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Letsdothis
March 31st, 2014, 04:12 AM
So, I am a 17 yo guy and I know that I like girls, but I think I find guys attractive also. I like girls because they're beautiful and pretty and I could easily see myself falling in love with a girl. But I think I am just attracted to guys. I mean, I don't think about guys romantically, honestly the thought of kissing a guy grosses me out for some reason. But physically I would like to go down on a guy or vice versa. The thought of butt sex also grosses me out a little as well. I have no problem with others doing it but even the the thought of it makes me feel a little sick.
Sometimes I masturbate to gay porn because it turns me on but again it's only really hand stuff and oral that turns me on. It doesn't turn me on more or less than guy/girl or girl/girl porn it's just different.
So, does this make me bi, or just curious? Is this how being gay starts?
ksdnfkfr
March 31st, 2014, 04:18 AM
Sounds more like straight curious. Being gay isn't something that starts at 17 like a virus or whatever.
Harley Quinn
March 31st, 2014, 06:07 AM
P101 :arrow: Teen Sexuality
backjruton
March 31st, 2014, 01:15 PM
So, I am a 17 yo guy and I know that I like girls (not too much), but I find guys a lot more attractive. I think I am just attracted to guys. I mean, I don't think about guys romantically, too much, but I don't with girls either... at all. But physically I would like to go down on a guy or vice versa, definitely. The thought of butt sex also grosses me out a little as well. I have no problem with others doing it but even the the thought of it makes me feel a little sick.
Every time I masturbate it's to gay porn because it turns me on but again it's only really hand stuff and oral that turns me on.
So, does this make me bi, or just curious? Is this how being gay starts?
I don't think being gay can just "start" but then again I'm not too sure on that. Part of me thinks that you can think of yourself as straight because you only see girls you like the look of, but then when you see guys you like the look of too your senses go into overdrive and you start to become more attracted to guys.
I don't think I was really attracted to anyone in primary school, then possibly 5 of the boys in high school and now more in college and very slightly attracted to 1 girl, not enough to make anything out of it.
Say you're bi and go from there. I've always said I'm bi because "I don't want to close any doors" but everyone in college says I'm gay... I ripped my trousers and couldn't stop playing with the hole in them because it felt great, I stare at guys a lot more than girls, I find it easier to talk to guys than girls and there are only ever 2 girls I've seen I have an attraction to and it's because they look more like guys.. but that attraction isn't too much.
I've told everyone in school I'm bi and most people in college I'm gay because I'm still thinking but I definitely think I'm gay and not bi :D :kitty: I just won't say you're straight/curious because I don't like properly straight people (especially guys :|) and I don't like the "curious" term, in my opinion you either are or you aren't. :kitty: :D
:wub::Gay:
EDIT: Forgot to add that I edited the quote so it's more like me :3
Letsdothis
April 1st, 2014, 02:49 PM
I don't think being gay can just "start" but then again I'm not too sure on that. Part of me thinks that you can think of yourself as straight because you only see girls you like the look of, but then when you see guys you like the look of too your senses go into overdrive and you start to become more attracted to guys.
Thanks for the reply :)
I wouldn't say I become more attracted to guys. If anything I am more attracted to girls because the attraction is both emotional and physical. I get hard when I think about another guys cock, but I think that's it. It's just their dick that I am attracted to. I don't know I am so confused lol.
backjruton
April 1st, 2014, 03:31 PM
Thanks for the reply :)
I wouldn't say I become more attracted to guys. If anything I am more attracted to girls because the attraction is both emotional and physical. I get hard when I think about another guys cock, but I think that's it. It's just their dick that I am attracted to. I don't know I am so confused lol.
Yeah... that's a bit different to me getting a hard on from poking a friend in the ass with a stick because it wobbled :L and every little bit of physical contact (even simple touching) with another friend will get me going :kitty: Also, I saw someone's happy trail earlier and immediately had to sit down in embarrassment. For me with guys it happens all the time, but extremely rarely with girls. Don't think I've developed any emotional attraction to anyone yet but I'm starting to so right now it's mostly just physical so I don't really know too much about that right now. :kitty: :cool: :D
HeroesAndCons
April 3rd, 2014, 04:40 PM
Personally, people can't answer if you are or not. It is up to you to find out if you are or not.
If you are you are though!
Bmble_B
April 3rd, 2014, 04:46 PM
Yup its up to you dude. :D
To be honest, Im bi but I like guys more than girls :P
Landbuscus97
April 6th, 2014, 06:11 PM
Well, you have to realize not all gays like anal either, it's all just preference. But the fact that it's mostly sexual and not in anyway romantically could indicate that your just curious
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