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jombo
March 29th, 2014, 06:46 PM
I met someone online (on Twitter) 7 months ago in August and have been speaking with them since. From December onwards we were speaking more privately as we got closer and began to trust each other more and day by day speak constantly. We both love talking to each other, both are very open (especially as she's reluctant to share info) and she comes to me whenever she needs help or wants to talk, which is most of the time. I've had some feelings of love or really close friendship for a while now and just recently we agreed to tell each other if we ever get feelings for one another. After that she admitted I was her type (personality and all that) and said she'll tell me if she does. She also said she's not sure if she'd want to have a long distance relationship.

So with knowing all that, does she secretly have some sort of feelings more than friends but isn't saying it? If I'm her type and she's not sure if she wants to e-date isn't that confirming she likes me like that but isn't sure if she wants to go ahead with it? Thanks!

ScottishCanary
March 29th, 2014, 07:23 PM
Could be that there are feelings there on her part but could just as easily not be. If it were me I'd be very reluctant to engage in any long term relationship, especially if I had never met them online. I mean, yeah you can get a good idea what someone is like from online conversation but unless you have at least spoken on the phone if not met in person I think a lot of people would be reluctant. I think it is possible she has some feelings for you there but the whole long distance/ not having actually met you thing is maybe getting to her. It's impossible to know for sure though!

DiamondsGirl
March 30th, 2014, 12:03 PM
I definitely won't rush into this. You've only known her seven months, and you guys met online. Have you ever seen her in real life? Hang out with her, eat somewhere and watch a movie together? I really hate sounding like the exact kind of person most teens want to avoid, but I don't believe in online relationships. Online dating may work, but ONLY if the people have seen each other in real life. I've known my ex in real life for five months before he got a scholarship to study abroad and I decided to confess with the consideration of not wanting to regret anything. We broke up seven months later after a set of guilt-tripping, angst-ridden text messages and several stalking episodes. I never guessed he's such a childish psycho. There really is no way to tell who someone really is before you've known them a very long time. I know this is not the kind of comment you'd want to hear, but please please keep an open mind and think about it. I wrote all this only because I care. I don't want you to make my mistake.

Body odah Man
March 30th, 2014, 12:44 PM
Don't rush-be careful.