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Oscar-V3.0
February 25th, 2019, 04:53 PM
Hi all, has anyone else started to have sex before they started to ejaculate? How long did u do it before you started to cum? Does sex feel different before and after?

jamie_n5
February 25th, 2019, 06:35 PM
Never had sex before being able to cum but that would have been a good experience i bet.

ska8er
February 25th, 2019, 06:46 PM
I guess u would have a dry orgasm
just like u would feel with masturbation.
Im sure there r a lot of both guys and
girls experiment but u always have to
remember to b safe.

justa16yearoldaussie
February 26th, 2019, 02:45 AM
it depends how long before hitting puberty you had sex, it'd most likely result in a dry orgasm tho

Second Chance
February 26th, 2019, 02:49 AM
Hi all, has anyone else started to have sex before they started to ejaculate? How long did u do it before you started to cum? Does sex feel different before and after?

I remember there were some guys on here who could not ejaculate but who had sex. I think at least two of the guys were having sex for around a year before they could ejaculate. They said that sex definitely felt different before and after being able to cum, but the change was not a big deal. I think they still wore condoms because they never knew when they would start to ejaculate.

Are you asking this question about yourself (assuming you cannot ejaculate)?

hairy balls
February 26th, 2019, 06:31 AM
I guess u would have a dry orgasm
just like u would feel with masturbation

Franciscofixe
February 26th, 2019, 08:42 AM
I am virgin and already cum

Oscar-V3.0
February 26th, 2019, 11:00 AM
Are you asking this question about yourself (assuming you cannot ejaculate)?
Yes that's exactly my case

Second Chance
February 26th, 2019, 11:21 AM
Yes that's exactly my case

Assuming you masturbate now I agree with the others that the feeling you will get inside of your partner will be a dry orgasm which is not a bad thing at all. Once you start making cum, then you just will not be able to have back to back orgasms like you probably are having now. Just make sure to pace yourself when you are with your partner. All because you can have back-to-back orgasms does not mean your partner can.

One of the guys who was a dry shooter mentioned that he had forgotten to tell his girlfriend he could not cum which took her by surprise when they first had sex. Just make sure you tell your partner that you do not cum, yet, so that they know that when you have your orgasm that they know not to expect cum.

Just wear condoms when you have sex because you never know when you will start cumming.

Are you totally dry when you masturbate? Have you had sex, yet?

Cassius16
February 26th, 2019, 02:04 PM
I don't think it's a good idea even if you can't ejaculate yet because what if you had recently started producing sperm and you didn't realise.

If you still practice safe sex then I think that's good.

Oscar-V3.0
February 26th, 2019, 03:02 PM
Are you totally dry when you masturbate? Have you had sex, yet?

Yes when i masterbate i feel something is coming up and is going to come out but there's nothing

bonbon
February 26th, 2019, 04:04 PM
Yeah, I had sex with a girl for a year and a half before being able to cum.

It isn't a big deal. The feeling isn't quite the same. Just as when I was masturbating, the orgasms felt a little different, and without the feeling of being tired of sex after, so I could do it several times in a row. It didn't change anything for the girl.

I used condoms, and strongly advise using them even if you can't cum, as you never really know when your 1st ejaculation will happen, and besides, it also protects you from a lot or sexual-transmissible diseases.

jerrion
February 26th, 2019, 04:46 PM
Hi all, has anyone else started to have sex before they started to ejaculate? How long did u do it before you started to cum? Does sex feel different before and after?

is that like inapropriate? i mean who has sex before 12 lol

Second Chance
February 27th, 2019, 01:52 AM
Yeah, I had sex with a girl for a year and a half before being able to cum.

It isn't a big deal. The feeling isn't quite the same. Just as when I was masturbating, the orgasms felt a little different, and without the feeling of being tired of sex after, so I could do it several times in a row. It didn't change anything for the girl.

I used condoms, and strongly advise using them even if you can't cum, as you never really know when your 1st ejaculation will happen, and besides, it also protects you from a lot or sexual-transmissible diseases.

When you had sex before being able to cum were you able to have several orgasms with the girl, or would you both get tired out pretty quickly?

Did you notice a big change in sex before and after you started to cum?

Oscar-V3.0
February 27th, 2019, 07:55 AM
is that like inapropriate? i mean who has sex before 12 lol
I'm over 12 lol
I'm soon to be 14

Second Chance
February 27th, 2019, 11:57 AM
Yes when i masterbate i feel something is coming up and is going to come out but there's nothing

Since you're 13 you seem totally fine because there's folks on here who did not have their first ejaculation as late as 16. As long as you are getting an orgasm (which is the good feeling), then you're good. Hopefully, sex feels all right the way it is going now though you do not make cum.

Assuming you're sexually active with your girlfriend, then as long as she knows you are a dry shooter and that you both are feelings all right, then you should be fine. When it comes to sex in the end of the day it all depends on your family's values, and whether you're 14 or 100 it is up to you to be responsible with your body. As long as you're taking precautions and not just doing sex for the sake of doing it, then you're fine. As long as your families are all right with your being sexually active, then that is up to them because in the end of the day there're responsible for you until you're 18 and are out on your own.

As the other guys mentioned just make sure you're using condoms because you do not know when you will start ejaculating. Especially if you're getting hairs around your penis or if your orgasms are starting to get more intense, then that could be signs that your ejaculation could happen. Ejaculations can come out of nowhere which is why you should be careful and make sure you're using condoms properly. Also, it would not hurt if your girlfriend is on birth control, too, just to be totally safe. Make sure your girlfriend has been tested for STDs if she is not a virgin, and never take someone's word for it that they are a virgin.

jerrion
February 27th, 2019, 04:59 PM
I'm over 12 lol
I'm soon to be 14

Ok sir

bonbon
February 27th, 2019, 06:30 PM
When you had sex before being able to cum were you able to have several orgasms with the girl, or would you both get tired out pretty quickly?

Did you notice a big change in sex before and after you started to cum?

Yes, I was able to do that.

Biggest change was that I soon could only have a single orgasm, so it was more difficult to keep it long, as my orgasms often come rather fast.

Oscar-V3.0
February 27th, 2019, 06:35 PM
As long as your families are all right with your being sexually active, then that is up to them because in the end of the day there're responsible for you until you're 18 and are out on your own.
Of course... I'm gonna tell mum that i have sex at 13.... :roll:
Why not writing it in the newspaper also?

never take someone's word for it that they are a virgin.

If you date a girl and you don't trust what she says, i dont think it can work out :roll:

ska8er
February 27th, 2019, 07:03 PM
is that like inapropriate? i mean who has sex before 12 lol

I agree. Mutual masturbation maybe
but not sex. I don't c even if a condom
would work. It would b too big unless u
r God gifted then use protection.

arnorway
February 28th, 2019, 01:05 AM
I agree. Mutual masturbation maybe
but not sex. I don't c even if a condom
would work. It would b too big unless u
r God gifted then use protection.

i am personally not using them, but i recently got swiss condoms especially for teen boys that are smaller in diameter just in case i need them

jerrion
February 28th, 2019, 03:17 AM
I agree. Mutual masturbation maybe
but not sex. I don't c even if a condom
would work. It would b too big unless u
r God gifted then use protection.

Haha, to be honest I think Oscar meant something else but I had to note that

jerrion
February 28th, 2019, 03:18 AM
i am personally not using them, but i recently got swiss condoms especially for teen boys that are smaller in diameter just in case i need them

I wish I could have those 7 years ago :D

bonbon
March 1st, 2019, 10:03 AM
If you date a girl and you don't trust what she says, i dont think it can work out :roll:

Yes, but you wouldn't be the first to be fooled by what a sexual partner said ! Be always cautious, even if you trust each other deeply. Best is to get tested for STDs (it can be done anonymously for teens in school medical centers and such in several countries, dunno about yours); if you cannot, use condoms. If regular condoms are too big for you, there are smaller size ones available on many websites. What some reference as 'swiss' condoms here are Ceylor Hotshots - they are rather easy to find online.

arnorway
March 1st, 2019, 10:26 AM
What some reference as 'swiss' condoms here are Ceylor Hotshots - they are rather easy to find online.

they got renamed. they are called ceylor tight feeling now :P

bonbon
March 1st, 2019, 06:16 PM
they got renamed. they are called ceylor tight feeling now :P
lol, thanks for the info! I stopped using them a while ago, but that's good info for anybody needing them nowadays :)

damien
March 1st, 2019, 09:59 PM
i never did. never even had a dry orgasm

arnorway
March 2nd, 2019, 02:06 AM
lol, thanks for the info! I stopped using them a while ago, but that's good info for anybody needing them nowadays :)

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