I think friend has crush on me but I'm not sure(pls help)

[CubicHero]

Ok. I know it's a lot of reading but pls read it and maybe someone help me.

Sooo. I'm on the first year of the high-school and the thing is that I have friend in my class who acts like she has crush on me but I'm not sure.
On the one hand she does things like: Hugging me sometimes, leaning head on my shoulder, touching my hands, smiling at me a lot, bitting me sometimes(once when I was lying at desk and she bit my neck),make funny things with me and so on.
But on the other hand sometimes she acts like she doesn't really care about me and she does nothing from that what I wrote.
Btw she is a little shy and as she told: She is little scared of people. When we are with other friends she mostly use her phone and checks Tumblr.
But when we are alone she mostly talks with me and almost doesn't use her phone.
Also when I asked her a couple times to go out with me and other friends somewhere she didn't want to but when I asked
her to go somewhere only with me she immediately accepted invitation.
OK and last thing. It's confusing for me because(Maybe I'm stupid here) she is a big fan of anime and manga and I heard once that acting like that is normal for such people(Sorry if I offend someone)

[JamesSuperBoy]

Ok. I know it's a lot of reading but pls read it and maybe someone help me.

Sooo. I'm on the first year of the high-school and the thing is that I have friend in my class who acts like she has crush on me but I'm not sure.
On the one hand she does things like: Hugging me sometimes, leaning head on my shoulder, touching my hands, smiling at me a lot, bitting me sometimes(once when I was lying at desk and she bit my neck),make funny things with me and so on.
But on the other hand sometimes she acts like she doesn't really care about me and she does nothing from that what I wrote.
Btw she is a little shy and as she told: She is little scared of people. When we are with other friends she mostly use her phone and checks Tumblr.
But when we are alone she mostly talks with me and almost doesn't use her phone.
Also when I asked her a couple times to go out with me and other friends somewhere she didn't want to but when I asked
her to go somewhere only with me she immediately accepted invitation.
OK and last thing. It's confusing for me because(Maybe I'm stupid here) she is a big fan of anime and manga and I heard once that acting like that is normal for such people(Sorry if I offend someone)


How do you mean with the anime and manga?

[CubicHero]

Well. I heard that bitting friends, hugging them and so on is normal if someone is a big fan of anime and manga(Maybe I act now like total idiot but I never had such friend)

[FullyAlive]

Well. I heard that bitting friends, hugging them and so on is normal if someone is a big fan of anime and manga(Maybe I act now like total idiot but I never had such friend)

I have never heard this, I have many friends who are very tactile and huggy and many who aren't and it doesn't seem to relate to if they like anime.

But when you asked her to go out somewhere with just you, how did she act when you went? Did she seem to treat it like a date or not? I wouldn't be able to tell if she liked you from just what you've said, she could be just being friendly.

But say she does like you would you be interested in pursuing something with her? If you would then you could just ask her if she likes someone and gage her response if she says yes but doesn't tell you who then personally I'd think it could be you and you might have a shot. But just wait and see what happens.

[DiamondsGirl]

I am a huge anime and manga fan and here's what I can tell you: NO, it's not normal to bite and hug someone you don't have a feeling for even in the fictional world of anime. Seriously though... bite?? What's this girl doing LOL

I don't think you have told us what do you think of her. So do you feel uncomfortable? If yes, go on and tell her that you don't appreciate being... err... bitten (oh gosh it feels so weird typing this LOL). If you don't mind and you like her back, why don't you really find out what does she think about you? :)

[CubicHero]

I am a huge anime and manga fan and here's what I can tell you: NO, it's not normal to bite and hug someone you don't have a feeling for even in the fictional world of anime. Seriously though... bite?? What's this girl doing LOL

I don't think you have told us what do you think of her. So do you feel uncomfortable? If yes, go on and tell her that you don't appreciate being... err... bitten (oh gosh it feels so weird typing this LOL). If you don't mind and you like her back, why don't you really find out what does she think about you? :) Wellllll. I think she is nice and can be even cute sometimes.
Also I like her and I like to spend time with her. And to be honest I don't fell uncomfortable when she bites me. Hmm btw I forgot to write that something like month after she started to act like i wrote, she hmmm "became my shadow".
I mean that she is always near me at school and she always wanna sit with me.

[backjruton]

My friends used to (and probably still do but I sadly don't see them anymore) bite people but I know that wasn't down to a crush as they actually tried quite hard to make people bleed.

My friend in college sounds the same as this though...
every time our tutor is speaking at the front of the group and for some reason says the word "Spanking", we give eachother the awkward look
She always sits next to me when we're actually in the room (then she goes off onto the computers and I huddle up to another friend :D)
She keeps hugging me, standing on my foot, playing with my hair, very awkward conversations, randomly talking about sex... tbh it's too much for me :kitty:

I've told her time and time again though I have a crush on a guy friend (who I always act weirder around without meaning to) and... she has a crush on a girl friend (and actually managed to kiss her which I find incredibly funny) too so I'm happy with that. Just extremely weird friendships we have I guess :cool:

[CharlieHorse]

Have you ever thought of just honestly asking her if she likes you?
start with that

[ARandom.Person]

She is definitely crushing on you, she is just shy. Take this from a person that is shy to be around my crush's friends.