I'm curious which one of you initiated it and how the two of you decided to actually do it together.
I had a J/O friend whose 14 y.o. brother taught him how to masturbate when he was 12, and then they did it together quite a bit after that. My friend showed me techniques that his older brother showed him.

My brother is 15, im 13 and we've been doing it for like a year

jakeq
June 11th, 2019, 12:45 PM
When you say fap with, what do you mean? Do it at the same time, possibly in the open so you could each see each other? I would not have though that was uncommon for brothers who share a bedroom. Or do you mean doing each other?

Anyway, as to what difference it makes if it is your brother, obviously people are reacting because they heard incest is bad and think of this as incest. Incest being bad has got adopted by religions and in law in some places but the whole thing stems from the fact that inbreeding limits the genetic diversity of the babies and makes them more prone to diseases and problems. Jacking off together won't result in a baby so there is nothing to worry about there,

We just watch the same porn and fap next to each other I didnt think it was wierd or anything

Jake445
June 11th, 2019, 04:04 PM
Yeah it seems pretty normal I've done it with friends too, nice that you're close!

toby69
June 11th, 2019, 07:09 PM
Normal as apple pie. Sure beats solo. I have no brothers but jerk with my cousin.

grant2
June 11th, 2019, 07:41 PM
It seems like a pretty normal thing to do with your brother. I would never jerk off with my brother because we aren’t that close and don’t talk about masturbation or anything like that

abcdeqwe
June 11th, 2019, 08:04 PM
Its not weird if it is ok with him.

Yeah agreed. If u guys are comfortable with it and neither y’all feel forced then I don’t see any problem with it :)

Blake2003
June 11th, 2019, 10:01 PM
I’ve done it a few times with my brother. And with friends when we were watching when we were watching porn.

Maxbreak
June 11th, 2019, 11:16 PM
It's ok. Sometimes it's out of necessity if you share a bedroom

hockeyref867
June 12th, 2019, 12:31 AM
If you guys are both cool with it, then there’s nothing wrong, I’ve done it with my brothers, and we’re good with it

penxasck14
June 12th, 2019, 08:24 AM
as far as I know, its pretty normal. If you two want to do it, just do it

SouthernDude
June 12th, 2019, 03:01 PM
If you're both cool with it, go for it. I don't (my brother is 9), so I can't share an experience.

Mika27
June 12th, 2019, 03:02 PM
I fap with my friends too, but when I told them I do it with my brother they said it was wierd so idk
Don't worry about it :) I used to do it with my brother. He now finds it a bit weird but I'd happily still do it with him. Lots of brothers do it, but not that many admit it!

Ryguy123
June 12th, 2019, 08:39 PM
Don't worry about it :) I used to do it with my brother. He now finds it a bit weird but I'd happily still do it with him. Lots of brothers do it, but not that many admit it!

how old is ur bro when u started. how old is he now

Aldee
June 13th, 2019, 09:59 AM
I think it’s more common than people realise, but I understand it’s not something most people discuss.

I’ve done it with my younger sister a few times. Not much touching each other, just watching each other do it.

logan2002
June 13th, 2019, 05:40 PM
I did it with a cousin, not close to my brother to do it, though I cought him once.

Tsall
June 13th, 2019, 09:23 PM
I do with my younger brother all the time. We both really enjoy it. We started when he was 12, almost 13. I was 14.

Falcons_11
June 13th, 2019, 10:53 PM
I don't think there is anything wrong with doing it with brothers as long as you agree to do it together and it isn't forced or coerced.

PCwrestles
June 14th, 2019, 10:46 PM
as long as you are both cool with it, there is absolutely nothing wrong with it. treat it as a bonding experience!

exactly. it is a bonding experience for boys i think. at least it has been for me.

JHardy9
June 14th, 2019, 11:14 PM
i never did it my brothers

scott2002
June 14th, 2019, 11:41 PM
My brother is 15, im 13 and we've been doing it for like a year
Do you feel that the two of you jacking off together has brought you closer and created an even more special brotherly bond between the two of you, or has it made your relationship more awkward?

When I was 13 I jacked off a lot with my same-age cousin. We were great friends as younger boys, but I think we started feeling a little awkward with each other because of what we were doing. Our relationship started to break down where the only thing we ever did together was when we were horny and dropped our pants behind closed doors and jacked off together or jacked off each other.

By age 15 we drifted totally apart and hardly even talk to each other anymore. It's not that we had a fight, and maybe we just changed, but I've wondered if our "intimacy" when we were 13, playing with each other's dicks, harmed our relationship.

scentlessapprentice
June 15th, 2019, 08:10 AM
I have with my brothers before. It's super great to do it it with someone you trust. Very intimate. Everyone should try it!

MasonBA
June 15th, 2019, 08:25 AM
me and my brother do it together

MisterMister2000
June 16th, 2019, 10:01 PM
My older bro and I have done it a few times. We are sharing a bed on vacation, woke up with boners in our briefs, I boldly made a comment that I was curious to see what his looked like and we ended up jerking away together. We both jerked each other, compared everything, and then laughed about it afterwards. It was a nice bonding experience and I'm glad we did it because it's something I been wanting to do.

Jericho14
June 16th, 2019, 11:47 PM
If i have a brother. I'd do it

Djdj112
June 17th, 2019, 03:49 PM
I thinks it’s fine and healthy as long as you’re both comfortable.

Mika27
June 17th, 2019, 03:58 PM
how old is ur bro when u started. how old is he now
He was 13 and I was 14. Now he's 16

Janas
June 22nd, 2019, 08:58 AM
I dont think that it is weird. If I had a brother I definrtly would jerk off together with him.

cubebuilder
June 22nd, 2019, 09:30 AM
I don't think it's weird.

Don Giovanni
June 26th, 2019, 02:34 PM
"Jerking off together" is not weird i think. But if you go further i think it is.

Chris298
June 27th, 2019, 07:56 PM
I have with my brothers before. It's super great to do it it with someone you trust. Very intimate. Everyone should try it!

I would if I had a brother 🤣

CAD 4
June 28th, 2019, 05:39 AM
If you’re both comfortable enough then have at it lol

Jrunner
June 28th, 2019, 08:01 AM
I don't have a brother so I don't know, but maybe it's ok with some ppl, maybe not others. I think if ur brother is too much younger then that's maybe not so cool, but whatever..

Pitsirikos
June 28th, 2019, 03:18 PM
It's completely normal if you are both ok with it.

scentlessapprentice
June 29th, 2019, 07:08 AM
I would if I had a brother 🤣

wouldn't we all lmao

Franciscofixe
June 29th, 2019, 10:05 AM
For me it's normal to fap with or brother. You are both boys do yeah.

And jerking off with your friends is normal too.

Franciscofixe
July 1st, 2019, 05:04 AM
wouldn't we all lmao

Agree 100%

Ricky.h
July 6th, 2019, 12:39 AM
I fap with my friends too, but when I told them I do it with my brother they said it was wierd so idk

I mentioned previously that I have and occasionally do. It depends on the bond
Me and my bros ( have 2) watch porn together sometimes so we just do it. It's all cool because the focus is individual

MisterMister2000
July 9th, 2019, 09:49 PM
When my bro and I jerked together, it was a nice bonding experience. We've done it a few times since then. I was unsure if it was normal or not but it was soemthing I really wanted to do and when it happened it was pretty amazing

Diable rouge
July 16th, 2019, 07:15 PM
I don't think it is weird.

wrestleboy13
August 25th, 2019, 10:49 AM
How old are you and your brother?

Vegas2933
August 25th, 2019, 11:01 AM
Its completely normal as long as it's consensual. :)

george05013
August 25th, 2019, 03:55 PM
If your similar ages it's not so weird like twins but for example 12 and 18 that a weird

JonnyH
August 26th, 2019, 01:21 PM
As long as there is a mutual consent then go. Consent is very important in my view.

brightlight
August 26th, 2019, 04:51 PM
Probably when you're older it can be but when you're younger probably not.

Impressionist1910
August 27th, 2019, 07:39 PM
I fap with my friends too, but when I told them I do it with my brother they said it was wierd so idk

If I had a brother I'd do it

scentlessapprentice
August 29th, 2019, 11:25 PM
It's totally normal and natural to do it. I do it with my bros all the time

Datboi123
August 31st, 2019, 12:22 AM
It is a little weird but as long as no harm is done you do you

Jthompson
September 1st, 2019, 09:23 PM
I think it’s normal. Brotherly bonding? Masturbating is like wasting and drinking. Non one would think it was weird if you ate with your brother

Connordude
September 1st, 2019, 10:52 PM
Your friends probably all have with bros if they have
People just don’t admit it
Just like you don’t tell your mates if your sister gave you a gobby

Gymlechat
November 24th, 2019, 07:57 PM
I think it's fairly common. I do with two of my male cousins

Andre 99
November 25th, 2019, 12:55 PM
I have done it with a male cousin, 1 year ilder than me.
I have also jerked off while my sister fingered herself.

jerrion
November 26th, 2019, 07:26 AM
I fap with my friends too, but when I told them I do it with my brother they said it was wierd so idk

I think it's good for bonding but you don't need to tell everybody

Jeff1857
November 26th, 2019, 12:13 PM
Hey man,
Totally normal. I share a room with my brother and we jerk off together. We have also done it together with friends at sleep overs and no one thought it was weird we were both there or if they did they did not say anything. You are both guys so I would say as long as you both are cool with doing it then who cares.

Datboi123
January 1st, 2020, 06:12 PM
A little bit but as long as everything is consensual I guess it's fine

countryplowboy
January 21st, 2020, 04:15 AM
Imo, not weird at all. My brother and I do all the time. Its normal for us

Spotlight
January 21st, 2020, 03:50 PM
I think it’s fine nothing weird about it

NoName2001
January 21st, 2020, 09:52 PM
I don’t think it is. I have with both my older and younger brothers

AustinAw3some
February 8th, 2020, 06:23 PM
I don't necessarily do it with my brother, but since we share a room I have done it at night while he is sleeping.

scentlessapprentice
February 8th, 2020, 11:02 PM
Nothing weird about it imo. I do it with my younger bro all the time and with my older brother before he moved to college. it's just a super fun thing to do

ERB-lade
March 20th, 2020, 11:47 AM
I haven't done anything like that but, whatever floats your boat my man.

ilc.69
March 31st, 2020, 11:25 AM
Based upon what I have seen around here it does not seem uncommon for brothers to fap with one another. I just would say do not take anything beyond masturbating with your brother because that could lead to problems. As long as you and your brother are just masturbating and not involved sexually with one another, then you are not doing anything bad. Just make sure you and your brother are all right with this and that no one feels forced to masturbate with the other.

bitch, who da fuck are you to tell other people what’s right and what’s wrong? Leave your moral shit for the church.
Now, honey, you do whatever you want. It aint wrong to masturbate with your brother, it’s not harming anyone; and as long as you’re both fine with it, no prob. Do anything you want as long as you stay safe and your health is not jeopardized. that’s it byeee muak💖

aarondayy
March 31st, 2020, 11:31 AM
Personally, I would never do this with my brother but, it seems to be a common thing for people to do so the choice is mainly up to you.

Hermes
March 31st, 2020, 01:01 PM
bitch, who da fuck are you to tell other people what’s right and what’s wrong? Leave your moral shit for the church.

That's a bit of an extreme reaction, surely? I agree that sexual conduct is something different people have different views of according to their personal and religious background and I also think we should be very careful about telling other people what they should and should not get up to but the one thing "society at large" has a right to expect of sexual behaviour is that it is mutually consensual.

samuel15
April 2nd, 2020, 04:25 PM
I'm gonna be honest! For me personally, it's weird, but that's because i don't have that
type of a relationship with my siblings. but for you it's normal since you have done it
so many times.

Spooky_Eli
April 2nd, 2020, 04:44 PM
bitch, who da fuck are you to tell other people what’s right and what’s wrong? Leave your moral shit for the church.
Now, honey, you do whatever you want. It aint wrong to masturbate with your brother, it’s not harming anyone; and as long as you’re both fine with it, no prob. Do anything you want as long as you stay safe and your health is not jeopardized. that’s it byeee muak💖

Well said

musicalguy
May 6th, 2020, 01:24 AM
I dont have a brother but i would definitely with my male cousins cus its normal to jerk with freinds or brothers etc.

Will..
May 6th, 2020, 05:33 AM
Well said

Not really well said when all he said in the first place is basically don't have sex with your brother because it's not a good idea and make sure if you're masturbating together make sure it's consensual.

Javier
May 6th, 2020, 06:03 AM
I wish I had a brother to Fap with though

MisterMister2000
May 6th, 2020, 09:38 AM
My bro and I have been doing it a lot together for the past month and a half since we’re both home like everyone else. It’s been fun and I love it. But it’s also intimidating cuz he’s wayyy bigger.

BrianSullivan
May 6th, 2020, 12:46 PM
I have with my cousin

Yea, I have with my cousin but would not with a brother (if I had one).

HFrint
May 6th, 2020, 07:58 PM
Yea, I have with my cousin but would not with a brother (if I had one).

I coached my cousin to refine his own skills.

At the time I was twelve and he was ten

gromit
May 7th, 2020, 12:34 AM
Done it with my best friend & his brother.

Dynamite_Pickle
May 14th, 2020, 10:24 AM
I'm still sharing a room with my brother so don't really have a choice but it doesnt bug me.

AustinAw3some
May 15th, 2020, 11:34 AM
I'm still sharing a room with my brother so don't really have a choice but it doesnt bug me.

Exactly this for me too. I try to do it while he is gone or asleep but if I'm already doing it and he walks in then I'm not going to stop. Its my room too and if it actually did bother him then he can go somewhere else.

Zxywvuts
May 15th, 2020, 01:22 PM
I'm an only child unfortunately (sometimes)... but I don't think it would be weird if something like that happened. Seems pretty normal if you're curious, and especially if you share a room!

AustinAw3some
May 15th, 2020, 03:03 PM
Yea, I have with my cousin but would not with a brother (if I had one).

Can I ask why you would do it with your cousin but not your brother? You are both still family.

Stamford
July 5th, 2020, 12:39 PM
I'm still sharing a room with my brother so don't really have a choice but it doesnt bug me.

I am in the same situation as I also share a room with my brother who is only just over a year younger than me, 11 nearly 12. Without having the privacy of your own room it's inevitable that our age we are going fap with each other sometimes.

Berlin
July 5th, 2020, 01:13 PM
I’ve been caught by my half brother before but we never did it together. I don’t really think it’s weird to do it together as long as yo both agree.

abcain07
July 6th, 2020, 07:57 AM
I don’t think it’s weird to do it with your brother. I do It with my brother after he caught me jerking off.

AsTheTrombonePlays
July 6th, 2020, 02:02 PM
I have never done it with my brother. Though, we've talked and joked about it very regularly.

That being said, 'fapping it' with a brother or a cousin has been an age-old human phenomenon. It promotes brotherhood and friendly bonding.

CharlesB
July 6th, 2020, 02:31 PM
people are judgemental when in reality they probably would too if they had a sibling.

your not weird :)

Ralph.S.G.R
July 6th, 2020, 02:48 PM
It is definitely weird.
But dont worry, its not wierd.

AsTheTrombonePlays
July 6th, 2020, 02:58 PM
I like your answer, Ralph SGR. haha

benjs5000
July 6th, 2020, 05:13 PM
never done it with my brother but i don't think its weird if u are both cool with it

johnnycake
July 6th, 2020, 05:33 PM
I don’t think it’s weird at all

scentlessapprentice
July 7th, 2020, 04:34 AM
....

MentallyChaotic
July 9th, 2020, 03:48 PM
I have not done this yet, but I see no reason that it would be weird. Rather normal, actually.

FirstMate
July 10th, 2020, 11:27 AM
I do it with mine. Seems perfectly normal to us.

abcain07
July 12th, 2020, 09:23 AM
I’ve done it with mine and it he doesn’t mind and we don’t see anything wrong with it.

xols
August 1st, 2020, 02:32 PM
I hate to characterize others' behaviors as 'weird,' but I def wouldn't fap with my brother. We share a room, but we're discrete. I think. I hope.

lee036
August 1st, 2020, 10:52 PM
I have jerked with friends occasionally but never siblings.

NudistKid
August 8th, 2020, 09:47 AM
I don’t think it’s weird if your both comfortable with it then it’s fine

YOWB05
August 8th, 2020, 04:51 PM
Nah it can be fun as long as its consentual

lincolnhilton
September 1st, 2020, 02:37 PM
How else did I learn how to fap? When you share a room with another horny teen guy you do end up fapping together. You're brothers, so seeing the other's dick isn't really that shocking haha

Xidiwi1udjvjjs
September 3rd, 2020, 01:37 AM
It's probably way more common than you think, so no it's not that weird

JustAnAveragePerson
January 2nd, 2021, 01:17 AM
Ok. I think it's not weird under certain conditions:

1. You are not sexually aroused by each other. It's something else that makes you turned on.

2. No other stuff. Wanking is fine but actual sexual experience is a no no and is weird.

Trifilara
January 2nd, 2021, 04:32 PM
I believe it's totally fine if both of you are comfortable will this. It's ok if only masturbation and no other sexual acts are taking place.

Durango
January 3rd, 2021, 07:20 AM
Well, I do share a room with one of my brothers (he's 11, I'm 16) and while we don't jack off together, we both do jack off (although granted, he's only just started). He's walked in on me jacking off a few times over the years, and I've walked in on him a couple of times, and neither of us thinks anything of it.

pavement13
January 20th, 2021, 09:15 PM
imo I don't think it's that weird. Not everyone wants to do it, but I've done it with my brother plenty of times before

jerrion
January 21st, 2021, 04:17 PM
It's okay to do it if you both like it

MaxMills
January 21st, 2021, 06:55 PM
TBH i have done it with my twin brother for a long period of time, we started when we were 12 and it carried on until we were 16. We shared a room for this time and was easier to just do it together if we were both in. I have also jerked off with my younger brother, he's 14 and I'm 18

hannoAV
January 21st, 2021, 07:19 PM
It’s not weird and I did it a lot of times

jaredcal
January 21st, 2021, 08:27 PM
its weird

hlmdw
January 23rd, 2021, 09:58 AM
for me it's weird, because i never do it with my brother

JackCk
February 11th, 2021, 11:56 AM
When I was younger I did it with my brother (like ages 14-16 for me and 12-14 for him)

JackCk
February 11th, 2021, 11:57 AM
TBH i have done it with my twin brother for a long period of time, we started when we were 12 and it carried on until we were 16. We shared a room for this time and was easier to just do it together if we were both in. I have also jerked off with my younger brother, he's 14 and I'm 18

Do you still do it with either of them?

kevinxcab
February 12th, 2021, 04:41 AM
i jerk off with my cousin, it started a year ago and we still do it every few weeks/months. we're both 16. i dont think its weird

Skunthunt
February 12th, 2021, 07:33 PM
Just he don't know because if someone can do it with a person that he have confiance,it's better

MaxMills
February 13th, 2021, 06:07 PM
Do you still do it with either of them?

Haven't done it with my twin brother for a while, its a lot more difficult to do it now we don't share a room. I have occasionally done it with my younger brother, he will often ask or i will be looking after him whilst most people are out the house