amyxconlo
March 3rd, 2019, 10:19 AM
Hi everybody, I'm in a bit of a sticky situation lol and I'm not sure how to feel or what to do. Bit of background to begin with I suppose. I'm currently in my last year of school and I have some big exams coming up in the next couple of months, so a relationship is not really on the cards for me, as I don't have enough time and I don't need the distraction of it. However, I met a guy over Christmas and I grew to really like him and was very attracted to him. We kissed a few times and talk quite a lot on social media. We met up, and he is very nice but I'm quite extroverted and he's shy so I feel as if we're missing a spark or something. Fast forward a month, I was heading out clubbing with a few friends and he wasn't going to be there. He told me to 'not let him ruin my fun' so I didn't and I met somebody else. He asked me the next day if I had kissed anybody else and I was honest with him, even though I was ashamed and felt guilty. However, we had never had the 'exclusive' talk so I just presumed it would be ok. Unfortunately, to throw a spanner in the works, I developed feelings for the guy I had met while I was out as I discovered we had lots in common. He then asked me for dinner which I told the other guy (first guy) about because I didn't want to be dishonest. He told me I had played him and thought we should break things off. I can't help feeling as if I've made a mistake. I suppose i felt like i would be cheating, even though I kind of wasn't? I'm very confused as I like both very much, which I know is unfair to both. The first guy, I find highly attractive yet he's very quiet. The second guy I find not nearly as attractive but we have much more in common, and is much more outgoing. Am i being unreasonable, or has anyone else ever experienced a situation like this? Sorry for the long thread, it's eating me up inside!