I really don't know what to do.....

[Stanley]

So... I was talking to a girl the other day who I... kind of have a crush on...
My friend walked up behind me and tried to pull down my shorts as a joke but pulled down everything by accident. If you've seen me post before on here then you probably know I don't exactly have the biggest will in the world (1.8 inches hard, 1 inch soft) so I was mortified. She was very polite but she had to stop herself from laughing when she first saw it. I genuinely don't know what to do now...should I talk to her? or just leave it?

BTW I don't really want answers like: 'if she's really the one she won't care' because that's not very helpful...

[jamie_n5]

Well you have to first take it in account that she probably thought the whole thing was funny. She most likely was laughing or thinking the whole act of dropping your drawers was funny and not seeing your male equipment. I would just go on as if it didn't happen and do what you planned on doing toward her before any of this happened.

[ska8er]

She was laughing at the joke. I don't think
she was laughing at ur size-u just think that
way cause u r self conscious. Talk to her as
if it didn't happen.

[Maxbreak]

So... I was talking to a girl the other day who I... kind of have a crush on...
My friend walked up behind me and tried to pull down my shorts as a joke but pulled down everything by accident. If you've seen me post before on here then you probably know I don't exactly have the biggest will in the world (1.8 inches hard, 1 inch soft) so I was mortified. She was very polite but she had to stop herself from laughing when she first saw it. I genuinely don't know what to do now...should I talk to her? or just leave it?

BTW I don't really want answers like: 'if she's really the one she won't care' because that's not very helpful...

Agree with what's said so far. She's probably just involuntarily laughed at the general situation.
U will be speaking to her in general at some point. U may find she doesn't say anything as she's already forgotten about it. Does she know that U have a crush on her? It may be more that you are asking how to move things forward, like asking if she wants to meet up at the weekend. This has probably knocked Ur confidence. Just speak to her like U normally would. There's no need to mention it unless she asks aain

[joel02]

I sure she laughed for situation. i think everybody in that situation can laugh without notice cock size, too. everybody was embarassed if other pull down short and underwear. you felt you more embarassed because you know your size

[Matt 04]

If he did this at school, u should notify the principal since this is bullying. I would talk to her again and ask to meet somewhere like for ice cream. If she says no move on.

[Wtd_]

I would still talk to her and just pretend this whole incident didn't help. Also I think she probably just laughing at the joke and the whole awkwardness of the situation.

[justa16yearoldaussie]

yeah man, she might not have been laughing at your penis specifically. but if she was laughing and judging you, at least you spotted a red flag early?

[hairy balls]

Don't loose any sleep over it .

[Second Chance]

So... I was talking to a girl the other day who I... kind of have a crush on...
My friend walked up behind me and tried to pull down my shorts as a joke but pulled down everything by accident. If you've seen me post before on here then you probably know I don't exactly have the biggest will in the world (1.8 inches hard, 1 inch soft) so I was mortified. She was very polite but she had to stop herself from laughing when she first saw it. I genuinely don't know what to do now...should I talk to her? or just leave it?

BTW I don't really want answers like: 'if she's really the one she won't care' because that's not very helpful...

Based upon what you described I think the girl was laughing at the situation and not your penis. By your own description the girl was polite which means that she was not being a jerk to you. I am sure you are self conscious about having a penis on the smaller side, but you cannot let that stop you from having a relationship with someone you like.

In response to your question, you should talk to her and just pretend what had happened did not happen. Chances are she will be fine, and if you are an overall good person, then a small penis is not a deal breaker. You just have to accept the fact you are who you are, and you cannot get around your physical features. You cannot change your physical features, but you certainly can make your personality attractive.

Again, I think that the girl was not making an issue of your penis means that she is worth your time. Just talk with her to see where things go. If things do not work out, then at least you have tried rather than letting a small penis size hold you back.

[will2005x]

i'm sure she was just laughing about the situation rather than the penis haha!

[Diable rouge]

i'm sure she was just laughing about the situation rather than the penis haha!


I think so too.