risk of sex

[PositiveVibes]

why do girls love being cummed in despite the risk

[AshleighB]

I just like the feeling of it feels good when a guy finishes inside me

[LiberalTurboprop]

In addition to what AshleighB said, I think it would also feel nice to do something that makes your partner feel sexy because it feels good to please another person. I know that I'd do stuff for a girl to please her even if it did nothing for me other than please me by knowing that it pleases her.

Also, finishing inside a girl isn't that dangerous if both partners have had STI checks, only have sex with each other and the girl is on the pill or an IUD or something.

[Katie2003]

What Ashley said +1000. :)

It is an amazing feeling which is difficult to describe, but one I like because it seems to affirm a very special connection between the two people that nothing else can come close to. Sharing the same sort of intimacy with another girl also does that for me even though obviously there is a physiological difference in what happens.

[ska8er]

Maybe they r either stoned or drunk.

[BJade]

The same reason boys love cumming in girl despite the risk :P

[Ashley2004]

I'm not a fan of it myself but not because of the risks. I don't like it because it's messy. The cum leaks back out if you don't clean up right away.

[xSashax]

It’s because it feels good of course.
As long as you’re on birth control and both are clean with no diseases, it’s fine. It’s not a good idea to just fuck anybody without a condom though...

[Knightley]

I'm not a fan of it myself but not because of the risks. I don't like it because it's messy. The cum leaks back out if you don't clean up right away.
I must admit it sounds gross but its not my thing so cant really comment so random lesbians opinion lol but my guess would be the intimacy of the act. XxX

[HFrint]

My GF is on the pill but it’s not fool proof. Iguess I’m just lucky that my GF hasn’t got preg.

[Shaythen]

I personally don’t like it on me, or in me in any way, just feels disgusting

[ChloeF]

why do girls love being cummed in despite the risk
The same reason boys like doing it, it feels good.

[RCT109]

As a guy i dont like doing it honestly it feels weird

[Falcons_11]

If a girl isn't on any type of birth control, the risk is too great. Besides who wants to be a teenage mommy or daddy.

[RCT109]

If a girl isn't on any type of birth control, the risk is too great. Besides who wants to be a teenage mommy or daddy.

second that

[LiberalTurboprop]

If a girl isn't on any type of birth control, the risk is too great. Besides who wants to be a teenage mommy or daddy.

You can take the teenage out of it haha. I never want to be a daddy.

[Jessica.lang19]

I'm not a fan of it myself but not because of the risks. I don't like it because it's messy. The cum leaks back out if you don't clean up right away.

This is spot on. The feeling of it coming out is just not pleasant and can be awkward. I rather swallow or have him go on me.

[Laren502]

This is spot on. The feeling of it coming out is just not pleasant and can be awkward. I rather swallow or have him go on me.

Agree 100%

[stoneflowe96]

Never expearienced that, because I always used condoms.

[Pultost]

It’s because it feels good of course.
As long as you’re on birth control and both are clean with no diseases, it’s fine. It’s not a good idea to just fuck anybody without a condom though...

True, I have no experience with casual sex, but doing that without condoms would be foolish, as the risk of pregnancy would be the least of the problems. Who knows where those dicks have been before. :P

[ashleigh7]

For me...it feels amazing!!:) the closeness and intimacy I feel makes it feel special:) amongst other things to;)

[PositiveVibes]

What Ashley said +1000. :)

It is an amazing feeling which is difficult to describe, but one I like because it seems to affirm a very special connection between the two people that nothing else can come close to. Sharing the same sort of intimacy with another girl also does that for me even though obviously there is a physiological difference in what happens.

Yeah physically is one thing, but the emotional side is so beautiful too x

[PositiveVibes]

The same reason boys like doing it, it feels good.

Haha you know it Chloe :P

[PositiveVibes]

True, I have no experience with casual sex, but doing that without condoms would be foolish, as the risk of pregnancy would be the least of the problems. Who knows where those dicks have been before. :P

That’s true lol some boys have nasty dicks lmao

[Pultost]

That’s true lol some boys have nasty dicks lmao

And I assume some girls have nasty love tunnels as well, so no one is safe. :P

[PositiveVibes]

And I assume some girls have nasty love tunnels as well, so no one is safe. :P

Hahahahaha, well yeah. I’m learning to love condoms again so I’m happy now haha

[Pultost]

Hahahahaha, well yeah. I’m learning to love condoms again so I’m happy now haha

That's good, better safe than sorry. ;)

[Claire Asteroid]

It feels really nice! My boyfriend and I had been getting more intimate when I stayed at his house and he'd ended up getting semen on my pijamas and then my tummy, which felt messy, so it kind of felt right when we ended up having sex to let him finish inside me. But it is risky as I know.

[LiberalTurboprop]

That’s true lol some boys have nasty dicks lmao

Just a heads up, you can quote multiple people in the same post. Just hit the multi button next to the posts you want to quote and then hit the quote button on the last one and you should be able to quote all of them in the same post.

[Zika]

I won't address the question of why girls like it, but I will say something about the issue of 'risk.' Withdrawal isn't a form of birth control, so whether I finish in her or on her, we're using at least one form of contraception and it's not withdrawal.

If we feel one form of birth control is too risky, we'll use two; but still, withdrawal isn't one of them.

There's a riddle about this:
Q: What'd you call a girl who uses withdrawal as birth control?
A: Mom (no smiley face here)

So to me, it's really not risky.

[Shiny Moon]

Like others said, we like how it feels, but I like it more if he finishes in my mouth or somewhere else.

[ChloeF]

[QUOTE=Zika;3839849]I won't address the question of why girls like it, but I will say something about the issue of 'risk.' Withdrawal isn't a form of birth control, so whether I finish in her or on her, we're using at least one form of contraception and it's not withdrawal.

If we feel one form of birth control is too risky, we'll use two; but still, withdrawal isn't one of them.

There's a riddle about this:
Q: What'd you call a girl who uses withdrawal as birth control?
A: Mom (no smiley face here)

So to me, it's really not risky.[/QUOTE
Your assertion that the withdrawal method isn't a means of birth control is wrong
lt's not perfect but it's accepted by the medical profession as a means of preventing pregnancy, carefully tracking your menstrual cycle and knowing when you're ovulating can make it relatively effective.

[LiberalTurboprop]

[QUOTE=Zika;3839849]I won't address the question of why girls like it, but I will say something about the issue of 'risk.' Withdrawal isn't a form of birth control, so whether I finish in her or on her, we're using at least one form of contraception and it's not withdrawal.

If we feel one form of birth control is too risky, we'll use two; but still, withdrawal isn't one of them.

There's a riddle about this:
Q: What'd you call a girl who uses withdrawal as birth control?
A: Mom (no smiley face here)

So to me, it's really not risky.[/QUOTE
Your assertion that the withdrawal method isn't a means of birth control is wrong
lt's not perfect but it's accepted by the medical profession as a means of preventing pregnancy, carefully tracking your menstrual cycle and knowing when you're ovulating can make it relatively effective.

That's true but I'd rather use a form of birth control which is more "almost always effective" rather than "relatively effective".

[Zika]

[QUOTE=Zika;3839849]I won't address the question of why girls like it, but I will say something about the issue of 'risk.' Withdrawal isn't a form of birth control, so whether I finish in her or on her, we're using at least one form of contraception and it's not withdrawal.

If we feel one form of birth control is too risky, we'll use two; but still, withdrawal isn't one of them.

There's a riddle about this:
Q: What'd you call a girl who uses withdrawal as birth control?
A: Mom (no smiley face here)

So to me, it's really not risky.[/QUOTE
Your assertion that the withdrawal method isn't a means of birth control is wrong
lt's not perfect but it's accepted by the medical profession as a means of preventing pregnancy, carefully tracking your menstrual cycle and knowing when you're ovulating can make it relatively effective.


Most legitimate sources say withdrawal is NOT a form of birth control.
Of those using withdrawal, 22 out of 100 will get pregnant each year. Most people don't consider that effective. Compare that to the pill, where less than one out of 100 get pregnant every year.

While the rhythm method is not the greatest, it is a legit method of birth control, unlike withdrawal.

[ChloeF]

[QUOTE=ChloeF;3839970]


Most legitimate sources say withdrawal is NOT a form of birth control.
Of those using withdrawal, 22 out of 100 will get pregnant each year. Most people don't consider that effective. Compare that to the pill, where less than one out of 100 get pregnant every year.

While the rhythm method is not the greatest, it is a legit method of birth control, unlike withdrawal.
Wrong again.

[Hermes]

Your assertion that the withdrawal method isn't a means of birth control is wrong
lt's not perfect but it's accepted by the medical profession as a means of preventing pregnancy, carefully tracking your menstrual cycle and knowing when you're ovulating can make it relatively effective.

There can be an issue with tracking your cycle and avoiding the day of ovulation and the few days before if your cycle is irregular but another issue is that doing that requires you to refrain from sex when your body is giving your strongest urge to have sex, i.e. when your horniness is at a peak.

It's probably best to avoid a discussion of absolutes, i.e. "it is" or "it isn't". It's all about risk. Some methods have a relatively high risk of failure (pregnancy) and others have a much lower risk.

A higher risk method can be OK if getting pregnant is not a disaster. Think forward a few years, You're married with a baby, you've talked to your partner and you plan to have at least one more baby but you think you'll wait a year or two because you think that's a good age gap. If the next baby came a bit sooner that wouldn't be a big problem, just not quite ideal. In that case using a less reliable method, if you happen to prefer it, is fine.

When getting pregnant when you didn't intend to means you'd be having to choose between an abortion and giving up higher/further education and therefore maybe compromising on what you intend to do for a living then it is obviously wise to choose a method that is very reliable.

[Gay Paul]

My GF is on the pill but it’s not fool proof. Iguess I’m just lucky that my GF hasn’t got preg.

In my country, it's been said that someone has more luck than the brain :D

Besides, I do not know if having coitus at your age is good :D

[Zika]

[QUOTE=Zika;3839996]
Wrong again.

Would you care to try and make your response intelligent?
"Wrong again" is useless.

[RCT109]

n/aa

[BJade]

Before contraceptives were invented the only forms of birth control were tracking you menstrual cycle, withdrawal or just not having sex. So back then even if there was a high likely of pregnancy it was better than without, but as we have other forms it's best to use them instead of relying on riskier options

[Zandra]

I just like the feeling of it feels good when a guy finishes inside me

How old were you when a guy ever finished inside you?

[AshleighB]

How old were you when a guy ever finished inside you?

I was 13

[Zandra]

I was 13

Last question how old was he?

[Zika]

[QUOTE=ChloeF;3839970]


She is right

She's right in her modified response.
As I said, the rhythm method, which is what she's describing, along with withdrawal can be effective.

[AshleighB]

Last question how old was he?

He was 13 too

[Connordude]

My GF is on the pill but it’s not fool proof. Iguess I’m just lucky that my GF hasn’t got preg.

Wtf? You’re like 9, stop that

[Connordude]

[QUOTE=ChloeF;3840018]

Would you care to try and make your response intelligent?
"Wrong again" is useless.

I think most of us are just shocked you’ve had sex

[HFrint]

Wtf? You’re like 9, stop that

I’m 13

[Connordude]

I’m 13

Rrrrrrrrrrright

[Uniquemind]

Just be safe people, std/STI deaths I predict will be on the rise soon worldwide.

[LiberalTurboprop]

Just be safe people, std/STI deaths I predict will be on the rise soon worldwide.

The worry is antibiotic bacterial diseases like gonorrhea and syphilis. People got really freaked out in the 80s and 90s by HIV but have become a little more lax about protection since then.

[Chris298]

For me I just enjoy cumming in my gf because it feels so intimate and makes me feel closer to her... it just feels really amazing when a girl lets you cum inside of her, not only does it feel great but it's like the ultimate sign of trust and love when a girl lets you finish.

[scott2002]

This seems to have quickly gotten so off-topic. Lemme try to bring it back...

I don't have a lot of experience with vaginal sex, but the first time I did it without a condom on and I felt my orgasm and the contractions starting, in my head I KNEW I was ejaculating my semen INTO the girl even though I couldn't see it happening. It was a huge rush in my head knowing that I was depositing my semen inside of her.
Maybe for girls, it is a very positive sign that a guy found you extremely sexy and attractive by the fact that YOUR body caused HIS body to reach a sexual climax while he was inside of you.

[Atlantis]

This thread is massively off topic now, so :locked:

I've deleted the vast majority of these posts in this thread for now - but do expect to hear more from us when I have a bit more time to handle this better...