Anxious for our first time

[INeedALittleHelp]

Hi all,
This is going to be a strange question and maybe a little TMI.
I also apologize if this isn’t supposed to be posted.

Basically, I am in a gay relationship right now and am really in love with my boyfriend. Lately, things have been pretty close to going all the way and I’m really looking forward to it. This will be both of our first times having sex so I’m not sure who will be in what position, but I think I would like to try bottom. The only issue is that I recently got hemorrhoids and I’m kinda freaking out. I’m not sure if this is going to be something that permanent prevents me from bottoming?

Is it safe? Can I treat them to a point where it won’t be a problem?
I’m sorry that this post was so weird, but I appreciate your help!

[ShineintheDark]

Can't see any major reason that it would be a huge problem, especially since haemorrhoids is pretty temporary. Best you can do is lube up as much as possible and take it slow

[ska8er]

I would say b careful and not b
a bottom. The vein in ur bottom
probably is still sensitive and if u
chance it u just might bleed which
is not good. Talk to ur boyfriend and
tell him ur problem and what might
happen. If he truly loves u he will say
he does not want to hurt u. B careful.

[OwlBlue]

You can maybe wait,treat hemorrhoids and when it will be completely healed , you'll have sex. I think that would be wise.

[Ashley2004]

Best thing would be to ask your doctor but anal sex is fun if you use a lot of lube and start slow.