Long Distance

[Rugby99]

So I met a girl on Tinder that I really like. We hit it off immediately and have been talking every day since then. It has been 8 months since the day that we matched on tinder. The issue is that we live over an hour apart from each other and I do not currently have a car. Her schedule does not allow for us to meet up on the weekends and my schedule does not allow for us to meet up during the week. In the past 8 months we have only met in person once and it was only for about 3 hours. We are very compatible and we each have strong feelings for one another. I honestly believe that she is perfect for me. We aren't sure what to do. We want to keep this relationship going but we can't seem to figure out how exactly to do so considering we live completely separate lives.

[Pultost]

An hour isn't that bad. Can't you take the train or something?

[ska8er]

I would continue to talk to each
other until both of u can get the
opportunity to change each other
schedules when the time is right.
As of now it seems that is the only
thing the two of can do. I agree with
Pultost above to find some kind of
transportation.

[Rugby99]

An hour isn't that bad. Can't you take the train or something?

We both live in the middle of nowhere where there aren’t trains or taxis.

[Pultost]

We both live in the middle of nowhere where there aren’t trains or taxis.

Ah, that sucks, I understand that makes things a bit more complicated. And none of you have any one at all you can ask for a ride now and then?

[Rugby99]

Ah, that sucks, I understand that makes things a bit more complicated. And none of you have any one at all you can ask for a ride now and then?

I'd feel bad asking someone to drive me that far

[Pultost]

I'd feel bad asking someone to drive me that far

Offer them a favor in return or something, maybe? Within reasonable limits, of course.

[Youngmissnat]

Just keep talking on the phone and messaging it seems like it's all going great once your schedule arebetter organize you'lhave a better connection