One big advatage about being gay

[ksdnfkfr]

The one big advantage I see in being a gay kid is sleepovers with my boyfriend going unquestioned. I mean if I had a girlfriend at my age, I seriously doubt her parents would let me spend the night with her in her room. But a boy spending the night with his longtime buddy? No problem, no questions asked. I just think it's ironic or whatever.

[xxdrakeTxx]

yep that is an advantage to being gay .

[Ethe14]

Yeah that is kinda cool.

[Hermes96]

lucky for some when i came out my mum put a blanket ban on all guys in the house.

[phuckphace]

blanket ban

I see what she did there

[Hermes96]

yer:)

[Luminous]

Lol I can have girls over but I don't have any friends or girlfriends.. go figure.

[backjruton]

Sadly I myself don't have any proper input as I have problems with meeting people from college outside of college and same with when I was in school so I've never had anyone over :c

[Landbuscus97]

I never got to sleepover because the parental unit is super strict and stuff :'(

[Bmble_B]

Lmao I never thought of it like that! that is a gr8 perk :P

[Karkat]

TRUE.

That and I imagine that um uh, public bathroom sex would be easier, because you don't have to pick one, and you don't look conspicuous going in. >,>

[Ethe14]

TRUE.

That and I imagine that um uh, public bathroom sex would be easier, because you don't have to pick one, and you don't look conspicuous going in. >,>


Lol that has never occurred to me.

[Karkat]

Lol that has never occurred to me.

It never occurred to me either until the opportunity came up. :P

[plebble]

Umm... do the parents know you're dating?

Also, you don't have to worry about pregnancy haha

[ATOMICskittles]

Hahah yup

[ksdnfkfr]

Umm... do the parents know you're dating?

Actually they do now yeah (if it can be called dating).

Sadly I myself don't have any proper input as I have problems with meeting people from college outside of college and same with when I was in school so I've never had anyone over :c

Same here. This is like a million to one fluke. I'll probably end up alone for the rest of my life though.

[Karkat]

Also, you don't have to worry about pregnancy haha

This is also true.

[ksdnfkfr]

This is also true.

That's prolly what our folks reasoned :P

[Karkat]

That's prolly what our folks reasoned :P

XD Maybe. I mean, that IS one big problem of heterosexual sex- I would know.

[backjruton]

Same here. This is like a million to one fluke. I'll probably end up alone for the rest of my life though.

Meh. I had one friend around my house 3 years ago but that was it, another random piece of luck I guess, but neither of us knew eachother or ourselves were this way back then. He randomly messaged me on facebook more recently telling me people bully him cos he's gay, then I told him people don't care about my sexuality because it's just one more thing to add to the weird :D

I have more chance of bringing my awkward friend over, but that's a problem too because she lives further away... with the friend from school we could drop him off at home quite late and it only took a 2 minute drive, but it would take an hour to take this girl back unless she managed to find a late bus back home. And my parents don't really understand the difference between romantic/sexual attraction which is a problem too, and I'm only just starting to myself, but I do know at least that is there. :kitty:

In a way I really prefer the thought of being alone though. Couldn't play this much RuneScape if I constantly had friends that didn't play it over :D you don't have to be careful not to annoy anyone (except for family who are getting used to it) and you only have to suit your own needs and not the other person's. I think that's a better idea, for me at least, until I can find someone exactly like me with the same interests :D

[ksdnfkfr]

Meh. I had one friend around my house 3 years ago but that was it, another random piece of luck I guess, but neither of us knew eachother or ourselves were this way back then. He randomly messaged me on facebook more recently telling me people bully him cos he's gay, then I told him people don't care about my sexuality because it's just one more thing to add to the weird :D

lol yeah, know what you mean.

I have more chance of bringing my awkward friend over, but that's a problem too because she lives further away... with the friend from school we could drop him off at home quite late and it only took a 2 minute drive, but it would take an hour to take this girl back unless she managed to find a late bus back home. And my parents don't really understand the difference between romantic/sexual attraction which is a problem too, and I'm only just starting to myself, but I do know at least that is there. :kitty:

In a way I really prefer the thought of being alone though. Couldn't play this much RuneScape if I constantly had friends that didn't play it over :D you don't have to be careful not to annoy anyone (except for family who are getting used to it) and you only have to suit your own needs and not the other person's. I think that's a better idea, for me at least, until I can find someone exactly like me with the same interests :D

I'm fine with being alone too. If someone engages like my friend does, I'm happy hanging out with him. But if he stopped coming around, probably the change in routine is what would bother me the most. As long as he was doing okay, I would be aright if he never came around again.

[TapDancer]

I think it's funny, my mum doesn't want to let me sleep over my best friends house, cause she's a girl. And she is fairly conservative (yet accepting of my sexuality) but she will let me stay at my boyfriend's house (we've been dating for over a year and a half now, and I have been "spoken sternly" to quite a few times for a couple Hickeys, including ones that last over a week, I only see my boy once a week or so). Yet she still allows it. It makes little sense to me.

[Hermes]

Also, you don't have to worry about pregnancy haha

Don't underestimate the significance of this. Some parents may want to protect their teenage children from having sex when the parents think they are not emotionally ready and some may have religious views around sex outside of marriage, but I should think all the parents of teenage girls are very concerned their daughter does not get pregnant before she has finished her education and also that when the time comes the guy will stick around.

[Twilly F. Sniper]

I never cared. I was, and still very much am, a loner. The only boyfriends I have are through the internet.

[Croconaw]

I'd consider that an advantage, except my parents are aware of the fact that I'm a lesbian.

[southern_boy]

I would say that's a huge plus. Lol