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Clay City
May 9th, 2019, 08:44 PM
I have been seen naked during puberty by mom, dad, half bro, cousin. Its no big deal to me. My half bro is over tonight and I came in my room in just my towel and I pulled it off (I was naked in front of him). He asked how I am able to be naked and not be embarrassed.
He is 9 and still scared to be seen, how do I get him comfortable with nudeness.
ska8er
May 9th, 2019, 10:10 PM
Tell him all guys have the same
body parts but there is nothing
wrong in being naked.
Stanley
May 10th, 2019, 12:52 AM
I dunno... I guess if the rest of you are naked all the time then hell get comfortable with it
justa16yearoldaussie
May 10th, 2019, 02:55 AM
you could tell him that its okay and you all won't judge but its up to him to overcome his fear/insecurity, unless you wanted to pressure him into it, which is wrong
Jake445
May 10th, 2019, 03:56 PM
It's probably something you grow up with but you should try and talk to him about it to see why he's shy or why he thinks it's wrong for some reason.
jamie_n5
May 10th, 2019, 04:00 PM
I would just talk to him as an older brother and tell him it's no big deal if your brothers, friends, dads, cousins or people in public changing rooms see you naked. Tell him that is quite normal and nothing to be scared or embarrassed about.
Maxbreak
May 10th, 2019, 04:24 PM
Just talk to him. Let him know that any changes that he sees in you will happen in a couple of years and what he has at 9 is normal and that we all grow at our own rate
abcdeqwe
May 10th, 2019, 05:24 PM
Well if he doesn’t want to you can’t force him but you could explain that there’s nothing to be embarrassed about
toby69
May 10th, 2019, 06:53 PM
Tell him that being naked is so comfortable, and that he should try it. Continue to be naked around him. It may get him to try it.
Diable rouge
May 10th, 2019, 08:06 PM
Explain him we should not be embarassed and that we are all the same but don't force him.
JayA
May 10th, 2019, 11:23 PM
It's probably something you grow up with but you should try and talk to him about it to see why he's shy or why he thinks it's wrong for some reason.
This would be the best -- I am body shy until I really get to know someone.
MasonBA
May 11th, 2019, 08:18 AM
Well if he doesn’t want to you can’t force him but you could explain that there’s nothing to be embarrassed about
I agree. Not everyone is comfortable being nude in front of others, both me and my brother have friends like that so we aren't nude around them.
He may change if he sees how comfortable you are and realizes it's not a big deal.
Clay City
May 11th, 2019, 10:40 AM
Tell him that being naked is so comfortable, and that he should try it. Continue to be naked around him. It may get him to try it.
I stayed naked the whole night. I even slept naked while he kept his shirt and underwear on. The next morning while he was showering I came in the bathroom naked and he covered his dick and I said we have the same thing.
Diable rouge
May 11th, 2019, 07:30 PM
I stayed naked the whole night. I even slept naked while he kept his shirt and underwear on. The next morning while he was showering I came in the bathroom naked and he covered his dick and I said we have the same thing.
He will probably not change his mind overnight. And you should have not entered the bathroom while he was there unless he allowed you.
kro814
May 11th, 2019, 08:25 PM
I wouldn't force your nudity on him. You might have slept in briefs if he was uncomfortable seeing you naked. Do you usually come in the bathroom while he is showering?
ShineintheDark
May 11th, 2019, 08:36 PM
Give him time to become more used to you and he'll probably become comfortable enough to at least try it out eventually. Everyone is comfortable with different things and he's just not used to you quite yet.
Falcons_11
May 11th, 2019, 11:12 PM
Younger kids are usually uncomfortable about being naked in front of other boys, especially if they are older. Maybe you can assure him that nudity is normal and there is nothing wrong with being naked around other boys. But, you should not force him. That would be wrong. In time, when he is comfortable with be naked, he will accept being naked with you.
Oscar-V3.0
May 12th, 2019, 05:44 AM
I have been seen naked during puberty by mom, dad, half bro, cousin. Its no big deal to me. My half bro is over tonight and I came in my room in just my towel and I pulled it off (I was naked in front of him). He asked how I am able to be naked and not be embarrassed.
He is 9 and still scared to be seen, how do I get him comfortable with nudeness.
Every one is different, some are comfortable being naked, others are not (like me) Dont force him
Hhfjjfhd6
May 12th, 2019, 01:33 PM
Try to talk with him about it. I personally would show him that it’s okay to be naked. Show him there’s nothing to be scared of.
Clay City
May 13th, 2019, 02:15 AM
I wouldn't force your nudity on him. You might have slept in briefs if he was uncomfortable seeing you naked. Do you usually come in the bathroom while he is showering?
Had to Pee badly. Mom was in the other one.
Zika
May 15th, 2019, 01:47 PM
I would ask him if he's uncomfortable with you being naked in front of him. If he is, it would be nice for you to cover up.
If he's not uncomfortable with you being naked, then just continue with what you're doing and he may at some point join you. I don't think there's any reason to try and convince him to do that, though. He has a different sense of modesty than you and that's ok.
He might also feel uncomfortable because presumable you are more developed than he.
HFrint
May 17th, 2019, 07:51 PM
I have been seen naked during puberty by mom, dad, half bro, cousin. Its no big deal to me. My half bro is over tonight and I came in my room in just my towel and I pulled it off (I was naked in front of him). He asked how I am able to be naked and not be embarrassed.
He is 9 and still scared to be seen, how do I get him comfortable with nudeness.
Get him to be in just undies ... it could be a stepping stone to nudity in front of just you
scott2002
May 18th, 2019, 12:00 AM
...He is 9 and still scared to be seen, how do I get him comfortable with nudeness.
Let him see you completely nude, and let him see you totally comfortable with being nude (in appropriate situations, of course, like in the privacy of your bedrooms before or after taking showers, etc.).
Since he's just 9, how about you two showering together once in a while? Let him know this is like what he'll find later in school, especially with sports, where all guys on the team get naked and shower together. It might make him feel more grown up that way, being naked with you and showering with you.
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