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Becauseyou'recutecx
March 31st, 2014, 08:03 PM
Okay so I don't know like if I'm straight gay bi or curious. I like girls but I'm only romantically attracted to them like I've had long relationships with girls and been into it I'd kiss a girl and go all the way but for some reason I just don't feel a sexual attraction to them. I think their pretty and stuff but I don't like look at them and think she's hot or anything like that. I've always seen guys as attractive like my whole life and I've had crushes on guys but they only last about a week and then I get over it I've had one boyfriend before and it just felt weird so we broke up. I'd kiss a guy give him a hand job or blow job but anal just seems kinda gross to me. Having sex with a girl doesn't seem gross I'd do it. I'm not sure if I'm just in denial of being gay and just make my attraction for girls up. Soooo what do you think. I have mostly girl friends because the guys where I live and I don't have much in common. Some people say I act like a girl like worry about how I look and talk like a girl. I want to be like manly but I'm not sure how. So how do guys act? Please don't tell me I don't need to change because I want to. I want to change for me not anyone else and please don't say stuff like you're too young to be worrying about labels. I'm sorry for the long post too...

Croconaw
March 31st, 2014, 08:27 PM
You don't need to change yourself, as being homosexual is nothing to be ashamed of. The fact that you had to tell us this shows you're too young to be worrying about labels. You're probably bisexual which means you're attracted to both sexes. Why are you asking us how guys act? It makes absolutely no sense. Everyone is different and no guy acts the exact same way. Don't try and act like other guys in an attempt to become more like a man. Only you know for sure what your sexuality is. You're going to have to figure that out for yourself.

Becauseyou'recutecx
March 31st, 2014, 09:10 PM
Oh I just realized how stupid that whole "how do guys act" thing looks I know everyone's different but I was asking like how do most guys act and how do the guys that are going to post a reply act. And I'm really not ashamed of it. I don't know why but I just wanna act more like a boy. I see that I act like a girl and that's not cute xD so yeah that's why I wanna change.