Just a little problem...

[Ian.Gallagher]

I think a lot of guys can relate. I have just been super horny lately. Like A LOT MORE THAN USUAL. I constantly have a boner and I've been getting distracted in class... I wanted to go to the bathroom in the nurses office to "take care of it" but that would be awkward. I even try to masturbate every day to relieve that stuff... It use to help but not so much right now. I've also been attracted to both guys and girls recently. I don't know if that's just because I'm having this "issue" or if it's something else.

I guess my question is

How to deal with being horny all the time:
Confused about Sexuality sometimes? :
Deal which a constant boner:

Extra Stuff:
I'm 16, should I have sex? :
Should I experiment a bit? :
Is it normal to try anal maturation? :

Thanks everyone! :)

[scott2002]

How to deal with being horny all the time: Oh how I wish I knew! I think we all deal with this. I know for me, once I hit puberty it got hard for me to concentrate on my homework cuz I was HORNY all the time. I'd finally have to go jack off and then try to get back into studying. (But then I'd be relaxed and sleepy! It's been a no-win for me.)

Confused about Sexuality sometimes? : In middle school I was just into other boys. I got freaked by that, and in 9th grade made it a point to start meeting girls. I was never romantically attracted to guys (no hugging, kissing, hand-holding, etc.), just physically attracted to their junk. For girls, I'm both physically and romantically attracted. How does this compare with what you're dealing with?

Deal which a constant boner: I get several all day long, but not constant.

Extra Stuff:
I'm 16, should I have sex? : I'm almost 17 and I've had sex and my first experiences were not good. I assume you mean sex with a girl. My recommendation would be not to push it. Wait until you are in a relationship where you both care for each other and you BOTH want to have sex together really bad. Then the time is right. Not before.

Should I experiment a bit? :(With what?)

[NoLimitGuy]

Yes, try experimenting if that's what you want. It's just sex and sex is both good and beautiful... Also, being extra horny can also mean for a changes in the hormones and brain... It can also warn for a possible tumor either in brain or somewhere near prostate and testicles. You are quite young to develop tumors in those places, but hey, we live in time when a 6yo can get a heart attack...

[Ian.Gallagher]

How to deal with being horny all the time: Oh how I wish I knew! I think we all deal with this. I know for me, once I hit puberty it got hard for me to concentrate on my homework cuz I was HORNY all the time. I'd finally have to go jack off and then try to get back into studying. (But then I'd be relaxed and sleepy! It's been a no-win for me.)

I Know The Feeling! XD

Confused about Sexuality sometimes? : In middle school I was just into other boys. I got freaked by that, and in 9th grade made it a point to start meeting girls. I was never romantically attracted to guys (no hugging, kissing, hand-holding, etc.), just physically attracted to their junk. For girls, I'm both physically and romantically attracted. How does this compare with what you're dealing with?

For me it's like, for a period of time, I'll be attracted to (let's say a guy)... Then a couple weeks later it might be a girl. Something along the lines of a "crush" but also the sexual attraction too.. (man or lady parts haha) sometimes the locker room after PE leads to that.

Deal which a constant boner: I get several all day long, but not constant.

Let me rephrase that! Lol yes frequent, not constant. I'm sure that would be a medical issue.

Extra Stuff:
I'm 16, should I have sex? : I'm almost 17 and I've had sex and my first experiences were not good. I assume you mean sex with a girl. My recommendation would be not to push it. Wait until you are in a relationship where you both care for each other and you BOTH want to have sex together really bad. Then the time is right. Not before.


I think your probably right, good explanation.

Should I experiment a bit? :(With what?)

A little bit with guys, I'm just curious I guess...



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[Ian.Gallagher]

Yes, try experimenting if that's what you want. It's just sex and sex is both good and beautiful... Also, being extra horny can also mean for a changes in the hormones and brain... It can also warn for a possible tumor either in brain or somewhere near prostate and testicles. You are quite young to develop tumors in those places, but hey, we live in time when a 6yo can get a heart attack...

Lmaooo well I hope I don't have a tumor or heart attack! I just feel nervous about trying to experiment with some guys (maybe some of my closer friends)...

Does anyone have any experiences with that? How it happened?

I don't know how it would even happen, especially don't want to ruin a friendship...

As far as sex in general I agree... But now I think I should probably wait for a relationship.

[pauly]

Ian you sound quite sensible enough to make up your own mind on the questions you asked. There is no right or wrong; there's only individual judgement.

So do whatever feels comfortable for you; your own background and character should tell you.

[NoLimitGuy]

Lmaooo well I hope I don't have a tumor or heart attack! I just feel nervous about trying to experiment with some guys (maybe some of my closer friends)...

Does anyone have any experiences with that? How it happened?

I don't know how it would even happen, especially don't want to ruin a friendship...

As far as sex in general I agree... But now I think I should probably wait for a relationship.

You can always try Grindr or something else to hook-up with guys. Not really necessary to experiment with your friends if you are afraid of them. You could tell them that you are mkre bi and if they dump you just because of that, trust me, better off with them... I'm bisexual myself, still didn't have experience with neither lol... Don't think about relationships. Start with a sensual sex with both - a dude and a girl. See, what you liked most. See, who you are attracted to most. And then choose and make relationship, otherwise bridges might burn down...

[Ian.Gallagher]

Ian you sound quite sensible enough to make up your own mind on the questions you asked. There is no right or wrong; there's only individual judgement.

So do whatever feels comfortable for you; your own background and character should tell you.

Thanks Paul :) :)

[Ian.Gallagher]

You can always try Grindr or something else to hook-up with guys. Not really necessary to experiment with your friends if you are afraid of them. You could tell them that you are mkre bi and if they dump you just because of that, trust me, better off with them... I'm bisexual myself, still didn't have experience with neither lol... Don't think about relationships. Start with a sensual sex with both - a dude and a girl. See, what you liked most. See, who you are attracted to most. And then choose and make relationship, otherwise bridges might burn down...

When you say "sensual sex" are you referring to like casual stuff before a relationship?

[ShineintheDark]

How to deal with being horny all the time: Whatever's convenient for you. If you wanna beat off every time you get a chance, go for it. If not, it'll calm down in a few years
Confused about Sexuality sometimes? : Perfectly natural, explore what you like and don't like. There's no shame in it
Deal which a constant boner: They tend to go down pretty quickly if you think of other stuff

Extra Stuff:
I'm 16, should I have sex? : If you feel ready and find someone who also wants to
Should I experiment a bit? : If you want to
Is it normal to try anal maturation? : Perfectly normal if it feels good for you

[NoLimitGuy]

When you say "sensual sex" are you referring to like casual stuff before a relationship?

Kinda like it but with more romantical elements, like cuddle, kisses etc. so it wouldn't be rough and sensless sex which you dislike and therefore you might dislike to interact in romantical relationship with the same or opposite sex...

[ska8er]

We all get horny and sometimes it is more
pronounced than at other times. It all comes
with a rush of hormones. I would say jerk off
more than usual but don't overdo it. As having
sex or experimenting. Yes if u have someone
that is close to u and not just someone that u
r going to pick out and use just to relief urself.

[Turbofan explosion]

How to deal with being horny all the time: Try and get used to not masturbating as much, soon you will get used to it and lower chance of horniness
Confused about Sexuality sometimes? : Yeah that is possible and normal
Deal which a constant boner: Just wait, and it should go away in a few minutes. If you are in an awkward situation, try to push it down.

Extra Stuff:
I'm 16, should I have sex? : If you legally reached age of consent and you really want to, then you may. But at that age, it isn't very normal.
Should I experiment a bit? : If you want to, you could
Is it normal to try anal maturation? : Yes, even though I myself don't do it

[Ian.Gallagher]

How to deal with being horny all the time: Whatever's convenient for you. If you wanna beat off every time you get a chance, go for it. If not, it'll calm down in a few years
Confused about Sexuality sometimes? : Perfectly natural, explore what you like and don't like. There's no shame in it
Deal which a constant boner: They tend to go down pretty quickly if you think of other stuff

Extra Stuff:
I'm 16, should I have sex? : If you feel ready and find someone who also wants to
Should I experiment a bit? : If you want to
Is it normal to try anal maturation? : Perfectly normal if it feels good for you

Thanks! I appreciate your response!

[Ian.Gallagher]

Kinda like it but with more romantical elements, like cuddle, kisses etc. so it wouldn't be rough and sensless sex which you dislike and therefore you might dislike to interact in romantical relationship with the same or opposite sex...

now I get what you are saying, thank you 🙂

[Ian.Gallagher]

We all get horny and sometimes it is more
pronounced than at other times. It all comes
with a rush of hormones. I would say jerk off
more than usual but don't overdo it. As having
sex or experimenting. Yes if u have someone
that is close to u and not just someone that u
r going to pick out and use just to relief urself.

Definetly as far as the person I would do it with.... Unfortunately at the moment I don't know anyone I would want to with, let alone they wanting to so the same. Guess I'll just have to see what happens in the future.

[ska8er]

Definetly as far as the person I would do it with.... Unfortunately at the moment I don't know anyone I would want to with, let alone they wanting to so the same. Guess I'll just have to see what happens in the future.

Its better to make friends and get
to know someone before anything
goes any further. I would not trust
strangers cause u might get hurt.

[Ian.Gallagher]

Its better to make friends and get
to know someone before anything
goes any further. I would not trust
strangers cause u might get hurt.

Very true! Couldn't agree more.

[justa16yearoldaussie]

How to deal with being horny all the time: if its that bead jerk of morning and night, just not at inappropriate times or places

Confused about Sexuality sometimes: its okay to be curious

Deal which a constant boner: pick a small number and keep doubling it (like 2,4,8,16,24,48 etc.) or something to get your mind off of it, or hold your breath


Extra Stuff:

I'm 16, should I have sex: have sex when you feel comfortable doing it, not because other people are or you feel pressured, your the legal age of consent that doesn't mean you need to have sex right now

Should I experiment a bit: with what?

Is it normal to try anal maturation: yes

[Sammy_03]

How to deal with being horny all the time: Jerk when appropriate and try to distract yourself with other things.

Confused about Sexuality sometimes? : I came out as gay over a year ago now and I'm still not sure about what my sexuality is exactly. I see myself attracted to most genders, and if I was old enough (17 where I am) I would experiment. It's completely okay to be unsure and to not know who you are actually attracted to.

Deal which a constant boner: Same as Question 1 (essentially)

Extra Stuff:
I'm 16, should I have sex? : If it's legal where you are, and you feel comfortable with it, go for it (be safe though...)

Should I experiment a bit? : Go for it.

Is it normal to try anal maturation? : Yes, there's nothing wrong with being curious and trying things.

Other Comment(s): Whatever you do, be safe and make sure you don't do anything you know you are uncomfortable with. Good luck!! :)

[jamie_n5]

You do what you feel you want to do and try the things you are curious about or want to do. It's all up to you we can't tell you what to do.

[Allstar49]

How to deal with being horny all the time: I mean there’s the obvious solution of masturbating regularly. If that doesn’t help then just try to find an activity or something that helps you take your mind off of it
Confused about Sexuality sometimes? : I’ve always just known I’m straight. I’ve only been sexually attracted to girls. Now I have been curious about guys like how big their penis is and stuff but never an actually attraction
Deal which a constant boner: the only time I’ve had what you’re talking about where I was just horny 24/7 was when I tried doing no nut November. All day from morning till night I was horny and wanted to masturbate. So I think the biggest help to horniness is just masturbating

Extra Stuff:
I'm 16, should I have sex? : that’s up to you. I’m a firm beliver in waiting to have sex until after marriage. I think it’s a special bond between two people and shouldn’t just be thrown around like it’s nothing. It kinda bugs me that kids nowadays are having sex at like 12-13, but that’s another argument for another day
Should I experiment a bit? : like I said up to you. I’m not sure if that will actually help your “problem” if that’s even what it should be called.
Is it normal to try anal maturation? : yeah I have to see what it’s like but it is a little weird. Not tryna give TMI but it feels as if you have to take a crap the entire time it’s in.

[Cycler21]

How to deal with being horny all the time: try to ignore it if you cant immediately take care of it
Confused about Sexuality sometimes? : thats perfectly normal and part of puberty. if you watch porn while you masturbate try gay porn instead
Deal which a constant boner: tuck it under your waistband and ignore it

Extra Stuff:
I'm 16, should I have sex? : if you feel ready and have someone willing, remember that consent is important. And if you try it and don't like it you can always say no at any time.
Should I experiment a bit? : If you want to. It's perfectly natural.
Is it normal to try anal maturation? : Yes

[MasonBA]

How to deal with being horny all the time: wish I knew. I have been masturbating a lot recently because I'm like a walking erection

Confused about Sexuality sometimes? : I think this happens to most boys and nothing to worry about

Deal which a constant boner: I masturbate before school, as soon as I get home from school and before I go to sleep and still get hard all the time. Just have to deal with it best you can. My dad said it will slow down soon, I'm going through another puberty burst

Extra Stuff:
I'm 16, should I have sex? : Just because you get a lot of erections is no reason to have sex in my opinion, not when masturbation is an option

Should I experiment a bit? : Like my answer to the sex question, not a good reason to start if you were never interested in doing it before

Is it normal to try anal maturation? : I think it's normal, and it can give you a great orgasm, for me a better one than just penis masturbation