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Cheesydog567
March 31st, 2014, 03:26 PM
I have liked this girl who I know for over 2 years and have never had the courage to ask her out. She has known I like her for about a year and doesn't seem to give any signals that she doesn't like me. She has no problem talking about me liking her. Today was the first time in a while where we could have a proper conversation, she kept touching my arm and was really giddy. She has over the past few weeks been telling me things about her early childhood and the death of one of her parents. Also she has shared some sexual things too like fetishes. I'm not sure what to do, what should I do
Caver
March 31st, 2014, 03:44 PM
If today was the first time ever having a conversation with her, continue to keep having conversations. Give the regular conversations a few weeks and then tell her again and remind her how you feel, but soften it by saying "I don't expect you to like me back" because otherwise, she may think you just want to talk to her in order to go out with her.
JamesSuperBoy
March 31st, 2014, 03:57 PM
I have liked this girl who I know for over 2 years and have never had the courage to ask her out. She has known I like her for about a year and doesn't seem to give any signals that she doesn't like me. She has no problem talking about me liking her. Today was the first time in a while where we could have a proper conversation, she kept touching my arm and was really giddy. She has over the past few weeks been telling me things about her early childhood and the death of one of her parents. Also she has shared some sexual things too like fetishes. I'm not sure what to do, what should I do
maybe you have to judge this carefully - only you really know her but you have to keep talking and make time for conversation
Cheesydog567
March 31st, 2014, 05:22 PM
If today was the first time ever having a conversation with her, continue to keep having conversations. Give the regular conversations a few weeks and then tell her again and remind her how you feel, but soften it by saying "I don't expect you to like me back" because otherwise, she may think you just want to talk to her in order to go out with her.
What I meant was it was the first time in possibly two weeks that we had a good meaningful conversation
She also said that "we don't hang out enough" and she feels that she "never sees me".
DiamondsGirl
April 1st, 2014, 03:53 AM
I don't see why it would hurt to shoot the big question here.
"Would you be my girlfriend?"
Cheesydog567
April 1st, 2014, 10:30 AM
I don't see why it would hurt to shoot the big question here.
"Would you be my girlfriend?"
I would but if she says no we still have to work together every day and that could be awkward
DiamondsGirl
April 2nd, 2014, 07:15 AM
For a while, but not forever :) seriously it's better to have asked and got rejected than never have asked at all.
Hope Is Here
April 4th, 2014, 02:28 AM
Just kiss her hand! Like a gentleman and ask her) It is so sweet) Don't be afraid of rejection, it is just another step of your life. GOOD LUCK! <3
Tatii99
April 4th, 2014, 02:34 AM
Keep talking a few more days, then ask her out :) I have a feeling you won't get rejected ;) good luck!
xo
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