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danielmx
March 23rd, 2019, 02:51 AM
Hi! As you can read in the title, well... i've never masturbated.
I dont know why, really. I've had wet dreams, of course, but i've never felt curious enough to masturbate. I'm 16 and I'm afraid that it could be late for that. What does masturbation feel like? Should i do it?
Thanks :D

Wtd_
March 23rd, 2019, 04:08 AM
I mean its never too late to masturbate lol. I reccomend you try it cause feels amazing and in the end if you don't like it you haven't caused any harm to yourself

ska8er
March 23rd, 2019, 05:20 AM
Then u have some kind of a mental block.
If u get aroused and have erections then
the urge is there to take care of business.
If not then there is some kind of medical
issue. Its not possible for a 16 year old not
to have masturbated at least once. The wet
dreams r telling u to get started.

justa16yearoldaussie
March 23rd, 2019, 05:24 AM
there’s no cutoff date for masturbating lol you can do it whenever, i’d say just do it if your curious and if you don’t like it then you don’t need to do it again, it’s not harmful.

NoLimitGuy
March 23rd, 2019, 05:34 AM
If you don't have the urge to do it, the why shoukd you push it? And yes, not wanting to masturbate, therefore, having sexual pleasure signals of low libido. Check with your doctor..

scott2002
March 23rd, 2019, 06:00 AM
I don't know why, really. I've had wet dreams, of course, but i've never felt curious enough to masturbate. I'm 16 and I'm afraid that it could be late for that. What does masturbation feel like? Should i do it?
I don't think most boys actually make a decision to masturbate. I think that usually at 12 or 13 our bodies make that decision for us. Our penis starts getting stiff a lot more frequently and we inadvertently discover that rubbing it back and forth now seems to feel AMAZINGLY NICE. (My first time, I was innocently just washing my penis in the shower with a soapy hand and discovered, "wow this feels nice!". So I kept doing it, more and faster, and then all on its own it happened!)
So my advice is just start rubbing it back and forth when you get a nice boner and see what happens. Don't say, "I'm going to try masturbation", just start playing with it and do whatever feels nice.

Hermes
March 23rd, 2019, 06:13 AM
I don't think there is anything wrong physically. If you have wet dreams then the glands that make semen have started working so that means your testosterone level is likely normal. You could ask the doctor to check if you're worried.

So, I wonder if there is something psychological that has effectively repressed the urge to do it. Do you come from a strongly religious background or a community with very conservative values?

If you don't want to, it is not mandatory but most people really enjoy it because an orgasm feels amazing. All that would happen physically if you were to try it is you would experience that intense pleasure and probably want to do it again soon. But going back to what I said earlier it would be good to understand a bit more about what is going on in your head.

Ryguy123
March 23rd, 2019, 06:45 AM
Hi! As you can read in the title, well... i've never masturbated.
I dont know why, really. I've had wet dreams, of course, but i've never felt curious enough to masturbate. I'm 16 and I'm afraid that it could be late for that. What does masturbation feel like? Should i do it?
Thanks :D
Ur missing out on a nice cumshot

Spooky_Eli
March 23rd, 2019, 07:14 AM
Ur missing out on a nice cumshot

LOL, if you really havn't masterbated yet, theen this is true, also, u should as others have said, see a doctor about your libido

arnorway
March 23rd, 2019, 07:35 AM
why does he have to see a doctor? some people just don't have the urge, there's nothing wrong with not being interested in it

JayA
March 23rd, 2019, 07:39 AM
Ummm....wow -- I don't know what I would do if I didn't. I would be such a grouch and probably angry at the world all the time.

Someone else asked it above -- is there a reason that you haven't (told was harmful, sinful, etc.) cause I am not sure I know anyone that hasn't masturbated before.

MasonBA
March 23rd, 2019, 08:42 AM
why does he have to see a doctor? some people just don't have the urge, there's nothing wrong with not being interested in it

I agree. While masturbating is fun and feels really good that doesn't mean absolutely every boy on the planet must do it.

OP, to me it's very enjoyable and as someone else said it's never too late to start. Your choice and if you don't ant to that's fine, doesn't mean anything is wrong with you or your decision

EthanMTX
March 23rd, 2019, 10:32 AM
I say…you should go for it and give it a try. Nothing wrong with it and shouldn’t feel bad for doing it. Only IF…you want too. Unless there is a reason like religious or parents come down on for it but it’s a normal teenage thing to do.

Jrunner
March 23rd, 2019, 10:38 AM
Time to start

Turbofan explosion
March 23rd, 2019, 11:51 AM
Hi! As you can read in the title, well... i've never masturbated.
I dont know why, really. I've had wet dreams, of course, but i've never felt curious enough to masturbate. I'm 16 and I'm afraid that it could be late for that. What does masturbation feel like? Should i do it?
Thanks :D

If you don't want to masturbate, it is totally OK, despite all the posts on this thread telling you to start.

There is really no normal or abnormal about whether you masturbate or not. It is your own choice. If you don't want to, you don't have to. If you do want to, then feel free to masturbate.

GiJoe
March 23rd, 2019, 12:25 PM
If you do not want do it don't when I wrestling I did not masterbate let wet dreams take over. Do what you went to do

Coping
March 23rd, 2019, 12:33 PM
why does he have to see a doctor? some people just don't have the urge, there's nothing wrong with not being interested in it

True. Some people are asexual. :)

thematt002
March 23rd, 2019, 12:43 PM
Ummm....wow -- I don't know what I would do if I didn't. I would be such a grouch and probably angry at the world all the time.

Someone else asked it above -- is there a reason that you haven't (told was harmful, sinful, etc.) cause I am not sure I know anyone that hasn't masturbated before.

I agree. Of course it's not mandatory to masturbate, I just wouldn't be able to resist more than a few days :D

arnorway
March 23rd, 2019, 12:47 PM
True. Some people are asexual. :)

and that's okay too :yes:

danielmx
March 23rd, 2019, 01:05 PM
LOL, if you really havn't masterbated yet, theen this is true, also, u should as others have said, see a doctor about your libido

I don't think its a libido problem...sometimes i can get aroused

danielmx
March 23rd, 2019, 01:06 PM
If you don't want to masturbate, it is totally OK, despite all the posts on this thread telling you to start.

There is really no normal or abnormal about whether you masturbate or not. It is your own choice. If you don't want to, you don't have to. If you do want to, then feel free to masturbate.

Thanks! Do you do it?

danielmx
March 23rd, 2019, 01:11 PM
I mean its never too late to masturbate lol. I reccomend you try it cause feels amazing and in the end if you don't like it you haven't caused any harm to yourself

I will think about it :D

Matt 04
March 23rd, 2019, 01:14 PM
Hi! As you can read in the title, well... i've never masturbated.
I dont know why, really. I've had wet dreams, of course, but i've never felt curious enough to masturbate. I'm 16 and I'm afraid that it could be late for that. What does masturbation feel like? Should i do it?
Thanks :D

I have not had a wet dream since i started to jack. I would rather be awake for the orgasm and watch the cum shoot out. Wet dreams are a slimy mess to clean up and the one i had was not about sex. I feel i started late jacking at close to 14 and missed all the dry orgasms.

danielmx
March 23rd, 2019, 01:17 PM
Ummm....wow -- I don't know what I would do if I didn't. I would be such a grouch and probably angry at the world all the time.

Someone else asked it above -- is there a reason that you haven't (told was harmful, sinful, etc.) cause I am not sure I know anyone that hasn't masturbated before.

I dont do it because i dont know what to expect... I'm also a little scared haha

danielmx
March 23rd, 2019, 02:01 PM
I don't think most boys actually make a decision to masturbate. I think that usually at 12 or 13 our bodies make that decision for us. Our penis starts getting stiff a lot more frequently and we inadvertently discover that rubbing it back and forth now seems to feel AMAZINGLY NICE. (My first time, I was innocently just washing my penis in the shower with a soapy hand and discovered, "wow this feels nice!". So I kept doing it, more and faster, and then all on its own it happened!)
So my advice is just start rubbing it back and forth when you get a nice boner and see what happens. Don't say, "I'm going to try masturbation", just start playing with it and do whatever feels nice.

Maybe i'll do it. I will let you know!

stiller
March 23rd, 2019, 04:44 PM
there’s no cutoff date for masturbating lol you can do it whenever, i’d say just do it if your curious and if you don’t like it then you don’t need to do it again, it’s not harmful.

Totally agree with that

antandlope
March 23rd, 2019, 05:01 PM
If you don’t feel like doing it - there’s nothing wrong with that, same with if you decide to do it - nothing wrong with that either. Different people have different sex drives :)

JayA
March 23rd, 2019, 05:35 PM
I dont do it because i dont know what to expect... I'm also a little scared haha

do expect anything --- it can be different for anyone.

And don't be scared -- it is a function that the male body has that happens as often as you want it to or even when you don't want it to. I bet you will be more relaxed and enjoy it once you have.

But, as others have said, this is entirely your choice. Nothing says you have to jack off.

ShineintheDark
March 23rd, 2019, 07:17 PM
Feels great for many and many others. If you wanna try, go ahead and see if you like it. If not, no biggie. Not for everyone

Allstar49
March 24th, 2019, 01:09 AM
I am genuinely impressed you never have, like not even by accident. I mean I definitely think you should I don’t think you realize what you’re missing out on.

Jericho14
March 24th, 2019, 06:42 AM
Im impressed that you haven't done that assuming that you've been in puberty for few years now. But it's not too late, you can try it. I was almost at the same path as you, it took me almost two years after puberty to start masturbating


*If you feel like your penis is vibrating after minutes of masturbating, that means you're about to ejaculate semen*

Maxbreak
March 24th, 2019, 07:35 AM
Hi! As you can read in the title, well... i've never masturbated.
I dont know why, really. I've had wet dreams, of course, but i've never felt curious enough to masturbate. I'm 16 and I'm afraid that it could be late for that. What does masturbation feel like? Should i do it?
Thanks :D

Reading some of ur other posts u have started puberty later than most. That is ok, you are still in the normal range. Masturbation feels great to most of us. There's nothing to say that you will or won't. All i can say is get some tissues and privacy. And a boner. Rub for a while and see what happens

Turbofan explosion
March 24th, 2019, 12:35 PM
LOL, if you really havn't masterbated yet, theen this is true, also, u should as others have said, see a doctor about your libido

If one does not masturbate, I doubt that is something that they really need to ask a doctor about

Hermes
March 24th, 2019, 07:55 PM
I dont do it because i dont know what to expect... I'm also a little scared haha

So have you even tried rubbing it just a little?

From the first touch you should find that it feels nice and makes you want to carry on. As you get more into it, you should feel something building to a climax. As you get close you find thinsg starting to tingle, then, when you get to that climax, two things will happen: 1. You will feel amazingly intense pleasure, i.e. the orgasm, that seems to take over your body and make you feel wonderful. 2. You'll ejaculate, i.e. the same thing that happens in the wet dreams. Bear in mind there is only a few ml of liquid but if it helps, for the first time at least, you could do it somewhere were making a bit of a mess isn't a problem such as in the shower. Once you're more used to it, you could swap to doing it in your room which is what most guys do.

Maxbreak
March 27th, 2019, 06:15 PM
I dont do it because i dont know what to expect... I'm also a little scared haha

Maybe i'll do it. I will let you know!

Give it a try. When U rub and u get a build up of feeling, keep rubbing. The feeling when U cum is so worth it! There is nothing to be scared of, and the worst is you make a bit of a mess!

RCT109
March 27th, 2019, 06:28 PM
I don't think its a libido problem...sometimes i can get aroused

I would still see a doctor about it and maybe even a therapist that specializes in sexuality, maybe there is something psychological going on

lel800
March 29th, 2019, 02:38 PM
its never too late to masturbate
but seriously you should try it, its one of the best feelings

danielmx
April 4th, 2019, 12:50 AM
Give it a try. When U rub and u get a build up of feeling, keep rubbing. The feeling when U cum is so worth it! There is nothing to be scared of, and the worst is you make a bit of a mess!
I think I did it!

danielmx
April 4th, 2019, 12:50 AM
I'm pretty sure I masturbated haha

Maxbreak
April 4th, 2019, 12:51 AM
I think I did it!

I'm pretty sure I masturbated haha

Cool. Was it good? Did you cum?

danielmx
April 4th, 2019, 12:56 AM
So have you even tried rubbing it just a little?

From the first touch you should find that it feels nice and makes you want to carry on. As you get more into it, you should feel something building to a climax. As you get close you find thinsg starting to tingle, then, when you get to that climax, two things will happen: 1. You will feel amazingly intense pleasure, i.e. the orgasm, that seems to take over your body and make you feel wonderful. 2. You'll ejaculate, i.e. the same thing that happens in the wet dreams. Bear in mind there is only a few ml of liquid but if it helps, for the first time at least, you could do it somewhere were making a bit of a mess isn't a problem such as in the shower. Once you're more used to it, you could swap to doing it in your room which is what most guys do.

Im impressed that you haven't done that assuming that you've been in puberty for few years now. But it's not too late, you can try it. I was almost at the same path as you, it took me almost two years after puberty to start masturbating


*If you feel like your penis is vibrating after minutes of masturbating, that means you're about to ejaculate semen*

do expect anything --- it can be different for anyone.

And don't be scared -- it is a function that the male body has that happens as often as you want it to or even when you don't want it to. I bet you will be more relaxed and enjoy it once you have.

But, as others have said, this is entirely your choice. Nothing says you have to jack off.

Give it a try. When U rub and u get a build up of feeling, keep rubbing. The feeling when U cum is so worth it! There is nothing to be scared of, and the worst is you make a bit of a mess!

Feels great for many and many others. If you wanna try, go ahead and see if you like it. If not, no biggie. Not for everyone

I am genuinely impressed you never have, like not even by accident. I mean I definitely think you should I don’t think you realize what you’re missing out on.

Reading some of ur other posts u have started puberty later than most. That is ok, you are still in the normal range. Masturbation feels great to most of us. There's nothing to say that you will or won't. All i can say is get some tissues and privacy. And a boner. Rub for a while and see what happens

its never too late to masturbate
but seriously you should try it, its one of the best feelings

I would still see a doctor about it and maybe even a therapist that specializes in sexuality, maybe there is something psychological going on

I think I did it!

Cool. Was it good? Did you cum?

I have masturbated! And I came, yes

Maxbreak
April 4th, 2019, 12:59 AM
I have masturbated! And I came, yes

Cool. I hope you get to do it more!

danielmx
April 4th, 2019, 01:00 AM
Cool. I hope you get to do it more!

Me too! How much should i do it?

nicky shadow
April 4th, 2019, 01:00 AM
I don't think most boys actually make a decision to masturbate. I think that usually at 12 or 13 our bodies make that decision for us. Our penis starts getting stiff a lot more frequently and we inadvertently discover that rubbing it back and forth now seems to feel AMAZINGLY NICE. (My first time, I was innocently just washing my penis in the shower with a soapy hand and discovered, "wow this feels nice!". So I kept doing it, more and faster, and then all on its own it happened!)
So my advice is just start rubbing it back and forth when you get a nice boner and see what happens. Don't say, "I'm going to try masturbation", just start playing with it and do whatever feels nice.

What do you mean "IT HAPPENED?" do you Mean that you ejaculated?

Maxbreak
April 4th, 2019, 01:04 AM
Me too! How much should i do it?

Its a personal choice and when you have time. And a boner. I like doing it when I wake up with morning wood. If you hard, do it now!

RCT109
April 4th, 2019, 01:04 AM
Me too! How much should i do it?

not up to us to decide

do it as often as you see fit to where its not running your life

danielmx
April 4th, 2019, 01:35 AM
What do you mean "IT HAPPENED?" do you Mean that you ejaculated?

Yes, i ejaculated

RocketSkier
April 4th, 2019, 03:33 AM
I have masturbated! And I came, yes

Remember once you tried it there's no going back ...:D

Ryguy123
April 8th, 2019, 09:35 PM
Yes, i ejaculated

Are u still doing it

Pitsirikos
April 9th, 2019, 02:58 PM
It's great you did it and liked it. You can do it as much as you like and feel the need to do it!! Enjoy it the more you can because you have a lot of time to cover!!!!! :)

scott2002
April 11th, 2019, 04:13 PM
What do you mean "IT HAPPENED?" do you Mean that you ejaculated?
Yup. And that's how it happened for me.
I was rubbing it just cuz it felt so nice. I intentionally wasn't masturbating becasue I had no idea what masturbating was or meant. All I knew was, "Daym that feels nice!!!!!!"

danielmx
April 11th, 2019, 05:08 PM
Are u still doing it

yeah

Maxbreak
April 12th, 2019, 12:40 AM
yeah

It's fun. Once you started, there is no going back

danielmx
April 12th, 2019, 12:45 AM
It's fun. Once you started, there is no going back

I know! There's no going back hahahaha, all of you were right