Sex for the first time in a while

[Allover Kelly]

No Details,after a long dry spell, It was a older guy(20) and it was like he had no idea what to do. It was like I had to move that parts for him to feel or do things with. When wanted to kiss me, I really wanted to ask him if he wanted a mint(He is a smoker). Lets not talk about the event. It was that fast for him. I just might girls.
All done. Any other have stuff like this happen No stories.

[Lucy G]

Mercifully not. If that’s what it’s like with a boy, I’ll stick to girls!

[Natacha]

I don't like kissing smokers. They put nicotine down my lungs and I get dizzy. I have tried guys who fumble, but thats probably okay if they would bother to learn when I correct them.
Luckily I have a great boyfriend now

[EvaNL]

Kissing a smoker is disgusting. I'm never going to do that anymore. Yuck.
And regarding the rest: maybe he was a virgin? Too bad it was a bad experience for you.

[Pultost]

I guess he was either a virgin or it's been some time for him as well. Also I've heard something about that guys might have less control with a new partner. Like even if they are experienced it'll be like their first time all over when they get intimate with someone new, but don't quote me on that. Unless you decide to reply to this particular post, of course. :P

[ChloeF]

Sounds like a real dud.
l've had the same and agreed when it comes to kissing a smoker, it's disgusting.

[Emilyfox]

I just can’t imagine the situation, why would you even bother?
This stinky fumbly loser surely isn’t worthy to be inside you

[Mollypop]

I decided a long time ago no more smokers. Nasty breath and nasty tasting cum. I don't need that.

[angelina]

if i were you sure i will keep away from him..smokers are dangerous people not only spoiling themselves and also others by spreading nicotine smoke in the air...Really non-smokers are affected by the nicotine pollution

[ashleigh7]

Smokers...ugh! Gross:/ I can’t...just can’t .

[stoneflowe96]

That smoking part is bad and I would also never kiss ord date a smoker. For the sex part, I think you were a bit harsh. There is no problem with the girl having the initiative and doing more. For being a fast thing, yes that happens and there you could communicate what else you like. Would it be that of a problem if he would have been a virgin? That's nothing to blame some one for.
When I had sex after a long time not having it and with a new partner, yes it was clumsy. The important part was that we talked together about it and lerned together. I think with every partner there is an adapting and that is part of being together for long or short. Communicating during sex is helpful.

[Naturelover]

maybe it was his first time. and yes, smoking does not work. sorry that you had to experience something like that

[Miss Equestrian]

Thankfully I have only experienced sex with one guy and that has been my boyfriend who I have been with since November 11, 2016. I do have to admit things have gotten better since the first time we had sex, but actually my first experience with him was also amazing. As for kissing a smoker I can even imagine that because I can't stand the smell of cigarette smoke.

[Common.Name]

I just can’t imagine the situation, why would you even bother?
This stinky fumbly loser surely isn’t worthy to be inside you

My thoughts exactly~!

[hayley2003]

Just seeing a guy smoking is s turn off, so he kinda drop off the list right away. I know that smoking is not the same as doing drugs, but I kinda imagine that if someone is smoking, they might be doing drugs too. Its kinda being judgemental, but its also my experience among some people who I know that smoke. I don't know a lot people who smoke or take drugs, but of those that I have met, those that take drugs also smoke. I don't know any people who take drugs, but are non-smokers and not drinkers.

Anyways, we learned about "Addictive" personalities at school, where there are some people are genetically wired in such a way they that they can get addicted to drugs and other stuff more easily than other people. Like parents are alcoholics and\or smokers, its more likely their kids will be too.

Sex doesn't count, because as far as I can tell, everybody is kinda addicted to it once they start to develop. :P

[cheergurl]

Every time I've had sex for the first time with someone, especially if we weren't buzzed or drunk or anything, it's been 30% good, and 70% awkward, clumsy, and timid. If he makes you laugh and treats you right, give him another chance. Practice makes perfect and sex almost always gets better after the first time. In fact, most of the time it get a LOT better.
But you are definitely within your rights to ask him not to smoke in the hour or two leading up to being together, and to brush his teeth and Listerine before you get busy. If he's a decent guy he'll start doing that automatically after that. I don't agree with just dumping him straight away because he's a smoker. That seems INCREDIBLY superficial. Most people smoke because they're addicted. If he's willing to do the things I just said to make it less unpleasant for you, and maybe consider cutting back or quitting eventually, that's really small of someone to up and dump him over an addiction.
However, If he's not funny/kind, then I wouldn't worry about him again.

[Shiny Moon]

I also don't like smokers, it's automatically a nono for me.
Better luck next time!

[ShyBGGirl]

I decided a long time ago no more smokers. Nasty breath and nasty tasting cum. I don't need that.
I agree. I have never had such a bad overall experience as Kelly but definitely smoke before kiss is awful for me.

[Allover Kelly]

Well going to try something new. A girl asked me out, said yes. Dad said if it makes me happy go for it. So it will be movie then a party. Lets see this works.

[Common.Name]

Well going to try something new. A girl asked me out, said yes. Dad said if it makes me happy go for it. So it will be movie then a party. Lets see this works.

Yay good for you. I hope it goes well~!

[Ashley 2003]

Well going to try something new. A girl asked me out, said yes. Dad said if it makes me happy go for it. So it will be movie then a party. Lets see this works.

That's awesome hope all goes well !

[Pultost]

Well going to try something new. A girl asked me out, said yes. Dad said if it makes me happy go for it. So it will be movie then a party. Lets see this works.

Best of luck! :)

[Allover Kelly]

Can't be worse then what I have done in the past month or so.

[LITTLEANGEL19]

No Details,after a long dry spell, It was a older guy(20) and it was like he had no idea what to do. It was like I had to move that parts for him to feel or do things with. When wanted to kiss me, I really wanted to ask him if he wanted a mint(He is a smoker). Lets not talk about the event. It was that fast for him. I just might girls.
All done. Any other have stuff like this happen No stories.
Sounds you had a bad experience that would have made the whole thing a lot less pleasurable :(



Mercifully not. If that’s what it’s like with a boy, I’ll stick to girls!
I totally agree with you Lucy :yes:

[Gone Away]

Hey girl, sounds like the experience with that guy was for crap. I hope your experience with the girl really went well and you have something going good now. I am not into girls, but like your dad said if it makes you happy and it works for you go for it.

[cleverme]

it was with this 19 year old and I'm 16 and it was amazing, I was at a party and as he was leaving I told him to come here and I grabbed his hand and took him to the back room, I had liked him before this and I wanted to talk to him but we talked at the party and shared some laughs but then as I took him to the back room he threw me on the bed and it just happened it was amazing, it happened a second time the next day but after that he wasn't feeling it and I got really insecure. but I still had fun. so I didn't think to much of it. but I still really like him, I haven't gone over to his house in a while so I haven't talked to him.. I really miss him, he was great.

[Bluebyrd]

it was with this 19 year old and I'm 16 and it was amazing, I was at a party and as he was leaving I told him to come here and I grabbed his hand and took him to the back room, I had liked him before this and I wanted to talk to him but we talked at the party and shared some laughs but then as I took him to the back room he threw me on the bed and it just happened it was amazing, it happened a second time the next day but after that he wasn't feeling it and I got really insecure. but I still had fun. so I didn't think to much of it. but I still really like him, I haven't gone over to his house in a while so I haven't talked to him.. I really miss him, he was great.

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