Don’t know how to approach this girl at school

[Blake2003]

So there is this really hot girl at school that I’ve been talking to for a while. I really want to ask her out but every time I try to I get really nervous and get a boner and it’s embarrassing because I know she’ll notice the bulge in my jeans if I stand up to go near her. Last time I was talking to her she started hugging me and I got hard and it made me so nervous. I backed away from her and she was wondering why. I was too embarrassed to tell her she made me get hard.

I want to ask her out but I don’t know how to overcome the issue of being so nervous and always getting hard. I think about her constantly and I really like her and she’s so hot. Even thinking about her gets me worked up and turned on. But I don’t know how best to ask her out without making her uncomfortable. Plus I’m scared I’m gonna get a boner again and it will gross her out or something. I just don’t know what to do.

[ska8er]

Slip it up under ur waistband even
if u r soft and then go and ask her.
U can also put a jacket or books or
ur back pack in front of u. Even if
she sees it she just might like the
fact that ur glad to talk to her.

[Blake2003]

Slip it up under ur waistband even
if u r soft and then go and ask her.
U can also put a jacket or books or
ur back pack in front of u. Even if
she sees it she just might like the
fact that ur glad to talk to her.

Yeah good suggestion I suppose. I usually have a hoodie. I guess I could hide it with that.

[abcdeqwe]

When u ask her out don’t come off too strong or desperate. Also I don’t get the waistband thing lol, idk that would work for me. Wearing baggy underwear like boxers should work too. Also,r u sure ur erection is that noticeable?

[ska8er]

Yeah good suggestion I suppose. I usually have a hoodie. I guess I could hide it with that.

U can tie the arms of the hoodie around
ur waist and let the hood hang down in
front of u. Make the best of it but ask the
hot girl out.

[Blake2003]

When u ask her out don’t come off too strong or desperate. Also I don’t get the waistband thing lol, idk that would work for me. Wearing baggy underwear like boxers should work too. Also,r u sure ur erection is that noticeable?

Yeah it’s pretty noticeable. I usually wear boxers. They are more comfortable.

[abcdeqwe]

Yeah it’s pretty noticeable. I usually wear boxers. They are more comfortable.

Hmm, what kind of pants u where? I find mines not as noticeable in jeans but then again my erection doesn’t point up lol. The hoody thing will probably work tho. I personally never let it bother me.

[Blake2003]

Hmm, what kind of pants u where? I find mines not as noticeable in jeans but then again my erection doesn’t point up lol. The hoody thing will probably work tho. I personally never let it bother me.

Wrangler cowboy cut jeans or Levi’s 505 jeans. Or sometimes basketball shorts.

[abcdeqwe]

Wrangler cowboy cut jeans or Levi’s 505 jeans. Or sometimes basketball shorts.

Basketball shorts would definitely be lots more noticeable, those yeehaw jeans too probably. Actually no tighter underwear might be better but u prefer boxers anyway so nvm lol. Sry, I’m not much help. It never bothered me if I got an election

[EthanMTX]

Just go ask her out. It will be okay and don’t think about if you will get hard or not. I have had it happen in front of my GF and she thinks it’s cute. She knows we can’t control it most times. You will be okay.

[Blake2003]

Just go ask her out. It will be okay and don’t think about if you will get hard or not. I have had it happen in front of my GF and she thinks it’s cute. She knows we can’t control it most times. You will be okay.

I hope so. I mean I can’t help it if get hard. She may think it’s hot anyway. I don’t know lol.

[arnorway]

So there is this really hot girl at school that I’ve been talking to for a while. I really want to ask her out but every time I try to I get really nervous and get a boner and it’s embarrassing because I know she’ll notice the bulge in my jeans if I stand up to go near her. Last time I was talking to her she started hugging me and I got hard and it made me so nervous. I backed away from her and she was wondering why. I was too embarrassed to tell her she made me get hard.

I want to ask her out but I don’t know how to overcome the issue of being so nervous and always getting hard. I think about her constantly and I really like her and she’s so hot. Even thinking about her gets me worked up and turned on. But I don’t know how best to ask her out without making her uncomfortable. Plus I’m scared I’m gonna get a boner again and it will gross her out or something. I just don’t know what to do.

i had the same problem, was more or less constantly hard around the girl i like - now my girlfriend. but when i talked to her the first time, was very nervous and actually didn't get hard. wore compression shorts for nothing :rolleyes:

[Blake2003]

i had the same problem, was more or less constantly hard around the girl i like - now my girlfriend. but when i talked to her the first time, was very nervous and actually didn't get hard. wore compression shorts for nothing :rolleyes:

I haven’t thought about wearing compression shorts. They might help if I get hard around her.

[arnorway]

I haven’t thought about wearing compression shorts. They might help if I get hard around her.

also, at least for me, aiming my penis upwards helped too. that way, one doesn't have to fumble around down there if it happens

[arnorway]

Just go and jerk off, that will help you to not get hard while you are with her.

that's not always an option. nor does it always help. at least it didn't for me :P