alone with him/her in your room

[arnorway]

my crush will come over this weekend to my house for our second date :D
we're not allowed to be in my bedroom, only in the playroom i share with my brothers, who will be home just like my parents
anyone ever been in a similar situation? any advice/ideas what to do? would watching a movie be a good idea?
and was anyone ever allowed to be alone in their room with your date?

[InternetTeen]

I think watching a movie will be fine. Pick one that you both like though.

[Maxbreak]

Yeah a movie would be a good idea.

[ska8er]

I could never have a date in my room alone.
Watching a movie would b good and have some
snacks like popcorn-pop. If u have any games in
ur playroom u can play or teach ur crush to play.

[arnorway]

I could never have a date in my room alone.
Watching a movie would b good and have some
snacks like popcorn-pop. If u have any games in
ur playroom u can play or teach ur crush to play.

oh yes, popcorn! i got to ask mom, thanks! :D
and yes, we got board games and such too. but most are for more than 2 players, not sure i want my brothers around too much

[ska8er]

oh yes, popcorn! i got to ask mom, thanks! :D
and yes, we got board games and such too. but most are for more than 2 players, not sure i want my brothers around too much

Tell ur Bros to find their own crushes. ;):)

[Natacha]

Are you allowed to go for a walk, where it's possible to hold hands perhaps and to talk freely?

[arnorway]

Are you allowed to go for a walk, where it's possible to hold hands perhaps and to talk freely?

probably not, we're not allowed to be by ourselves unless in public (like our first date). but around my house, pretty much nothing around, only 2 other houses within 5-10 minutes walking distance and lots of fields and wood :P

[Caycedilla]

In this situation, definitely a movie. A walk would be nice too but it looks like that’s not going to be possible, at least not yet. You can talk while playing a card game too, if that appeals to the two of you

[mick01]

My gf and I play trivial pursuit by just asking the questions without necessarily playing the game. It's still fun. And we play Pictionary with just the two of us and that's fun too.

[Connordude]

Movie on the couch under a blanket so they can’t see where his and your hands are maybe?
The hand going up and down on his lap under the blanket is obvious though

[arnorway]

Movie on the couch under a blanket so they can’t see where his and your hands are maybe?
The hand going up and down on his lap under the blanket is obvious though

certainly not going to do that, we just started to date! :eek:

[tessa-]

Movie on the couch under a blanket so they can’t see where his and your hands are maybe?
The hand going up and down on his lap under the blanket is obvious though

Omg Connor you’re so naughty lol

[Karalectric]

certainly not going to do that, we just started to date! :eek:

You are doing the right thing. Take it slow, dude!

Oh and i agree. A movie is a good idea! :)

[AshleighB]

my crush will come over this weekend to my house for our second date :D
we're not allowed to be in my bedroom, only in the playroom i share with my brothers, who will be home just like my parents
anyone ever been in a similar situation? any advice/ideas what to do? would watching a movie be a good idea?
and was anyone ever allowed to be alone in their room with your date?

I think watching a movie would be a good idea, I am allowed to have my boyfriend in my room, never had a problem with that

[pauly]

I think it's all going along perfectly. Don't expect too much to happen too soon and I imagine your parents will take a keen interest in what's going on.

But a film is a good idea because it should make you both feel relaxed and it won't put pressure on you too early in your relationship.

Good luck! :)

[Oscar-V3.0]

my crush will come over this weekend to my house for our second date :D
we're not allowed to be in my bedroom, only in the playroom i share with my brothers, who will be home just like my parents
anyone ever been in a similar situation? any advice/ideas what to do? would watching a movie be a good idea?
and was anyone ever allowed to be alone in their room with your date?
Watching a movie together is THE basics
Play video games can also work, but girls aren't really into that usually, so be sure you do something you both like.
You can also watch cool stuff on youtube, magicians, concerts, humorists,...
Watching photo albums ftom you and your family when you were younger can also work if you have fun pix :P

Good luck my amigo :)

[arnorway]

Watching photo albums ftom you and your family when you were younger can also work if you have fun pix :P

NO!!!! :eek:

Good luck my amigo :)

thanks, oscar! :yeah:

[Karalectric]

Watching photo albums ftom you and your family when you were younger can also work if you have fun pix :P


LMAO!!!

That actually sounds like something my dad would do. It is like embarrassing me is a hobby or something. :P so what is funny is when i have a boy over, i gotta have a talk and go over rules and expectations for HIM. lol

[arnorway]

LMAO!!!

That actually sounds like something my dad would do. It is like embarrassing me is a hobby or something. :P so what is funny is when i have a boy over, i gotta have a talk and go over rules and expectations for HIM. lol

haha, i told my mom not to ask any questions! she has this interrogation phase she does when a new friend comes over but i asked her not to :P

[inactiveguy678]

I'm allowed to be in my room with any guest male or female.

My parents aren't strict regarding that and we have a big house. But if you feel like you need help breaking the ice watching a movie or doing some fun activity would help you ease up and talk to your crush.

[Zachary G]

yeah, i think just finding a movie the two of you can enjoy watching together would be a good idea. just enjoy each others company and make the best of the time you will have, even with your family there.

I was able to have friends/crushes in my room, no problems

[Katie2003]

haha, i told my mom not to ask any questions! she has this interrogation phase she does when a new friend comes over but i asked her not to :P

That's what moms do! Mine is the queen of finding out little details, and is quite forward about asking questions. But she's also always been the mom that other kids come over to talk to when they have stuff that they can't or won't talk to their own moms about.

I can have friends in my room, and after we know each other, even do sleepovers. But we aren't allowed to close the bedroom door, that's always been a rule of the house.

[Naturelover]

in the playroom should only be played.

[arnorway]

in the playroom should only be played.

aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaah :what:

[Oscar-V3.0]

in the playroom should only be played.

It depends how you define 'play' :D

[sand900]

Watch a movie and talk about interesting things