The talk

[Hhfjjfhd6]

When you were going through puberty, did your dad/brother talk to you about puberty and sex? We’re they open to your questions? Did they give you any hints or tricks? What was it like for you? Is your dad open about this kind of stuff?

[scott2002]

I remember my dad saw me naked getting out of the shower and his eyes darted right to my dick area, now with a number of dark hairs growing all around it. I think I was barely 12. Then he came in my room and asked me if my friends were, "Talking about jerkin' off yet". I said back to him, "Talkin' about what?" He said, "Never mind." and left my room.
Looking back, I think he wanted to talk to me about all of this, but then chickened out.

[jamie_n5]

My mom talked to me about sex and things. We also had a good class in health in school on sex education.

[mick01]

I have a brother who is 4 years older than me. Starting when I was around 10 and saw him playing with his dick, I have been asking him questions about everything, including puberty stuff and sex. I will always be grateful to him for how open and willing he was to talk to me. My dad gave it a shot a couple of times and was and is always willing but its better to talk to my brother.

[CAD 4]

No I never received the talk, but questions were never off the table. My parents were very open when it came to questions.

[ArfyMcPeesh]

My dad basically has never even brought up anything about sex with me. Thank god my cousin took it upon himself to loop me in like he says

[JayA]

Can talk to Dad about anything -- have had multiple stages on the talk depending on how old I was -- young the basics, nothing to detailed -- last talk was probably a couple of years ago and got into the details...

[Diable rouge]

They did, a little.

[teenboyNathan]

I didn't get the talk from my dad but he did say I could ask questions if I had some. I just basically learned it from the internet and friends. Health class also helped out a bit

[toby69]

No talk, but when I was 11 my Mom, out of the blue, told me that soon sperm would be coming out of my dick. That is all she said. I shot for the first time when I was 12 and jacking off.

[justa16yearoldaussie]

i’ve been completely concealed with all that stuff lol

[EthanMTX]

Both my mom and dad have had the talk with me about sex, puberty many times and still do some mainly bc my middle brother already has a kid. They also talked to me about respecting women and respect for myself and no means no, both ways. Being of good character and having integrity. They are very open, and I can ask anything. It helped a lot since I was a late bloomer.

[Jake445]

My parents tried to tell me and my twin about sex but we gently told them that we're just fine already. We ended with them always being open to questions, which we knew already, but it was still nice!

[MasonBA]

My dad and I talked, still do. He explained sex, puberty, masturbation. If I have a question to ask it's very easy for me to ask, he doesn't judge or make me feel awkward or embarrassed, same for my little brother. I'm a little behind my friends and most of the boys at school developing and he assures me I'll still grow and no matter what size I end up at it will be fine.

[NoName2001]

My dad is pretty open with me about sex stuff ad puberty stuff. he wasn't at first, he seemed shy about it and would say to talk to him if i have any questions. My older bro kinda told me a lot before my dad did. i think it was because he was a bit of a show off when he got pubes and i asked him about them. he was more than happy to tell me about them haha

[Samwd]

Nope I never got the talk from any of my parents. Not even from an older sibling. I have never asked a question before so I dont know how they would react. I dont think any of my siblings have asked either. I basically learned from health class and friends

[thematt002]

I never had "the talk" but I'm sure i can ask my parents if I need it. They're pretty open

[Skate2001]

We had lessons in class. But my parents sorta spoke about it as they're always on about my low weight.

[Tsall]

My mom told me the bare minimum when it came to puberty. She just sat me down in my kitchen and told me that my penis will start growing and I will get pubic hair and stuff. It took all of 5 minutes. The next day my older brother sat me down in his room and told me everything, about masturbation, everything about sex (showed me some amateur porn that got the idea across). I prefer his way of teaching me. And that’s how I taught my little brother, even though we see each other naked all the time, and that he started growing and ejaculating before me

[ska8er]

My parents r doctors-he just
gave me a book and said read it
and if I had any questions just
ask him. Well I grew up with
medical books-so I got to c a
lot of stuff but I never asked-
I came here 5 years ago-LOL

[abcdeqwe]

Never had a talk like that with any of my relatives

[arnorway]

i had several talks with my dad, not just one. wasn't just about "the usual" (puberty changes, intercourse), but also about respect and love. also wasn't just boy and girl but also boy and boy
dad is open to questions, though i feel a bit awkward at times. not something he does or says, but i feel that way sometimes. it's actually easier to text him, which i have done sometimes, with the conversation either continuing via text or in person, or even both

[nicky shadow]

i had several talks with my dad, not just one. wasn't just about "the usual" (puberty changes, intercourse), but also about respect and love. also wasn't just boy and girl but also boy and boy
dad is open to questions, though i feel a bit awkward at times. not something he does or says, but i feel that way sometimes. it's actually easier to text him, which i have done sometimes, with the conversation either continuing via text or in person, or even both

Really cool that your dad texts you about that stuff. was that an idea he suggested? My stepdad would probably be like "no this is something to discuss FACE TO FACE" is why I ask

[ItIsKai]

My dad didn't have a talk with me. It's like he EXPECTED me to know everything, without him telling me anything.

[arnorway]

Really cool that your dad texts you about that stuff. was that an idea he suggested? My stepdad would probably be like "no this is something to discuss FACE TO FACE" is why I ask

no, wasn't his idea, i just sometimes text him and he's fine with it

[rgconrad23]

i had several talks with my dad, not just one. wasn't just about "the usual" (puberty changes, intercourse), but also about respect and love. also wasn't just boy and girl but also boy and boy
dad is open to questions, though i feel a bit awkward at times. not something he does or says, but i feel that way sometimes. it's actually easier to text him, which i have done sometimes, with the conversation either continuing via text or in person, or even both

no, wasn't his idea, i just sometimes text him and he's fine with it

That’s awesome.

We’ve always had these kinda life lessons talks at dinner. It really started about respect and love, then boundaries and the whole good touch/bad touch. I had figured out or experienced a lot of bodily changes when Dad started talking to me one day on a car ride. I think he was shocked that I had developed so much and was aware of a lot. Both my parents are pretty open and available for questions. When I started dating it changed to safety first. But we never had the “insert peg A into slot B” talk.

[Lucas.martin]

Never had the talk really it was all just friends and school. I mean now it's somewhat open but for the most part I found out on my own

[Pitsirikos]

My father said to me almost nothing. Fortunately my older sister that we also shared a room talk to me a lot, answered all my questions and helped me a lot.

[Maxbreak]

I've learnt mainly from school and online

[thatrandomguy01]

My parents never gave me the talk either. I kinda found out a little at a time from late night talk show innuendo, movies, and most of what I know came from sex ed in the 9th grade.

[wrecked]

My Mom is the only parent in my life and she talked to me about safe sex, mbating, and hygiene .

[Ricky.h]

When you were going through puberty, did your dad/brother talk to you about puberty and sex? We’re they open to your questions? Did they give you any hints or tricks? What was it like for you? Is your dad open about this kind of stuff?

Yeah my dad was very open about everything. Showed me videos, talked to me about positions, told me a lot

When I first started having sex he was proud

[Riley2015]

Well this is pretty much how it went with my dad

Banned me from having girlfriends and sent me to an all boys school to keep me away from girls and told me to keep my hands to myself
Banned me from masturbating and checked the bed sheets for stains every day

as you can see he wasn't really very helpful or kind about it

[Ricky.h]

Well this is pretty much how it went with my dad

Banned me from having girlfriends and sent me to an all boys school to keep me away from girls and told me to keep my hands to myself
Banned me from masturbating and checked the bed sheets for stains every day

as you can see he wasn't really very helpful or kind about it

I'm sorry you experienced that. When I think of my experience with my father it was literally the complete opposite. He literally told me that I needed to be having sex by a certain age, we've watched porn, and talked pretty candid about things