Poll: Losing virginity

[Remora]

Just a question for both the guys and the girls-

What do you consider "virginity" for males? Do they necessarily have to not ever have stuck their sexual organs into any holes around the crotch or does it -have- to be that eerie V-shaped thing women consider their sensitive part?

In English:
Do you think people have lost their virginity if they had anal sex with another guy? With another female? Vaginal sex? Oral sex, or even mutual masturbation?

[ScottishCanary]

I think this is a topic that many people will have their own opinions and views on and I would be very interested to hear them all. For me a guy loses his virginity when he has vaginal or anal sex with a female or anal sex with a male. To me mutual masturbation or oral sex is not really losing your virginity (though I could see the argument for oral sex meaning a loss of virginity).

[Gamma Male]

I'm not interested in arguing over the meaning of words. Everything is what it is, regardless of how we perceive and label it. Some people have had anal intercourse, some people have had vaginal intercourse, some people have had oral intercourse, and some people have had none. I'll leave it to other people to bicker over labeling these groups of people.

[NeuroTiger]

For me...any penetration performed on or received from another individual is considered loss of virginity.
(I'll make an exception for oral sex since it's only a stimulant most of the time ;) )

[Rallo]

Well, in traditional terms virginity only includes 'mature' sex, so that's A going into the traditional B. (A males penis going into a females vagina)
For a male+female situation, I don't believe oral or anal count, due to this being considered the 'mature' or 'natural' way for it to be done in that situation.

With homosexuality though, this same definition can not be used due to the nature of the situation and so becomes a matter of opinion. My personal opinion, for 2 males it would be anal that counts towards losing it, though only for the guy who is actually puting his A into their B.

[ninja789]

anal yes
others no

[Hollywood]

For straight guys, I'd consider vaginal sex losing your virginity. I don't think anal sex would count, and oral definitely wouldn't. I don't know about gay guys, but I'd assume doing anal with another guy would be considered losing your virginity. There's really no set definition there though, everyone has a different opinion and none of them are necessarily right or wrong.

[phuckphace]

For straight guys, I'd consider vaginal sex losing your virginity. I don't think anal sex would count, and oral definitely wouldn't.

:confused: why would anal count for a gay guy but not a straight one? either way you're still putting your penor into someone else's hole and ejaculating. virginity status: revoked

oral is debatable but personally I've always associated virginity with chastity - once you've had sexual contact with someone you're not chaste and therefore have popped your literal or figurative cherry.

[Hollywood]

:confused: why would anal count for a gay guy but not a straight one? either way you're still putting your penor into someone else's hole and ejaculating. virginity status: revoked

oral is debatable but personally I've always associated virginity with chastity - once you've had sexual contact with someone you're not chaste and therefore have popped your literal or figurative cherry.

Like I said, it's a matter of opinion. Personally, I would still consider myself a virgin if I had anal sex. But that's just me, if another straight guy has anal and says he's no longer a virgin I wouldn't say he's wrong.

[phuckphace]

Like I said, it's a matter of opinion. Personally, I would still consider myself a virgin if I had anal sex. But that's just me, if another straight guy has anal and says he's no longer a virgin I wouldn't say he's wrong.

you're quite the loophole expert, you'd make a good patent lawyer :cool:

[cherylcherylX2]

Well, I've considered myself a virgin before I did vaginal sex, so I think I only consider losing your hymen as losing your virginity.

[Emmaxxoo]

Only vaginal or oral if gay

[Typhlosion]

Penetration.