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conradpjones
January 27th, 2019, 06:03 PM
all of my friends watch porn but I personally never have. first it is illegal if you are not 18. second the excuse I always get is everyone watches it. Is porn something people just watch as they are growing and then stop when they reach like 18 or so?

ShineintheDark
January 27th, 2019, 06:05 PM
Idk, it's a means to an end - the end being getting horny to masturbate. It works for some people, not so much for me. Some people watch it for the rest of their lives if it works for them and that's pretty normal.

ska8er
January 27th, 2019, 06:14 PM
It is illegal for someone under 18 to watch porn.
That is y the porn sites say u must b 18 but if u
watch it for "entertainment" and it is not child porn
and if ur parents don't catch u then I don't think any
FBI or cop is going to arrest u. There is so much porn
on the web that it is difficult not to search anything with
out running into porn. If u don't want to c it then u don't
have to. Im sure different aged people watch it.

mick01
January 27th, 2019, 06:23 PM
I was definitely watching more porn when I was 13 or 14 than I am now at 17. It was all new and a good way to learn stuff. But now it all just seems so fake so I don't watch it much anymore.

breaux
January 27th, 2019, 06:30 PM
Why would someone stop watching porn when they reach the age of 18? PornHub says that their average user is 35,3 years old.

Shiny Moon
January 27th, 2019, 06:32 PM
I used to watch a lot back when I was 14-15, but nowadays not so much. I mean, I still do but not so often as I used to :P

I don't know a single person between 13-18 that doesn't watch porn, and it's not like someone is going to arrest you or something for doing it.

samuel15
January 27th, 2019, 07:11 PM
Why would someone stop watching porn when they reach the age of 18? PornHub says that their average user is 35,3 years old.

Yeah but they don't count the accounts that have users under the age of 18 so that is a bit imprecise

Zandra
January 27th, 2019, 08:34 PM
I used to watch a lot back when I was 14-15, but nowadays not so much. I mean, I still do but not so often as I used to :P

I don't know a single person between 13-18 that doesn't watch porn, and it's not like someone is going to arrest you or something for doing it.

Same, me either and exactly

justa16yearoldaussie
January 27th, 2019, 10:44 PM
yes, porn under 18 is illegal, but its not enforced, so cops won't bust down your door at 1am for watching it. and watching porn isn't something that only happens in adolescent years, people of all age do it, and start early too, (a survey of Australian boys aged 15-29 years old had an average saying that 90% of participants started watching porn at age 13 or younger). the reason not as many adults watch as much porn is because most of them have real life partners to have sex with or they are busy with things like work, so watching porn shouldn't bring you any serious consequences, and you might very well wish you watched it sooner.

breaux
January 28th, 2019, 03:19 AM
Yeah but they don't count the accounts that have users under the age of 18 so that is a bit imprecise How many horny teenagers do you think are signing up on PornHub?

Pultost
January 28th, 2019, 05:37 AM
Sure, it's illegal for anyone under 18, etc., but I don't think I know anyone under 18 who hasn't watched porn. No cops come crashing through your door if you do. However, I doubt that those who really get into it stop at 18.

scott2002
January 28th, 2019, 07:16 AM
I'll admit that I watch porn, but the porn that gets me most aroused is definitely amateur porn where I'm imagining I'm the guy that I'm watching. My favorite is watching a guy doing it missionary style on top of a girl. (I have extremely little experience actually doing that yet.)

Zandra
January 28th, 2019, 09:10 AM
Sure, it's illegal for anyone under 18, etc., but I don't think I know anyone under 18 who hasn't watched porn. No cops come crashing through your door if you do. However, I doubt that those who really get into it stop at 18.

I couldn't agree more

pauly
January 28th, 2019, 11:08 AM
If porn was "fly on the wall" and not "in your face," I'd probably be more interested in it.

EvaNL
January 28th, 2019, 11:53 AM
all of my friends watch porn but I personally never have. first it is illegal if you are not 18. second the excuse I always get is everyone watches it. Is porn something people just watch as they are growing and then stop when they reach like 18 or so?

It all depends on the person. Some people watch it from a very early age and never stop, and some people never watch it. And everything in between. And that's all fine. Maybe not entirely legal depending on the age and local laws, but no-one is going to arrest you.

Important: you don't have to watch porn.
Do as you want! Don't get pressured into watching it.

And IF you're going to watch it, the this is very important as well:
Porn is fake. Very fake. It is nothing like real sex. Don't take porn as the standard as to what your sexlife should look like.

ChloeF
January 28th, 2019, 12:35 PM
I'll admit that I watch porn, but the porn that gets me most aroused is definitely amateur porn where I'm imagining I'm the guy that I'm watching. My favorite is watching a guy doing it missionary style on top of a girl. (I have extremely little experience actually doing that yet.)
From a girl's perspective, that's what l like too.
The rights or wrongs of porn or watching it can be debated endlessly with no real conclusion other than l think we all agree that professionally made material bears no resemblance to what actually happens when you're having sex yourself.

Oscar-V3.0
January 28th, 2019, 02:59 PM
I used to watch a lot back when I was 14-15, but nowadays not so much. I mean, I still do but not so often as I used to :P

I guess that's because now you're actually doing it for real instead of just watching it :D

samuel15
January 28th, 2019, 05:08 PM
How many horny teenagers do you think are signing up on PornHub?

The has got to be at least 5

Zika
January 28th, 2019, 07:57 PM
I think people watch porn at different ages for different reasons.
When you're younger, you watch it to see what the other sex looks like.
Then you watch it as fodder for masturbating.
Then you watch it to see how it's done and pick up some techniques, as you become sexually active with another person.
Often couples watch it together, either to get turned on, or to get ideas.

There's nothing wrong with porn as long as you don't become obsessed with it and realize much of it is fake. If a guy's going at it for half an hour straight, it's likely they've stopped a few times so he could recoup. Don't expect to be able to perform like that and don't expect the girl's hair to remain nicely coiffed when you're going at it.

Personally, I'm not a big fan of porn vids, but everyone is different.

Some people prefer to look at pics rather than action.

there's no reason to watch porn if you aren't drawn to it, and some people aren't.
On the other hand, the illegal aspect probably isn't important, as long as you're sure not to get on some weird site which has kiddy porn.

I'm not even sure if it's illegal for minors to watch porn. I know it's illegal to sell it to them, but I've never heard of a minor being arrested for watching porn.

Turbofan explosion
January 28th, 2019, 08:34 PM
It is illegal to watch porn under 18, but the law isn't really enforced and you are likely not going to be arrested or anything if the FBI catches you. Unless you were watching something illegal like child pornography. However, porn sites often have a message saying something like "You must be 18+ to view the content. Are you 18 or older?".

It is mostly that a majority of teens just at some time find porn while surfing on the internet, and then at some point start watching porn when masturbating. Surely, there's a lot of nude content on the internet.

There's no normal or abnormal for this. It is completely fine if you do or you don't.

mixel19
January 30th, 2019, 05:24 AM
with the internet and smartphones porn is so readily available that I think plenty of kids are exposed to it in some way or another before or right at the onset of puberty, maybe before they even know what it is. As far as younger people watching a lot more than the adults it's intended for, think of it like masturbation: they discover it in early adolescence, start checking things out, and then WHOA. This stuff is awesome! And then they want to do it as much as they possibly can, all day every day. Eventually after that period of endless indulgence their hormones level out and they learn to do it at a more healthy rate, and by the time they're adults, it's no longer an every day thing, just something to occasionally indulge in

Natacha
January 30th, 2019, 11:39 AM
I admit I watch a lot of it. Of course I do it because I enjoy it very much, but also because it can inspire me to see new things and to be ready, openhearted and maybe a little bit eager to try new stuff.
If I didn't watch porn I would probably hear about sex from my friends, but then I would also only know about the stuff, they want to talk about. By watching porn I can explore much further and maybe my sexlife will not have missed as much when I grow old.

HardCandyGirl
January 30th, 2019, 07:05 PM
It all depends on the person. Some people watch it from a very early age and never stop, and some people never watch it. And everything in between. And that's all fine. Maybe not entirely legal depending on the age and local laws, but no-one is going to arrest you.

Important: you don't have to watch porn.
Do as you want! Don't get pressured into watching it.

And IF you're going to watch it, the this is very important as well:
Porn is fake. Very fake. It is nothing like real sex. Don't take porn as the standard as to what your sexlife should look like.

I completely agree. ;)

I watch porn since I was too young, and that was not a good idea (It wasn't mine)

Karalectric
January 30th, 2019, 09:32 PM
It all depends on the person. Some people watch it from a very early age and never stop, and some people never watch it. And everything in between. And that's all fine. Maybe not entirely legal depending on the age and local laws, but no-one is going to arrest you.

Important: you don't have to watch porn.
Do as you want! Don't get pressured into watching it.

And IF you're going to watch it, the this is very important as well:
Porn is fake. Very fake. It is nothing like real sex. Don't take porn as the standard as to what your sexlife should look like.

Best answer, Eva. You win!!!! :clap:

Shiny Moon
January 31st, 2019, 12:13 AM
I guess that's because now you're actually doing it for real instead of just watching it :D

Nope, I already did it back then lol, I guess I watched it more because I wanted to see more and know more.

Emilyfox
January 31st, 2019, 06:11 PM
I’ve watched a little, mostly to understand what people were talking about and sure because it’s exciting too
My brother certainly watches it lol, always funny when he must move suddenly and snags his headphones out of the computer and it comes through the speakers before he can mute it lol

domino
January 31st, 2019, 06:19 PM
It is illegal for someone under 18 to watch porn.
That is y the porn sites say u must b 18 but if u
watch it for "entertainment" and it is not child porn
and if ur parents don't catch u then I don't think any
FBI or cop is going to arrest u. There is so much porn
on the web that it is difficult not to search anything with
out running into porn. If u don't want to c it then u don't
have to. Im sure different aged people watch it.

That's actually not entirely true. There's no law specifically prohibiting minors from watching porn. There are however laws that make it illegal for an adult to distribute or make porn available to minors, and that's why they make you 'verify' that you're 18 or older, it's so that they don't get in legal trouble for providing it to you.

Impressionist1910
January 31st, 2019, 07:15 PM
I'll admit that I watch porn, but the porn that gets me most aroused is definitely amateur porn where I'm imagining I'm the guy that I'm watching. My favorite is watching a guy doing it missionary style on top of a girl. (I have extremely little experience actually doing that yet.)

I have to say I definitely agree with you.
On all counts.
I sure hope you get some more experience Scott!

Allstar49
February 1st, 2019, 10:47 PM
I don’t think its illegal as long as the people in the porn are of legal age. But sites still have to cover their butts so that’s why they ask the “are you 18+”. And no you don’t just stop at 18. So many people watch it.

thatboi
March 3rd, 2019, 06:33 AM
When I was 13-14 I watched much more than now. I sometimes watch it too now but not so often. Also you won't get arrested for watching porn, unless it's illegal one of course.

martinaCRO14
March 3rd, 2019, 07:16 AM
I completely agree. ;)

I watch porn since I was too young, and that was not a good idea (It wasn't mine)

who has the idea?:lol::lol::lol:


I like it and I watch it often and I am not ashamed of it if you like watching watch if not don't watch it is everyone's private thing.

Curious_Guy
March 3rd, 2019, 07:46 AM
I admit I watch a lot of it. Of course I do it because I enjoy it very much, but also because it can inspire me to see new things and to be ready, openhearted and maybe a little bit eager to try new stuff.
If I didn't watch porn I would probably hear about sex from my friends, but then I would also only know about the stuff, they want to talk about. By watching porn I can explore much further and maybe my sexlife will not have missed as much when I grow old.

Same here

Sheaman16
March 7th, 2019, 04:11 PM
There are times when I cannot stop but other times where I stop watching it for many months!

Allstar49
March 7th, 2019, 07:53 PM
It’s kinda just up to you. I’ve personally been back and forth on my porn watching. I’ve had times where I haven’t looked at porn for like 6 months. Right now though I look at it every time I jerk off. I’ll probably get bored of it in a couple weeks and be off of it again. Some people hate it. Some people love it. Figure out what’s best for you

rgconrad23
March 7th, 2019, 09:50 PM
So I’ve watched porn and frankly, I find most of it garbage. The acting sucks, the scenarios are ridiculous and well I’m just selective as to what I watch and it isn’t that often. So, don’t feel like you have to. To each their own!