Struggling to get a boner over girls

[Tomobon115v2]

Hello. I’m a 16 year old, straight and haven’t ever considered being gay as I know I’m not, I madturbate frequently. Either once a night or sometimes twice a day, I sometimes go to the gym and have a fairly balanced diet, I have been in some situations where I have got off with girls and had a boner but some of my friends talk about getting a semi just thinking about stuff etc. I don’t know wether it’s because I haven’t gotten as far with a girl to be able to think of something to give myself a boner but no matter how hard I try I can’t. Please help

[ska8er]

Ur stressing too much over how u
never got close to a girl to get at
least a semi. Ur thinking about it
too much. Just b urself and u can
flirt a little with a girl and c if she
flirts back. U just might strike a
spark.

[jamie_n5]

When the time comes I am sure that you will do just fine. You are just a guy that takes more than just thoughts to get aroused and there is nothing wrong with that.

[ShineintheDark]

Not everyone's as sensitive to stuff as others may be. As long as it's up and ready to go when you're actually having sex then you'll be fine.

[damien]

just depends on the guy i think. most of the time just thinking about a girl doesnt get me hard. but occasionally it does

[arca]

Wait.. I don't get how going to the gym and eating healthy has anything to do with your sexual attraction to girls. But it is true that if you aren't seeing an attraction to girls nor boys you may be asexual or something.

[justa16yearoldaussie]

I personally find it really hard to get a boner just with my imagination so its most likely fine that you find it difficult to get aroused with only your mind

[PCwrestler]

i have that problem, and realize i do like boys

[MasonBA]

not every boy gets an erection just from looking at another person. i like boys but don't get hard every time i see one, nobody does