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Teenage_girl
March 4th, 2019, 03:06 PM
Hello there, my name's Millie and I'm going through a friendship situation at the moment. My best friend, let's call her Alice, has been very unsupportive of my relationship recently. The guy I'm dating is not a bad person and I really do like him. My other best friend, let's call her Brittany, also has a boyfriend. Alice seems to have no issue with Brittany's relationship and her boyfriend is also from the same friend group as my boyfriend. Now to be fair, my boyfriend is not popular and isn't what you'd class as a 'cool' person. Brittany's boyfriend is slightly more popular than my boyfriend but not really. Every time I try to talk about my relationship with my closest friends, Alice shuts me down. Every time Brittany talks about her relationship, Alice couldn't be happier. I have had the same issue in the past and it is annoying me beyond compare. Alice leaves me out on purpose and has also told me that my boyfriend is excluded from the 'squad' but Brittany's boyfriend isn't. Alice is going through a really tough time at the moment and she has many family issues going on, but this isn't the first time she's made me feel bad about my relationship. Alice has never had a boyfriend and often moans about it but, she doesn't give guys a chance. I don't know what to do anymore?

ska8er
March 4th, 2019, 08:08 PM
I think Alice is not the friend that
u thought her to b. Its possible
that she is jealous of u. If u love
ur boyfriend and he loves u then
forget what others say or do. If ur
boyfriend and Brittney r in ur same
group have u asked them what they
think about y Alice is acting like that?
U can talk to Alice and ask her y she
cuts u down but I think its time to get
away from that group of friends.

OwlBlue
March 5th, 2019, 10:59 PM
I agree with ska8er. He is totally right. Good advice!