I think i am bi

[jesabel]

Hi :). this probably will sound stupid but is there a way to tell if your bi??? like a test or something idk haha. i think i might be cus i usually feel extra hyper when i'm around my girl friends, and sometimes i like to act out sexually around my friends i.e. extra hugging and cuddling, and just being goofy and hyper in general.....ive felt this way for awhile but something else happened today on the bus ride home from school...a girl was sitting on my lap and she started like grinding on me kind of plus it was a bumpy ride so she would like bounce up and down on me, i started getting really turned on, by the time she got off the bus i had almost orgasmed like twice. ive never made out w a girl but it seems like something i would like to try, also i dont think i should tell my friends cus they would think its weird and it would be awkward touching or hugging them cus they would know im attracted to them.....idk

[Taryn98]

if you are attracted to and want to have sex with both guys and girls then you are bi
there's nothing fancy about it

[Elysium]

Puberty for Girls :arrow: Teen Sexuality

[ImAurora]

I'd say you're bi, yeah.

[Luminous]

Assuming you like guys in the same way, yeah I would think you are bi. Unfortunately there is no 100% test. You can try a test to see where you place approximately on the Kinsey scale, but again, it's not 100%, so don't let your results make you decide who you are, you will figure it out in time. http://vistriai.com/kinseyscaletest/

[The37thElement]

Boys AND girls go through phases where they may go bi for a short time. It's called being "bi-curious".

[Luminous]

Boys AND girls go through phases where they may go bi for a short time. It's called being "bi-curious".

Not exactly - one can't 'go' any sexuality, you're born how you're born. Bicurious is when a person that is actually attracted to people of one gender, becomes curious about the other gender and may fool around with friends of that gender. It is really the only kind of sexuality that is actually a phase. It sounds like OP is emotionally attracted to girls too, not just sexually or curiously.

[ksdnfkfr]

Yeah, 13 is too young to be deciding on a label. Just enjoy what you enjoy for now.

[The37thElement]

Not exactly - one can't 'go' any sexuality, you're born how you're born. Bicurious is when a person that is actually attracted to people of one gender, becomes curious about the other gender and may fool around with friends of that gender. It is really the only kind of sexuality that is actually a phase. It sounds like OP is emotionally attracted to girls too, not just sexually or curiously.
Right, but you can still go through phases, no matter what your true sexuality is.

[MechaSniper]

It was probably horomones on the bus. Any way to be bisexual you would love both genders equally. Maybe your more of Straight-curious.

[KaraaaHope]

I think you would be surprised to find out how many of your friends are bi if you decided to tell them! It's not really big news anymore, a lot of people are.

[Amsey]

I had the same question when I first joined VT and the guys here helped me decide I was Bi :D, if you find boys and girls sexually attractive then your bi but I suggest kissing both genders (if you haven't kissed a boy yey otherwise just a girl) to see what right for you

I decided I was bi when a girl kissed and touched me, but it took the awesome friends I've made on this site to admit it to myself :) hope this helps and ig you got a question send it my way :P

[NeuroTiger]

Being 13, it's certainly to early to label yourself.
Also...during the phase of puberty, you'll experience such behaviour due to hormonal pressure.