Do you think you lost your virginity at the right time?

[astro27nm]

How many of you think you did the deed at the right time and why do you think that? Personally, I'm kind of conflicted. I lost it at 11 with a friend since we were both curious. While it was a good time and we're still friends, I kind of wish that we were both a little more mature and could've made it better.

[Pultost]

Yes and no. I was originally going to wait for a couple of years more, and some times kinda wish I did, but at the same time everything felt right when I did it the first time last year, we both agreed and wanted it, so I have no regrets. :)

[Caycedilla]

I think the time (age) was right for me but I wish it was another person tbh

[mick01]

It was for me. I liked the person and the experience was great.

[damien]

i wish i would have waited longer

[damien]

but at the same time i was relieved to have done it and it obviously felt good

[jamie_n5]

For me and my BF it was the perfect time. Each person needs to make that decision on their own. I think the stupidest thing a person can do however is to loose your virginity just to do it because you think everyone else has. To me your virginity is a very special thing and should be given to someone you really love or care for.

[Ashley2004]

I feel good about losing mine. We were prepared and felt ready. No regrets about it.

[logan2002]

I felt I was ready

[Xuan]

It definitely felt like the perfect time for me and my boyfriend and I have no regrets at all.

[Adamant]

Maybe I'll let you know when it happens!
Not a decision -just a not had the opportunity fact.
tbh not sure i would have been mature enough ( emotionally) any earlier than now anyway. Not saying thats an age thing, just me.

[ashleigh7]

Yes..we thought about it and talked abut it a lot before we both lost it to eachother:)

[Dmaxd123]

I wish I had lost it sooner because sex is fun

I lost it with a friend which was perfect in my opinion. we became FWB but never entered a relationship so when she got a bf or I got a gf it wasn't an issue that many seem to have of losing it to a bf/gf that turns out to be a jerk

[JamesCam]

No , I was 15 and I did it on the rebound from a relationship that I hadn’t had sex in.
Complicated.
I lost it to someone I cared nothing for who was older and basically using me.
I was drunk and stupid and will ALWAYS regret it.
Lesson learnt I guess.

[BlackParadePixie]

I've never really thought of it as the right or wrong time. It is what it is, and I learned from it going forward.

[JayA]

I have too many questions as to who I am attracted to even think about losing it. I just kind a figure when it is time, it will happen. Not that I don't think about it A LOT....

[KAG2020]

Me and my bf at the time thought it was right. This was pretty recent. It turns out that I ended up being used, and the whole thing was a sham. I should have waited much longer, because now I am paying the price in other areas of my life as well. It was the biggest mistake so far, of my life.

[Karalectric]

I think the time (age) was right for me but I wish it was another person tbh

Me and my bf at the time thought it was right. This was pretty recent. It turns out that I ended up being used, and the whole thing was a sham. I should have waited much longer, because now I am laying the price in other areas of my life as well. It was the biggest mistake so far, of my life.

Awww you guys i am so sorry that it worked out like that. :console: Yeah last summer my bf at the time wanted to and i sorta did too, but i dunno. I was real nervous which is normal i guess, but could not shake this gut feeling and i said no.... turns out it was the right choice looking back! But i did not see it that way at the time. I went through a period of second guessing myself especially after he broke up with me not long after.

[RCT109]

Awww you guys i am so sorry that it worked out like that. :console: Yeah last summer my bf at the time wanted to and i sorta did too, but i dunno. I was real nervous which is normal i guess, but could not shake this gut feeling and i said no.... turns out it was the right choice looking back! But i did not see it that way at the time. I went through a period of second guessing myself especially after he broke up with me not long after.


you know what your gut said no and it was the right choice

[Shaythen]

Right time, wrong person, wrong circumstances

[Shiny Moon]

It was a perfect time for me.

[Pultost]

Awww you guys i am so sorry that it worked out like that. :console: Yeah last summer my bf at the time wanted to and i sorta did too, but i dunno. I was real nervous which is normal i guess, but could not shake this gut feeling and i said no.... turns out it was the right choice looking back! But i did not see it that way at the time. I went through a period of second guessing myself especially after he broke up with me not long after.

I think you made the right choice, better listen to your gut feeling. Him breaking up with you shortly after says quite a bit about him.

[arnorway]

i feel like it happened very soon (into the relationship) and at a young age for me, but it was with the right person. reading through some of the posts here, but also what i thought before, that's more important than what age it was

Yeah last summer my bf at the time wanted to and i sorta did too, but i dunno. I was real nervous which is normal i guess, but could not shake this gut feeling and i said no.... turns out it was the right choice looking back! But i did not see it that way at the time. I went through a period of second guessing myself especially after he broke up with me not long after.

I think you made the right choice, better listen to your gut feeling. Him breaking up with you shortly after says quite a bit about him.

wanted to say the same as anita. if for whatever reason it didn't feel right for you, it was best you didn't. and him breaking up afterwards means he wanted himself to feel good and wasn't taking your feelings into account. that's never good

[gurquenjen]

I'm torn because on the one hand it was absolutely with the right guy (and right girl, for that matter, depending upon what we're terming as virginity), and the time was great, but I also wish I'd just hopped on him a year earlier...because sex is really, really fun.

[Claire Asteroid]

I always thought I'd wait until I was married but then I agreed to do it, so I wish I'd waited but it was a good experience too.

[Youngmissnat]

we where friends for years and still are so i felt fine about it

[nicole97]

I'm fine with how and when mine happened and haven't had any serious doubts about it. I was young (13) but felt ready and overall don't think I'd have done anything differently.

[Naturelover]

I think it was the right time

[Bluegrass]

It was okay I guess?

[Emilyfox]

I think the time (age) was right for me but I wish it was another person tbh

Same here - that sums up how I feel

[Maxbreak]

Still got mine. I want to loose it

[ImJulia]

I am very happy about when I lost mine

[Oscar-V3.0]

I think the timing was ok, so maybe I should have started earlier

[Karalectric]

I think you made the right choice, better listen to your gut feeling. Him breaking up with you shortly after says quite a bit about him.


wanted to say the same as anita. if for whatever reason it didn't feel right for you, it was best you didn't. and him breaking up afterwards means he wanted himself to feel good and wasn't taking your feelings into account. that's never good

Thanks. :hug3:

And no, i don't think he broke up with me just because of that. There was a number of things that went into it. Even though he did the breaking up, i didn't argue against so in a way it was mutual. But you know how it is maybe, when a relationship ends you kinda think about things you may have done differently? It was like that. I will just leave it at that. I am fine now. :)

[thematt002]

It was right for me. We both felt ready and we both enjoyed it.

[Pultost]

Thanks. :hug3:

And no, i don't think he broke up with me just because of that. There was a number of things that went into it. Even though he did the breaking up, i didn't argue against so in a way it was mutual. But you know how it is maybe, when a relationship ends you kinda think about things you may have done differently? It was like that. I will just leave it at that. I am fine now. :)

Good to hear that it probably wasn't why, and it's easier when both agree to call it quits. I haven't experienced any breakups myself, but I can imagine it's natural to question things you have done etc. :)

[EthanMTX]

I still have mine and don’t feel ready yet. GF and I have talked about because her friends are putting pressure on her because they say I will break up if she doesn’t please me. They are stupid, and she knows she doesn’t have to do things or worry about it. I care about her a lot so, why mess it up. We have messed around and all that and we are okay with just that. Right now, we are waiting until we are both ready.

[arnorway]

I still have mine and don’t feel ready yet. GF and I have talked about because her friends are putting pressure on her because they say I will break up if she doesn’t please me. They are stupid, and she knows she doesn’t have to do things or worry about it. I care about her a lot so, why mess it up. We have messed around and all that and we are okay with just that. Right now, we are waiting until we are both ready.

am glad you are not giving in to that stupid outside pressure, that's the worst! waiting until both are ready, and talking about it, seems like a good idea too. my girlfriend and i also did that

[EthanMTX]

am glad you are not giving in to that stupid outside pressure, that's the worst! waiting until both are ready, and talking about it, seems like a good idea too. my girlfriend and i also did that

Thanks…it happens when it’s supposed to happen. I mean, curious and all that stuff. Who isn’t but my middle brother has a 2-year old already and my oldest is like wait, wait, wait…don’t rush it. Parents say at 30…lol! Anyway, I don’t want her to think she has to do things just because supposedly, everyone else is. Whatever!

[Alex_Swim]

I think 9:30pm is the best time.

[arnorway]

Thanks…it happens when it’s supposed to happen. I mean, curious and all that stuff. Who isn’t but my middle brother has a 2-year old already and my oldest is like wait, wait, wait…don’t rush it. Parents say at 30…lol! Anyway, I don’t want her to think she has to do things just because supposedly, everyone else is. Whatever!

good plan :yes:

[Lionsden04]

Yes I think I lost it at the right time, it felt good and didn’t feel any pressure in having to do it

[OwlBlue]

I really knew it when my current bf made out with me the first time. I thought he was the right guy and i was right.

[Taelorxo2]

Yeah I think I was ready. I certainly don’t regret it

[KateMarshal]

Im virgin.

[AshleighB]

Yes and no, it was nice but I wasn’t in a rush to lose it but I don’t regret it, it was with someone who cares for me which I feel is how it should be

[ClaraPott]

Hmm. IDK. I was only 14yo but on the other hand I dont regret it

[Karkat]

I wish I would’ve waited ngl

[Pultost]

Yes and no, it was nice but I wasn’t in a rush to lose it but I don’t regret it, it was with someone who cares for me which I feel is how it should be

That's good, sex should be an act of love, and not something you feel like you have to do because others have done it etc.

[kayin]

I am still a little virgin haha

[Bryan1234]

I was 17, wish I had started sooner. Feel like I missed out.

[Jordan99]

Perfect time. Perfect boy. He was so loving and patient so sometimes I wonder if I made him wait too long. LoL!

[Jameson9]

I still have mine. There have always been thoughts in the back of my head of waiting till marriage and I’ve stuck with it so far

[Oscar-V3.0]

I still have mine and don’t feel ready yet. GF and I have talked about because her friends are putting pressure on her because they say I will break up if she doesn’t please me. They are stupid, and she knows she doesn’t have to do things or worry about it. I care about her a lot so, why mess it up. We have messed around and all that and we are okay with just that. Right now, we are waiting until we are both ready.
You're 100% right. It's great that you dont think that way, and that your gf knows better about you :)

[RCT109]

Yes and no, it was nice but I wasn’t in a rush to lose it but I don’t regret it, it was with someone who cares for me which I feel is how it should be


how old were you?

[AshleighB]

how old were you?

I was 13

[melissa16]

Still have mine, I think I will know when its the right time or the right person.

[ashleigh7]

I was 15.....I was good with who I gave it to :)

[annababy02]

I have no regrets about when I lost mine. I do kinda regret giving mine up to the particular person. Just wish it was with someone else tbh

[Amy_n_Annie]

Right time, I had to wait for my birthday, but wasn’t in my cunny
Still an official virgin

But I did it the other way

[xSashax]

I think it’s the right time for me. Haven’t regretted anything....

[nicky shadow]

i am still virgin, but I dont believe that you can look back and have regrets. Well, some people choose to do that but i dont personally think it is healthy. i hope that when I do lose my virginity that its with someone I like and that we enjoy it and that it is the "right time' but even if its not it will of been a life experience.

[Lyonella]

A difficult one : lost it last year when I was 15,it was great but my ex-boyfriend dumped me a few days later,so was it the right time or not ? I still don't know,especially I'm in a relationship (kind off) with a girl now (we didn't have sex yet)

[Oscar-V3.0]

A difficult one : lost it last year when I was 15,it was great but my ex-boyfriend dumped me a few days later,so was it the right time or not ? I still don't know,especially I'm in a relationship (kind off) with a girl now (we didn't have sex yet)
Maybe you thought it was the right time and the right person, and he turned out not to be. If you trusted him and he dumped you, that's all on him and nothing on you ;)

[Oscar-V3.0]

I dont believe that you can look back and have regrets
Thats easy to say lol. Some realize afterwards that finally it was too early or it was not the right circumstances or the right person and wish they didn't. You only have one first time

[DaisyDo]

I still got mine

[Lyonella]

Maybe you thought it was the right time and the right person, and he turned out not to be. If you trusted him and he dumped you, that's all on him and nothing on you ;)

Thanks for the support :)

[AmberTra]

Yea, lost it when I was 12.

[rgconrad23]

I'm happy it worked out the way it did. Woulda, shoulda, coulda

[Natacha]

Right time and a nice guy, so great experience

[Emma1133]

I lost mine this year. I don't really know about right time or wrong time, but I don't have any regrets about it.

[Becca029]

I lost mine this year. I don't really know about right time or wrong time, but I don't have any regrets about it.

thats good at least you dont regret it

i lost mine at 14 to my wonderful gf at the time

and then about a year ago to my current bf

[Katie2003]

I know I started way too early, but at the time I thought I was doing the right thing and I was the one who initiated the activity. I also know I can't take that mistake in judgment back, so I've had to work through it. Since earlier this year, I am no longer sexually active, taking a break to let myself recover from the emotional issues that my too early sexual activities resulted in.

[ashleigh7]

I have no regrets :) I'm happy when I did it;) and with who I did it with ;)

[MasonBA]

We wish that we had waited. It was exciting and we both liked it but have talked since and decided we'd wait before we do it again

[ImJulia]

I do think so

[datsme2012]

Time was right.. Person could have been better

[Diana2002]

I wish i did it a bit sooner because i liked the guy, i ended up doing it later with someone who i didn't like so much

[Falcons_11]

Maybe just a little bit sooner, knowing what I know now.

[Fun1898]

I personally wish I would have lost it earlier, but I have no complaints. We were both virgins, so it was really awkward, but it was still a pleasant experience

[Bluebyrd]

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