Can't ejaculate with condom?

[PositiveVibes]

Can anyone else not cum with a condom on?

My penis is cut, and i know tbh that means as you got older your penis is less sensitive sadly but cumming with a condom is difficult....idk 8/10 times i can't do it and a mouth would be better to finish off.

Any tips? I always try and be safe for sure but this is super frustrating!

[ska8er]

If u know ur partner well then I would
not worry about going without a condom
but if u have many partners that u don't
know their history I think then their hand
would b better. If u r masturbating alone
then don't wear a condom. IDK a little of
understanding what u r saying in ur post.

[Zachary G]

I am cut, too and have a difficult time finishing with a condom on. When I am wearing one, it takes me a lot longer than if I wasnt wearing one.

[Naturelover]

you still learn that.

[RileyX]

Id say use the mouth to finish after sex, no shame in that

[Taylorrrb]

Id say use the mouth to finish after sex, no shame in that

This exactly ! Some girls prefer that honestly lol

[PositiveVibes]

If u know ur partner well then I would
not worry about going without a condom
but if u have many partners that u don't
know their history I think then their hand
would b better. If u r masturbating alone
then don't wear a condom. IDK a little of
understanding what u r saying in ur post.



Yeah i definitely don't with masturbation lol. What don't you understand?

[PositiveVibes]

Do wish i had foreskin sometimes ngl aha. Oh well. Benefit is lasting as long as the girl wants i guess, eh?

[PositiveVibes]

You think? Idk how to train it i guess lol

[PositiveVibes]

This exactly ! Some girls prefer that honestly lol

Yeah i defo feel that way too. I think it hurts a girls feelings sometimes though if you can't cum from her vagina, so i do my best ngl

[PositiveVibes]

I am cut, too and have a difficult time finishing with a condom on. When I am wearing one, it takes me a lot longer than if I wasnt wearing one.


One of my responses was to you aha, forgot to quote it aha

[Taylorrrb]

Yeah i defo feel that way too. I think it hurts a girls feelings sometimes though if you can't cum from her vagina, so i do my best ngl

Maybe some girls lol, not me lol! It’s good that you keep her feelings in mind tho :)

[PositiveVibes]

Maybe some girls lol, not me lol! It’s good that you keep her feelings in mind tho :)

Hahah well you sound like a keeper! and tbh after a girl's came a lot, they usually fall asleep, so a bj is off the cards. (Stamina is the one benefit i guess aha)

[Taylorrrb]

Hahah well you sound like a keeper! and tbh after a girl's came a lot, they usually fall asleep, so a bj is off the cards. (Stamina is the one benefit i guess aha)

Lol I like to think I’m a keeper:)

[PositiveVibes]

Lol I like to think I’m a keeper:)

If you suck a boy's soul out after sex, you defo are aha

[PositiveVibes]

Maybe some girls lol, not me lol! It’s good that you keep her feelings in mind tho :)

Ngl i also prefer like cumming INTO something if you get me. Either a mouth or vagina etc. Is it unreasonable to ask to cum in the mouth if i've taken the condom off etc

[Taylorrrb]

Ngl i also prefer like cumming INTO something if you get me. Either a mouth or vagina etc. Is it unreasonable to ask to cum in the mouth if i've taken the condom off etc

It’s never unreasonable to ask. Worst thing she can say is no lol. Always better to ask first anyway no matter what it is . That way everyone is comfortable with what’s going on

[PositiveVibes]

It’s never unreasonable to ask. Worst thing she can say is no lol. Always better to ask first anyway no matter what it is . That way everyone is comfortable with what’s going on


Aha true, no doubt. And of course yeah, i might look into thinner condoms, they might help

[Taylorrrb]

Aha true, no doubt. And of course yeah, i might look into thinner condoms, they might help

I’ve been told those are a lot better

[PositiveVibes]

I’ve been told those are a lot better

What do you and your bf use?

[Taylorrrb]

What do you and your bf use?

I’m newly single, but we didn’t use any .

[PositiveVibes]

I’m newly single, but we didn’t use any .

Ah ok. :) And, lucky him, it's so much better isn't it

[Taylorrrb]

Ah ok. :) And, lucky him, it's so much better isn't it

Yes definitely!

[PositiveVibes]

Yes definitely!


Feeling the vaginal walls contract and squeezeeee is probz the best thing aha, don't think i've ever lasted through a girl cumming haha

[ska8er]

Yeah i definitely don't with masturbation lol. What don't you understand?


I didn't know if u were masturbating alone or
u were with a partner. U can always slip off the
condom and finish urself. I would always use a
condom for protection. I also didn't know if u
were with a guy or girl.

[ShineintheDark]

One of the unfortunate sides of using a condom is reduced sensation during sex, which explains the struggle to orgasm. However, I doubt you'd prefer a baby to lack of a climax. If the only way to get you to finish is oral then maybe it's just what you have to do. There are some types of condoms out there which are meant to contain sensation gels or thinner to reduce the lack of feeling but it's up to you if you wanna put the likely extra money in for that.

[PositiveVibes]

I didn't know if u were masturbating alone or
u were with a partner. U can always slip off the
condom and finish urself. I would always use a
condom for protection. I also didn't know if u
were with a guy or girl.


with a girl. And yeah true but i want to be able to finish with the girl obviously :(

[PositiveVibes]

One of the unfortunate sides of using a condom is reduced sensation during sex, which explains the struggle to orgasm. However, I doubt you'd prefer a baby to lack of a climax. If the only way to get you to finish is oral then maybe it's just what you have to do. There are some types of condoms out there which are meant to contain sensation gels or thinner to reduce the lack of feeling but it's up to you if you wanna put the likely extra money in for that.

a baby is far from ideal haha...i'd love to cum normally tho ngl...i've read snug fit/thin condoms grip the penis, and it almost feels like normal sex etc i'll give em a try

[PositiveVibes]

I tried a different condom today and my word it was a lot better! Didng cum in it cause got ducked off as a finisher but I think I might have!

[RileyX]

I’m newly single, but we didn’t use any .

I prefer not using any as well, mind you my partners would be on birth control

[stoneflowe96]

You can learn to use condoms. It is possible for your brain to learn new ways of arousle until orgasm. It may take sometime, but you can learn it.

[Naturelover]

then it is better you have no sex.

[Naturelover]

I prefer not using any as well, mind you my partners would be on birth control

not all women want to take in chemistry daily.

[PositiveVibes]

not all women want to take in chemistry daily.

thats true

[RileyX]

not all women want to take in chemistry daily.

I didnt say they did, nor did I say that I dont use condoms

[PositiveVibes]

I didnt say they did, nor did I say that I dont use condoms


That's also true :P

[Mya.xx]

All I can think of is masturbating into condoms a few times. That could help get you used to them.

[PositiveVibes]

All I can think of is masturbating into condoms a few times. That could help get you used to them.

I’ll try it out!

[mixel19]

I always have trouble cumming when I have to wear a condom, and I end up doing like a couple people told you to do, at the end I snap off the rubber and just cum on my partner or in her mouth. You can also look into lambskin condoms, they feel better but the don't prevent the spread of STI's

[Cassius16]

Practice maybe? And I read somewhere if you put lubricant in the tip before you put it on, it can improve the sensation.

[joshyM]

I prefer without but you can get some really thin ones that aren’t bad