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Elisha
March 31st, 2014, 11:28 PM
Is anyone comfortable still showering with a family member ??

melissa13
April 1st, 2014, 08:51 AM
We do in our family, we are nudist so its no biggie.

Lisa R
April 1st, 2014, 09:05 AM
I use to with my twin brother till the age of 10 .
Now he showers by himself and i shower alone.
As we got older the shower got smaller more convenience this way.

Emmaxxoo
April 1st, 2014, 09:07 AM
I have showered with my cousin when we were younger but not now but im comfortable with my body so showering with anyone is no biggie

Kelsey1031
April 1st, 2014, 10:19 AM
I occasionally shower with my brother if we are running late in the morning. its no big deal for us.

Alex_M
April 1st, 2014, 12:08 PM
I've never showered with my brother, but if I need something from the bathroom and he is in there, I just walk in and get it. Its not big deal.

Sminkelaks
April 1st, 2014, 12:15 PM
I wouldn't be comfortable showering with someone that close.

ninja789
April 1st, 2014, 01:03 PM
Not something we would do in my family

jenna123
April 1st, 2014, 04:10 PM
last time i showered with a family member was with my sister when we were 12. Then obviously the shower got too small for the both of us and we started going into puberty so i havent showered with a family member since then. I wouldnt really feel comfortable, maybe with my sister it would be ok, but still it would be a bit awkward

Jenni.
April 1st, 2014, 05:11 PM
Not with my parents but when we're in a hurry and we don't have more choice I do it with my sister.

SammyG17
April 1st, 2014, 05:45 PM
Yep, we all shower together. Generally our rule is that if the door is shut, don't bother the person because there is usually a...smell...to go with them. But for everything else (shaving, showering, teeth brushing, etc) its fine for whoever, whenever. But we are nudists so it really isn't anything big.

KaraaaHope
April 1st, 2014, 06:22 PM
If I had siblings I would, sure. But I'm the only child.

honeybear
April 1st, 2014, 08:45 PM
both parents from time to time and my cousin before...no biggie

Luminous
April 1st, 2014, 09:26 PM
when I was little my parents made me and my sister take a bath together once a week, that was it.. you can tell they cared so much about our hygiene lol. When we got older we occasionally showered together but stopped a few years ago.

ozteen
April 2nd, 2014, 06:20 AM
l used to take a bath with my little brother when l was younger, but it's usually been one person at a time in the bathroom for ages now...

emily-candace
April 2nd, 2014, 07:38 AM
I have only showered with girlfriends if we sleep over and we are in a hurry to get to school or something like that. I mean whats the difference, we shower together at school. but I would never shower with family members.

brybrymanc
April 2nd, 2014, 08:22 AM
Me and my family are also naturists and we have often showered together at our club or in communal showers. It is obviously normal to us

Pensive
April 2nd, 2014, 12:16 PM
both parents from time to time and my cousin before...no biggie

You shower with your dad??

SammyG17
April 2nd, 2014, 05:45 PM
You shower with your dad??


My dad, brother, uncle, sister, cousins, mom, friends of the family, male female, young and old, my sister's friends, my friends, my brother's friends lol.

AnnaBeesley
April 2nd, 2014, 08:19 PM
me and my sister used to bath together but the last time was when i was 12. It was good though.

vickilynn
April 3rd, 2014, 06:23 PM
I shower with my family sometimes. It doesn't matter who is in the shower, just get in. We don't wear clothes at home. Even in our pool, none of us have a suit.

Elisha
April 3rd, 2014, 11:55 PM
Thanks for your responses, i feel a bit more comfortable knowing im not the only one who does share a shower with family members

Tatii99
April 4th, 2014, 03:03 AM
Nowadays only with my mom, younger sister and older brother.

honeybear
April 5th, 2014, 08:02 AM
You shower with your dad??

sure why not? it isn't like we see each other naked all the time anyway.

vickilynn
April 5th, 2014, 08:24 AM
You shower with your dad??

I know most people would complain about that. But raised in a nudist family from birth, seeing each other is the least of our problems. We have two bathes. I am glad that we are nudists because we don't have to wait like other families to use the bathroom or changing our clothes. For me, seeing my family clothed is weird.

margaret
April 5th, 2014, 02:52 PM
I'll shower or take a bath with my mom sometimes.

Pensive
April 5th, 2014, 05:40 PM
sure why not? it isn't like we see each other naked all the time anyway.

But you are an attractive young woman - doesn't he ever get hard? ...

Would be majorally awkward for me haha but I'm seriously non-nudist!

mDavis97
April 5th, 2014, 06:12 PM
I've been in a big hurry before and showered with my sisters, not all at once, but on separate occasions. They are 16, 13 and 11 years old.

vickilynn
April 5th, 2014, 06:22 PM
But you are an attractive young woman - doesn't he ever get hard? ...

Would be majorally awkward for me haha but I'm seriously non-nudist!

Having a family that is always nude and being positive, hard ons happen. We all see it and it is natural for us. That doesn't change anything when my brother or dad gets hard. So no, it is not awkward. What would be awkward in my household is to wear something.

honeybear
April 5th, 2014, 08:43 PM
But you are an attractive young woman - doesn't he ever get hard? ...

Would be majorally awkward for me haha but I'm seriously non-nudist!


nah not awkward in the least he gets hard all the time but I don't think anything of it..I've been seeing nude people since I was in diapers so it would be more odd to be around clothedpeople lol

ccof97
April 7th, 2014, 04:44 PM
My family and I aren't nudists at all, but we comfortable with nudity. I am an only child but I have showered and taken baths with my mom and even with some of my mom's boyfriends if we were in a hurry. I also shower with friends a lot. I don't think that it's a big deal.

AbigailBM98
April 8th, 2014, 11:20 AM
I shower with my sister who is a year older occasionally

Pensive
April 8th, 2014, 06:30 PM
Having a family that is always nude and being positive, hard ons happen. We all see it and it is natural for us. That doesn't change anything when my brother or dad gets hard. So no, it is not awkward. What would be awkward in my household is to wear something.

nah not awkward in the least he gets hard all the time but I don't think anything of it..I've been seeing nude people since I was in diapers so it would be more odd to be around clothedpeople lol

I'm an orphan so my views are kinda slanted (and I hve a thing for my sister...)

But I just don't see how that... I dunno...
Surely having a hard dick waving about near your face or bum is too tempting sometimes lol... I wouldn't know WHERE to look in a cramped shower...

Surely if your siblings and dad get hard over your naked body, you get wet over theirs - and that leads to thinking certain things..

I dunno, just ignore me lol all sounds very odd to me

biancachica
April 8th, 2014, 06:38 PM
not anymore

vickilynn
April 9th, 2014, 02:58 PM
I'm an orphan so my views are kinda slanted (and I hve a thing for my sister...)

But I just don't see how that... I dunno...
Surely having a hard dick waving about near your face or bum is too tempting sometimes lol... I wouldn't know WHERE to look in a cramped shower...

Surely if your siblings and dad get hard over your naked body, you get wet over theirs - and that leads to thinking certain things..

I dunno, just ignore me lol all sounds very odd to me

Well...last night, I'd got in with my dad. My mom was brushing her teeth. Their shower is huge, a walk-in one. He was hard but it is normal for us. We don't door on our showers, it's all open. His penis was very close to me and bumped into me several times, so what. We are not sexual, just comfortable. So if you go to a nudist camp, you might shower openly next to an opposite gender anyway. I rather it be my dad. Things don't lead to certain things. My brother and dad can be hard all day and I will still give them a hug or sit right next to them. I don't think about sex around them. They can be hard right next to me , all day, and I don't think like that. We do the same thing that a clothed family would do, but we are nude. A lot people are not use to this lifestyle. I'd did a lot research about this myself. In many other countries, naked families are the norm, like Germany. My cousin, who is station in Germany, he said his girlfriend family is always nude like us. He even sees people walking around their home and city parks nude. When he drove to another country up north, he saw several men and women walking around in the towns nude.

Pensive
April 9th, 2014, 05:07 PM
Well...last night, I'd got in with my dad. My mom was brushing her teeth. Their shower is huge, a walk-in one. He was hard but it is normal for us. We don't door on our showers, it's all open. His penis was very close to me and bumped into me several times, so what. We are not sexual, just comfortable. So if you go to a nudist camp, you might shower openly next to an opposite gender anyway. I rather it be my dad. Things don't lead to certain things. My brother and dad can be hard all day and I will still give them a hug or sit right next to them. I don't think about sex around them. They can be hard right next to me , all day, and I don't think like that. We do the same thing that a clothed family would do, but we are nude. A lot people are not use to this lifestyle. I'd did a lot research about this myself. In many other countries, naked families are the norm, like Germany. My cousin, who is station in Germany, he said his girlfriend family is always nude like us. He even sees people walking around their home and city parks nude. When he drove to another country up north, he saw several men and women walking around in the towns nude.

I spoke to my older brother about this;

He said guys only get hard if they see something sexually exciting, or are in a sexual situation. They must be thinking, even subconsciously, about sex with that person - especially to STAY hard for a period of time.

For example seeing a naked old woman or a 4 year old child wouldn't cause an erection, but seeing a 16 year old girl naked might.

So you may not be thinking sexual thoughts but he is.... The sexual excitement (your naked body) the stimulating sexual situation (showering with you next to him).

I'm not saying he'd ever do anything to you, but it's a biological perspective and something to think about. His hard penis brushing against you no longer sounds so innocent... Especially if it's a big walk in shower. And he knows you are making him hard... Cus well, it's pretty damn obvious that he's pointing at you lol...

Whole different culture, please don't take this as a flame

Abnormal
April 9th, 2014, 08:24 PM
Hm...well, I definitely could see why someone would be put off by showering with someone else, especially with one of the opposite sex. But, if that's the kinda thing you grew up doing then no one can really call you on it. There are a lot of people on this Earth who feel comfortable in their skin and that's fine.

Me, personally? I'd only really shower with a very close female relative. You'd have to do some professional debating to get me to take a shower with you if you're male, family or not...unless I'm in a relationship with you(which, is something that I wouldn't be in with a male family member, mind you).

lilmisslucylee
April 9th, 2014, 08:46 PM
Yeah i still shower with my brother from time to time

radsniper
April 9th, 2014, 08:57 PM
used to but havn't in a long time i got my reasons

SammyG17
April 9th, 2014, 08:58 PM
I spoke to my older brother about this;

He said guys only get hard if they see something sexually exciting, or are in a sexual situation. They must be thinking, even subconsciously, about sex with that person - especially to STAY hard for a period of time.


What?

Morning erections prevent urine from leaking out while a male is sleeping, and have nothing to do with sex.

Most teenagers, and older males will get "nerve" erections, brought on by the body trying to calm the nerves (think before a presentation, or before a big test.)

I've personally seen wind cause a number of guys to get hard. (Ah, the 4th of july with nudist friends, but burns suck)

Erections can also happen (and even stay erect) for no particular reason at all, other than the body can. Sometimes its for muscle stretching (yep the penis is a specialized type of muscle, and it needs to get a work out sometimes too, only in this case, hard) Think of it like stretching if you've been sitting for a long time.

I've showered with many men, with and without erections. And only on certain occasions has it ever lead to something more. 93% of the time, its just a regular shower. Erection or not.

Pensive
April 10th, 2014, 05:14 AM
What?

Morning erections prevent urine from leaking out while a male is sleeping, and have nothing to do with sex.

Most teenagers, and older males will get "nerve" erections, brought on by the body trying to calm the nerves (think before a presentation, or before a big test.)

I've personally seen wind cause a number of guys to get hard. (Ah, the 4th of july with nudist friends, but burns suck)

Erections can also happen (and even stay erect) for no particular reason at all, other than the body can. Sometimes its for muscle stretching (yep the penis is a specialized type of muscle, and it needs to get a work out sometimes too, only in this case, hard) Think of it like stretching if you've been sitting for a long time.

I've showered with many men, with and without erections. And only on certain occasions has it ever lead to something more. 93% of the time, its just a regular shower. Erection or not.

Sorry but all of that (except the wind as you've witnessed that) is true.

It's simply all wrong and not scientifically accurate. I'm a male. I, and the other males I know disagree with you. Unfortunately you've learnt a lot of myths.

The penis doesn't do its own yoga randomly, it gets flacid in high pressure situations (hence erectile dysfunction).

Hope this doesn't break the rules!

- Aly's brother.

vickilynn
April 10th, 2014, 07:44 AM
Sorry but all of that (except the wind as you've witnessed that) is true.

It's simply all wrong and not scientifically accurate. I'm a male. I, and the other males I know disagree with you. Unfortunately you've learnt a lot of myths.

The penis doesn't do its own yoga randomly, it gets flacid in high pressure situations (hence erectile dysfunction).

Hope this doesn't break the rules!

- Aly's brother.

If you are a male, why do you have a female setting?

Pensive
April 10th, 2014, 12:12 PM
If you are a male, why do you have a female setting?

As I said I typed it up for my brother it's his response (I didn't let him use my account haha if he saw what I've said on here I'd die...)

Sorry Mods if that isn't allowed!

Lol loads of girls on here know I'm a girl xD

anny01
April 13th, 2014, 03:13 AM
I take a shower with my mom once or twice per week.

mermaidfairy
April 14th, 2014, 09:03 PM
I used to do it when I was little, but definitely wouldn't be comfortable with it anymore.

Harley Quinn
April 15th, 2014, 06:44 PM
This has nothing to do with puberty. :locked: