View Full Version : Pre-mature ejaculation/ Cum Fast?
Jeff1857
January 8th, 2019, 12:26 PM
Hey guys
I don't have a lot of control when I masturbate. I have tried working on it but it is not getting better. I tend to shoot very quickly. Is anyone else like this? I am fine with it alone or with buddies but not sure what to do if it happens when I get with a girl.
jamie_n5
January 8th, 2019, 01:13 PM
I would talk to your doctor about it. There are things that can help.
arnorway
January 8th, 2019, 02:08 PM
Hey guys
I don't have a lot of control when I masturbate. I have tried working on it but it is not getting better. I tend to shoot very quickly. Is anyone else like this? I am fine with it alone or with buddies but not sure what to do if it happens when I get with a girl.
me too. i tried start-stop but that barely helps. probably am not patient enough because i can't really stop myself. hope it will get better with age :yes:
Maxbreak
January 8th, 2019, 03:26 PM
me too. i tried start-stop but that barely helps. probably am not patient enough because i can't really stop myself. hope it will get better with age :yes:
Yeah it's just practice ;-). Or distraction!
InternetTeen
January 8th, 2019, 03:36 PM
There are techniques that can help you last longer.
paxtonwrestles
January 13th, 2019, 12:06 AM
Hey guys
I don't have a lot of control when I masturbate. I have tried working on it but it is not getting better. I tend to shoot very quickly. Is anyone else like this? I am fine with it alone or with buddies but not sure what to do if it happens when I get with a girl.
Do you try edging? I just started - it's great! And it feels SO good.
JacobJ
January 16th, 2019, 01:09 AM
How long should you go before you cum?
roger.bait
January 16th, 2019, 01:12 AM
just practice edging dw dude
rjpv
March 17th, 2019, 08:50 PM
do you take more or less than 2 minute?
Turbofan explosion
March 17th, 2019, 09:06 PM
You could practice edging, which means you try to go as long as you can without ejaculating. At the end, you will get a higher orgasm.
Otherwise, if you feel it is like abnormal, talk with your doctor.
JonnyH
March 17th, 2019, 09:09 PM
Try to take a break from masturbating for like a couple of days or go to a urologist.
thewrongone
March 24th, 2019, 06:19 AM
Do you try edging? I just started - it's great! And it feels SO good.
Yes Bro! Edging is where it's at. I can go way longer (hours) when I edge. Plus I watch porn and kinda time what I see. So I can last as long as the porn clip. Feels so awesome to finally cum after an edge session! Great to see there are others on here with techniques!
JayA
March 24th, 2019, 08:48 AM
IMO you don't have an issue -- your a teenager -- if you are jacking you are wanting to finish --- someone said practice -- and this is right. I use to finish really quick (3 or 4 minutes) but have now got to where I go longer. It just depends on the mood your in and how up you are to start off with. Edging will help build up some control, but......
ArfyMcPeesh
March 24th, 2019, 09:03 AM
IMO you don't have an issue -- your a teenager -- if you are jacking you are wanting to finish --- someone said practice -- and this is right. I use to finish really quick (3 or 4 minutes) but have now got to where I go longer. It just depends on the mood your in and how up you are to start off with. Edging will help build up some control, but......
Exactly. I finish pretty quick because I’m in bed horny and want to go to sleep. When I have time and privacy, not too often, I have been taking my time and I can go up to 30 min. Now my first time with someone I’ll probably last like 2.5 pumps but that’s excitement lol. Your my age just enjoy it
MasonBA
March 24th, 2019, 10:41 AM
Hey guys
I don't have a lot of control when I masturbate. I have tried working on it but it is not getting better. I tend to shoot very quickly. Is anyone else like this? I am fine with it alone or with buddies but not sure what to do if it happens when I get with a girl.
How long does it usually take you to ejaculate? A minute or so? Sometimes I last maybe 2 minutes, rarely longer than 4 or 5 unless I really want to delay it and I do that by stop stroking and relax for a few moments before I start again
PCwrestles
May 29th, 2019, 11:20 AM
How long does it usually take you to ejaculate? A minute or so? Sometimes I last maybe 2 minutes, rarely longer than 4 or 5 unless I really want to delay it and I do that by stop stroking and relax for a few moments before I start again
Do you edge man? That helps A LOT so you don't shoot cum so fast and enjoy stroking longer.
LiberalTurboprop
May 29th, 2019, 11:31 AM
Do you edge man? That helps A LOT so you don't shoot cum so fast and enjoy stroking longer.
Yes. If you're good at edging you can pretty much go for as long as you want.
MasonBA
May 29th, 2019, 01:35 PM
Do you edge man? That helps A LOT so you don't shoot cum so fast and enjoy stroking longer.
yeah i've tried that but usually can't be patient long enough
PCwrestles
May 29th, 2019, 10:18 PM
yeah i've tried that but usually can't be patient long enough
Ah, well yeah it takes discipline to not hurry and just keep stroking and stroking but not let the cum out of your cock
justa16yearoldaussie
May 30th, 2019, 04:12 AM
its probably just nerves or over-excitement, you could try edging when you jerk off to build up more control
LiberalTurboprop
May 30th, 2019, 07:51 AM
yeah i've tried that but usually can't be patient long enough
It's just a matter of self-control then. Maybe you could try slowing down by doing something like forcing yourself to masturbate to a constant beat.
MasonBA
May 30th, 2019, 01:27 PM
It's just a matter of self-control then. Maybe you could try slowing down by doing something like forcing yourself to masturbate to a constant beat.
will have to try that
PCwrestles
May 30th, 2019, 02:15 PM
It's just a matter of self-control then. Maybe you could try slowing down by doing something like forcing yourself to masturbate to a constant beat.
That is cool but how would I do that? Like what would a "constant beat" be?
LiberalTurboprop
May 31st, 2019, 07:44 AM
That is cool but how would I do that? Like what would a "constant beat" be?
If you Google metronome, Google has a built in metronome where you can start and stop it and set how fast you want it to be.
PCwrestles
May 31st, 2019, 02:44 PM
If you Google metronome, Google has a built in metronome where you can start and stop it and set how fast you want it to be.
Wow i did not think of that. I was thinking of listening to club music actually, that usually has a good beat which would be cool to jerk off to!
Djdj112
May 31st, 2019, 08:54 PM
Pressing on your taint when you’re about to cum helps, just wait for it to calm down a try to continue.
LiberalTurboprop
June 1st, 2019, 10:40 AM
Wow i did not think of that. I was thinking of listening to club music actually, that usually has a good beat which would be cool to jerk off to!
I believe there are some porn videos where they specifically set it to music for that purpose. Not my kind of thing really. I'm not huge on club music. But there are similar things like edging games on the web where it tells when to start and stop and stuff. It's a similar thing to the idea of the metronome - you're giving up a bit of your control to the program.
scott2002
June 1st, 2019, 11:56 AM
Hey guys
I don't have a lot of control when I masturbate. I have tried working on it but it is not getting better. I tend to shoot very quickly.
I'm not sure on this, but I think the difference between cumming fast and premature ejaculation is that with premature ejaculation you start to cum suddenly and without even feeling it coming on. You have no chance to slow it down or stop if from happening.
Cumming fast, I think that's more of a factor of how turned on you are, how long it's been since you last ejaculated, and how intense the stimulation to your penis is.
If I'm super-horny, haven't jacked in a couple of days, and I stroke myself fast and in ways I know feel real good, I might reach my orgasm in 15-20 seconds. But, if I start feeling sorta close I can STOP stroking my bone and the feeling will fade. (Edging.) I think guys with premature ejaculation can't edge. It just happens without control.
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