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jane45
January 10th, 2019, 06:39 PM
My friend and I were talking to each other face to face. He had looked away for a second to put something down while he was still talking to me. But then, once he focused his attention back to me, he said "I forgot what I was going to say." Then, he continued to talk after looking down at the ground for a second to remember.

ska8er
January 10th, 2019, 06:47 PM
I don't c anything out of the ordinary. He might have
a lot of things on his mind and lost his thought. I would
not think anything out of it. He looked down at the ground
cause he was trying to remember.

Karalectric
January 10th, 2019, 07:00 PM
I don't c anything out of the ordinary. He might have
a lot of things on his mind and lost his thought. I would
not think anything out of it. He looked down at the ground
cause he was trying to remember.

True, true. I was gonna say to that the same thing happens to me sometimes, whether talking to guys or girls. :)

Falcons_11
January 10th, 2019, 07:13 PM
There could be a lot of reasons. He might have lost his trend of thoughts. He might have been distracted by some background noise. Or, his brain went into overdrive thinking of what to say next.

Zika
January 10th, 2019, 10:35 PM
Your description of what happened doesn't seem to support the title. It was one time; not a general trait of guys

PlasmaHam
January 10th, 2019, 10:51 PM
Your title doesn't really match the situation. It sounds like the guy just got distracted with something else, and in that short span lost his train of thought. Happens to everyone, I don't see it as a guy-girl thing.

In a situation in which a guy is interested in the girl he is talking too, he might lose his train of thought due to over-thinking what to say next to impress her, but again I think your situation was just him being distracted.

ArfyMcPeesh
January 10th, 2019, 11:23 PM
Hormones. And he might not even be thinking that way about you, like sometimes my brain just gets like buzzy and I can’t concentrate or remember things. They said in health that testosterone can do that, it effs up the guys brain to think about basic needs and sex. Just forgive him because I know I do it and it’s got to be annoying to the girl.

Unless he’s really into you, then it’s because he’s just horny, so forgive him for that too, we totally can’t stop that.

joefelix
January 23rd, 2019, 04:26 PM
A bit of a broad generalisation don't ya think? :b
If you mean to infer it's a thing all guys do, and may very well do, to you, you have to be a bit more humble and realistic :b

InternetTeen
January 23rd, 2019, 04:43 PM
This can happen to anyone, not just guys when talking to girls.

pauly
January 25th, 2019, 11:05 AM
I think that those who ......erm......what was I going to say?

Seriously, we're all different; forgetfulness or lack of concentration is definitely not restricted to boys. But puberty can crowd our heads so much that, whether we're male or female, we find it hard to focus our minds on just one thing.

Pultost
January 25th, 2019, 11:18 AM
That can happen to anybody, not just guys.

Connordude
January 27th, 2019, 02:22 AM
Because you’re just so amazing we can’t deal