Artworrior
February 11th, 2019, 03:03 PM
Hello kind people of the internet. Sorry for the clickbait-y title. I shall begin:
So I am madly in love with a girl. Everything about her is alluring to me and i can barely keep myself together around her. Anyways, I knew that she felt the same about me up until today. I noticed she wasn’t really herself recently. I texted her today after school to ask her why was she that way. As I found out, she realized that she has a crush on me and on another guy. Immediately my heart sank. She admitted that at least for now she doesn’t feel comfortable with me and that she needs time. Of course, as a decent human being, i understand her. She is saying that this time will pass and all of that, that she needs to rethink everything. I guess there is no issue there, but on my end of things, it is not good. My head is swirling with various thoughts and scenarios of how everything could play out at the end, because i am a massive overthinker. I am scared that she will realize that she doesn’t love me as a romantic partner anymore. I am so scared of losing her, because for the first time in her life i felt so loved, as she wrote entire texts about how she will always love me, and now for her to say that she doesn’t really know anymore and that she has another crush is absolutely heartbreaking to me. Idk, maybe i am just too extra about such stuff, but i cant help myself. My question would be: How would you react to such situation? What should i do? I am really lost in this maze of feelings and wouldn’t mind some good advice.(sorry if the text is not cohesive-still a bit shaky from this whole situation)
So I am madly in love with a girl. Everything about her is alluring to me and i can barely keep myself together around her. Anyways, I knew that she felt the same about me up until today. I noticed she wasn’t really herself recently. I texted her today after school to ask her why was she that way. As I found out, she realized that she has a crush on me and on another guy. Immediately my heart sank. She admitted that at least for now she doesn’t feel comfortable with me and that she needs time. Of course, as a decent human being, i understand her. She is saying that this time will pass and all of that, that she needs to rethink everything. I guess there is no issue there, but on my end of things, it is not good. My head is swirling with various thoughts and scenarios of how everything could play out at the end, because i am a massive overthinker. I am scared that she will realize that she doesn’t love me as a romantic partner anymore. I am so scared of losing her, because for the first time in her life i felt so loved, as she wrote entire texts about how she will always love me, and now for her to say that she doesn’t really know anymore and that she has another crush is absolutely heartbreaking to me. Idk, maybe i am just too extra about such stuff, but i cant help myself. My question would be: How would you react to such situation? What should i do? I am really lost in this maze of feelings and wouldn’t mind some good advice.(sorry if the text is not cohesive-still a bit shaky from this whole situation)