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stickystick
March 31st, 2019, 10:31 AM
Hello,

So basically, this is a very long story and I’ll try to put all my thoughts into as little text as possible so just bare with me. I’m 15. I have an insane crush for a girl that I’ve went out once with. I use snapchat/instagram to communicate with her. So, I feel like she doesn’t get my message. I try to give her subtle signs that I like her. For example, I screenshoted her story and told her she had a cute outfit or once she sends me a snap I’ll message her the heart eye emoji. And she does respond back and stuff, she never uses emojis and just says like "Kissssss" (translated from my language). But I have a few concerns. For one, she always takes ages to respond. For two, she seened me a few times, just did it right now as we’re speaking For three, she never really said that she likes me or anything. I also think that I’m probably boring to her since I try to like start a conversations with her and I type a lot to her. Also, on instagram, she put on her story for people to talk to her on ig and snapchat instead of like talking to me lol. I mean, I think I’m just lost. Should I just let her know how I’m feeling? I’m pretty nervous to do that since I already get teased by my classmates which like yell her name at me and tell me that she’s hot. So like, I don’t know. I really like her and would like to be in a relationship with her but I guess I’m just too afraid to ask if she feels the same way. Any response is very much appreaciated.

EthanMTX
March 31st, 2019, 11:17 AM
Yes, go tell her dude. My mom said this to me many times…get off social media and go talk. Whatever the reason. It's harder yes, but like it will mean more either way.

ska8er
March 31st, 2019, 12:29 PM
How long have u known her? U only went
out with her once. I think the two of u have
to get acquainted a bit more before u expect
her to give u more attention. Call her/text her
and invite her to go out again and then ask her
if she likes u.

ArfyMcPeesh
March 31st, 2019, 03:20 PM
I have the exact same problem and no matter what I do it’s like I’m a fallback friend like I only get talked to when no one else is around but I’m also afraid to tell the truth bc what happens if she isn’t interested and then it’s worse than before. It’s tough dude I know

Emilyfox
March 31st, 2019, 10:08 PM
Run.
Don’t look back

antandlope
April 1st, 2019, 05:50 AM
Go ask her to go on a day out with you again :) then you can gauge how she’s feeling too :)