Lasting

[comets106]

I am 17 and I am having a little problem. I am developed went through some of the steps puberty but my problem is I can only last about 1-2 minutes in bed before I am finished. Does this happen to all at first and I will grow out of it or what. Thanks.

[TheBiChristian]

Are you talking about that it takes you 1-2 minutes in bed before you are finished masturbating?

[comets106]

No having sexual intercourse but masturbating I done last long either.

[Ttssman]

Yeah I can last quite a while before squirting during sex but not that long during jerking off. Maybe try to Cut down on your masturbating.

[ksdnfkfr]

All I know is the slower I go the longer I last. I can cum in like a minute or I can stretch it out to like 10 minutes.

[ryzzz9]

jack off earlier in the day so you're not so sensitive when it's time to have sex, that works for me

[Swagging god]

All I know is the slower I go the longer I last. I can cum in like a minute or I can stretch it out to like 10 minutes.

Yes, speed can be a factor, slow down ( orgasm is accelerated by sensation, so the faster you move the more likely you are to cum from the sensation of the vaginal contraction(during orgasm) but before that you can also cum to soon by rubbing up against her vaginal wall, so just take it slow and relax. Remember that control emotions and staying calm is have the battle.


Sexual intercourse, particularly is: 60% mental and 40% physical, control your mind and your body should follow in line with it.

Good Luck!

[BreakFall]

Slow down pase yourself and good luck

[TheJoseph]

It's called premature ejaculation. you should go slower and some foreplay.

[emonerdz]

It takes me about 45 min but its usually we take our time and are more foreplay

[Curious.kid]

I never had real sex but when I masturbate I can't control it longer then 20 minutes. After that my little buddy starts begging for some relief and just starts spurting out my sperm.

[Ricky.h]

I am 17 and I am having a little problem. I am developed went through some of the steps puberty but my problem is I can only last about 1-2 minutes in bed before I am finished. Does this happen to all at first and I will grow out of it or what. Thanks.

When I have sex it overall can last 1-2 hours, but actual fucking can be about 30+....the trick is to slow down then speed up...then slow down and concentrate not to nut. When you come close to nutting slow down then change what you are doing---start fingering or do oral while kissing her (pay attention to naval and neck lol) but yeah just make sure she orgasms first then you do it


But on another note...even if you do nut early don't stop and let that be it, do some oral or fingering and then when you get hard go back to fucking.

Fucking does not have to last an hour
But SEX as a whole should on a minimum be an hour unless it's quickie...then that's when you can nut earlier of course, but make sure she gets off too


Source.....
(experience lol)

[nklarke]

What you have is called Premature ejaculation and you should visit a doctor as there are x factors. Read here: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Premature_ejaculation and I found this also http://ca.askmen.com/dating/dzimmer/14_love_answers.html

[swimmerbby]

I think it happens to everyone at first just slow down and really focus on her pleasure meant once she orgasms then you do and practice by yourself. When jerking go until you are about to jizz then stop focus all your energy in not nutting then start back up and do this a couple times or as many as you can. This also builds your orgasm and helps your shoot. Further . Enjoy

[ComfortableInChaos]

It's called premature ejaculation. you should go slower and some foreplay.

That's the clear sticky shit that comes out as a natural lube.

To the OP:
You could practice jacking off slower and it'll be a bit easier for you. If you slow down during sex, it'll help a lot more.

[The captain]

What you have is called Premature ejaculation and you should visit a doctor as there are x factors. Read here: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Premature_ejaculation and I found this also http://ca.askmen.com/dating/dzimmer/14_love_answers.html

Im virgin but I guess that's right

[toplels]

Most have already said this but just pace yourself. Practice while masturbating. Perfect your technique for making you last as long as possible with your best friend who will never judge: your hand. Although masturbating may not be exactly the same as sex it may help you learn approximately how long it takes for you to reach the point of no return, when to slow down, etc..

[Hey-Im-Connor]

i hear the more u do it the longer u last

[Landbuscus97]

Masturbating I usually last 15 mins, or if I have time 45min before I give in

[Captnnd]

That normally happens at first. You last longer the more you do it.

[From Chris]

I am 17 and I am having a little problem. I am developed went through some of the steps puberty but my problem is I can only last about 1-2 minutes in bed before I am finished. Does this happen to all at first and I will grow out of it or what. Thanks.

There is no right or wrong time to how long you can last in bed. There was a survey done in the U.S and most males didn't make it past 5 minutes. It is possible to grow out of, i would say it's more of a training exercise than something that occurs on it's own. The more self control you have the longer you can last! :)

-Chris <3

[Derek951]

Have you just started having intercourse, or have you and your partner/s being doing it for a while? I know everyone says "slow down" but that's not always easy to do. but definitely slow down, or take a break for a sec if you need. Wearing a condom also helps it last.

[joshylandon]

I heard that you can train yourself to last longer by edging. It really works for me!

[NeuroTiger]

It depends on how you incite yourself...it should be slow and soothing. ;)

[jayjay's toocool]

im the exact opposite... hmm weird i wonder what that is

[hockeyfan]

Mayb if u made the other person orgasm first u wouldn't b so conserned. U can't cum quickly while u use ur finger.

And it is normal to cum quickly the first few times u have sex.

[JerseyGuy]

Jerk off before you know you're gonna have sex

[Luminous]

Mayb if u made the other person orgasm first u wouldn't b so conserned. U can't cum quickly while u use ur finger.

And it is normal to cum quickly the first few times u have sex.

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