Glir82
March 7th, 2019, 08:02 PM
(Sorry for spelling, English is not my first language)
It's been about 4 months that I'm interested in a girl (she is two years younger than me). Since 2 months, we began to attend school outside the school. From the beginning I know she has a boyfriend (he is 1 years older than me) may I did not care. I'm really nice to her and I'm very excited to please her. The recent physical attraction to each other is not a taboo between us. She is really important to me because she was there for me when it really mattered.
In summary, I am a really kind and helpful person who always puts others before me. One day, I realized that I was always there for everyone but that no one is ever there for me and I started to really depress until the day she came into my life. She came to beautify my day like a ray of sunshine.
Here is the problem. I am completely in love with her. I only think about her all the time. She really occupies an important place in my life. This is unfortunately not the case for her.
My phylosophy is: I always expect the worst. So when I said that it was not reciprocal, I did not take it badly. It even made me feel good to confirm my doubts. The problem is that I may not have won a girlfriend and I won a friend. I know that the best thing to do would be to break the bridges to move on but I do not want for many reasons. first, She is so present in my life that I do not know how to forget her. Second, she's not doing very well these days because, for some unknown reason, all her friends are starting to ignore her. And I do not want to be part of it.
I know this girl loves me a lot. (I want to specify that she never calls me a friend)
I'm confused, I do not know what to do ...
I hope I explained the situation well and I would like to know what you think ...
Thank you
It's been about 4 months that I'm interested in a girl (she is two years younger than me). Since 2 months, we began to attend school outside the school. From the beginning I know she has a boyfriend (he is 1 years older than me) may I did not care. I'm really nice to her and I'm very excited to please her. The recent physical attraction to each other is not a taboo between us. She is really important to me because she was there for me when it really mattered.
In summary, I am a really kind and helpful person who always puts others before me. One day, I realized that I was always there for everyone but that no one is ever there for me and I started to really depress until the day she came into my life. She came to beautify my day like a ray of sunshine.
Here is the problem. I am completely in love with her. I only think about her all the time. She really occupies an important place in my life. This is unfortunately not the case for her.
My phylosophy is: I always expect the worst. So when I said that it was not reciprocal, I did not take it badly. It even made me feel good to confirm my doubts. The problem is that I may not have won a girlfriend and I won a friend. I know that the best thing to do would be to break the bridges to move on but I do not want for many reasons. first, She is so present in my life that I do not know how to forget her. Second, she's not doing very well these days because, for some unknown reason, all her friends are starting to ignore her. And I do not want to be part of it.
I know this girl loves me a lot. (I want to specify that she never calls me a friend)
I'm confused, I do not know what to do ...
I hope I explained the situation well and I would like to know what you think ...
Thank you