Should I stop?

[hairy1010]

I've been wanking since I was about 11-12 and in now 15,16 in less then 3 months. I wank every day at least once and often 2 times a day. I often feel the need to stop but just get horny and wank anyway. Do I actually need to stop and am I addicted.

[Cassius16]

I don’t think you should stop for the sake of it. I tried to one time and although it was OK, I realised there was basically no point to me resisting. It was more trouble that it was worth.

I think as long as you’re doing everything else in life that you think you should be doing then wanking is mostly no problem.

[Jake445]

There is nothing wrong with doing it, but there is nothing wrong with wanting to spot either, just that there's little point to it. Doing it two times a day is just fine and normal from what I and others I've talked to do.

[Hermes]

There's no need to stop and you should only worry about addiction if you spend so much time wanking you don't have time for other important things but that's unlikely doing it once or twice a day.

You said yourself that you do it because you're horny and we're not really meant to be able to not respond to being horny. If we could make our instincts submit to our conscious minds completely in that way the species may have died out long ago. So, until you are ready for sex, what you do is satisfy that horniness with something that doesn't get you into trouble. Wanking does not need anyone else, does not get someone pregnant, doesn't risk making someone else feel used and it's a lot of fun.

[ska8er]

NO-U don't want to go insane but
just don't overdo it.

[Second Chance]

I've been wanking since I was about 11-12 and in now 15,16 in less then 3 months. I wank every day at least once and often 2 times a day. I often feel the need to stop but just get horny and wank anyway. Do I actually need to stop and am I addicted.

You do not seem like you have much of a problem if you're only wanking up to twice a day. I would view you as having a problem if you are wanking at inappropriate times and/or places, or if wanking gets in the way of your obligations. Also, if you were wanking something like five or more times a day, then I would say you have a problem. In your case, two times a day is not a big deal.

I do not think it is realistic to outright stop masturbating, but if you want to reduce the amount of times you do so, then it is possible. Just make sure you are not in places like your bedroom where you are alone for a while; that you block porn websites on your computer or mobile device; and that you reward yourself if you do not masturbate. I think if you reduce your frequency to every other day, then you should be totally fine.

[Chris298]

I think... In a sense all boys are kinda addicted to it... You gotta do what's best for you, but as long as it isn't interfering with normal everyday life than I dont see any reason to quit... Your body has to release the sperm one was or the other anyways, either doing it yourself or through a wet dream!

[Maxbreak]

Once we start, do we ever stop?

[MrGhosty123]

I don't think you should stop, if you don't want to. I haven't and probably won't ever will. I find it very pleasurable, especially when I'm stressed. They are even some health benefits to doing it often, like: a boosted immune system, less chance of getting prostate cancer, help with depression, and the list goes on and on. You can stop if you want to, though I don't see why you would. It would only be an addiction if it were getting in the way of obviously more important things, like homework, work, or spending time with family. But, hey, I'll let you make the decision.

[Mika27]

I don't think I could go a whole day without wanking! It feels too good and i'm a horny guy. But i know what you mean, sometimes it can be too much. Just think, would you be miserable and frustrated if you had to stop?

[InternetTeen]

As long as it doesn't take over your life you're fine

[Chris298]

Once we start, do we ever stop?

Valid point, bro lol

[vandilization]

No need to stop, but just be careful you don't get a rub burn on your skin.

[Jericho14]

It’s addictive that it’s difficult to completely stop but it’s possible to slow down just to avoid burns on your shaft from getting worse

[pageninetynine]

2 times a day is fine, especially at your age. You should try to cut back a bit if you feel that it's taking over your life(as in you literally never do anything else), but otherwise you're completely normal!

[allgrownup]

why would you want to stop? it feels so damn good lol! but seriously, 2 times a day is perfectly normal at your age. i'm a 23 year old guy and i still jack off 3-4 times a week.

[Andrew13]

I don’t think you have to stop but you should do it no more than once a day. Otherwise you will become addicted and won’t make relationships. And actually why you don’t have to stop? If you dont do it for a long time you will feel pain in your balls because sperm collects there. But if you don’t do it for about 4 weeks you won’t feel pain.

[scott2002]

I wank every day at least once and often 2 times a day.... Do I actually need to stop and am I addicted.
We're ALL addicted. We're just wired that way. I tried to stop when I turned 14. It lasted 3 days before I was going absolutely nuts. (And my wank and cum was fantastic when I finally did it that day.)
Forget any thoughts about stopping.

[Fuwod9giw9s9c9e9]

I don't think you have to stop, maybe just do it once a day lol

[Zachary G]

I wouldnt say youre addicted because it doesnt interfere with your daily life and I dont think you need to cut back, 1-2 times a day is pretty normal for most of us, but if you feel its too much then by all means, slack up. Otherwise, youre pretty normal

[grantfuzz]

Unless it gets in the way of life, keep doing it. It's great!

[Tauty]

Not at all. As long as it doesn't get in the way of your life you aren't doing it to much in my opinion.

[pauly]

I don't think there's any need to stop, unless it gets to be an obsession.

But you might like to try stopping for a few days just to check on your willpower.

[Mika27]

No need to stop, but just be careful you don't get a rub burn on your skin.
That hurts like hell! But lube helps :)

[Mika27]

It’s addictive that it’s difficult to completely stop but it’s possible to slow down just to avoid burns on your shaft from getting worse
Lube helps a lot!

[Mika27]

We're ALL addicted. We're just wired that way. I tried to stop when I turned 14. It lasted 3 days before I was going absolutely nuts. (And my wank and cum was fantastic when I finally did it that day.)
Forget any thoughts about stopping.
How did you last 3 whole days!? 1 day and I get super fidgety and start humping things lol

[scentlessapprentice]

nope not addicted. i do it like 3-4 times. you're fine. it's healthy!

[NoLimitGuy]

You are not addicted on the first place. If you went some 20 times every day, then you shoulb be worrying. Every guy jerks their dick every day around 1-3 times. It doesn't mean we all are addicted. And by the way, if you once have started jerking and you have been keeping it for that long, you need to stick to it, either way you will have erectal disfuntcion around 20-25... Do you really want to risk with that?

[NoLimitGuy]

How did you last 3 whole days!? 1 day and I get super fidgety and start humping things lol
What are three days? Have you tried a week? I have...

[Mika27]

What are three days? Have you tried a week? I have...
I bet you came in seconds after a week! I cum in seconds if I don't wank more than twice a day lol!

[NoLimitGuy]

I bet you came in seconds after a week! I cum in seconds if I don't wank more than twice a day lol!
I could last for couple of minutes before I shot biggest and hardest load of my life... Lol

[Mika27]

I could last for couple of minutes before I shot biggest and hardest load of my life... Lol
I wish I could last as long as a couple of minutes with a girl/guy ha!

[teen110]

YO! No, people start wanking at a certain age like 12 or 13 right? adults wank, old men wank. You are not addicted. Your penis might get irritated from wanking to much if you are uncircumcised so use a lubricant. If you are circumcised, still use a lubricant. People jerk off every day, probably many times a day. I would say you are fine! Keep doing it. its good for your future sexual performance. Hope this helps

[PCwrestles]

Unless it gets in the way of life, keep doing it. It's great!

I agree --- just have fun and enjoy it!

[justa16yearoldaussie]

unless you do it when you have other priorities or it causes concern, then there isn't an immediate need to stop; however, if you skipped school to jack off or missed hanging out with friends then it would be an issue

[Riley2015]

I think... In a sense all boys are kinda addicted to it...

yes and i wish there was a way for every single boy in the world to be banned and stopped from ever masturbating but obviously it will never happen and boys will still do it.

personally i don't think any boy should be allowed to masturbate until we are about 18-21 when we might be more mature and ready for it , i believe its harmful for us, but like i say its impossible to enforce a ban.

[Hermes]

...personally i don't think any boy should be allowed to masturbate until we are about 18-21 when we might be more mature and ready for it , i believe its harmful for us, but like i say its impossible to enforce a ban.

The idea that we can decide that anything to do with sex is for adults, decide on an arbitrary age when someone becomes an adult, and then expect people to not do anything sexual before then is living in cloud cuckoo land. Growing up from a baby to an adult is a gradual process and things develop and change along the way. Puberty starts before we are adults and once we've started puberty and have higher levels of sex hormones we start to get sexual instincts which become very strong. As boys we become much more aware of our dicks, especially as they often become erect, and how much pleasure touching them brings and once we start making cum we find there is a strong instinct to squirt it out.

As an analogy, sometimes when descending a long hill on a highway or motorway there is an extra "escape lane". This is an acknowledgement that for some vehicles, regulating their speed using the brakes may not be effective so rather than trying to halt the motion of the vehicle that way it is redirected to somewhere where it will not cause an accident.

Masturbation is a bit like that. You can't "put the brakes on" to our sex drive because it's too strong but you can direct it into something that isn't causing any harm. At a time when we're not ready for some kind of two person sex, masturbation enables us to deal with being horny without the risks. No-one gets pregnant, no-one catches an STI and no-one feels that they have been used or regrets a one night stand. It's also one of life's great pleasures.

Maybe you're conflating masturbation with use of porn. There certainly are risks with porn. Even those who don't have a religious objection to it may risk coming to see it as normal and representative of real life and then be disappointed that they don't have a 10" cock and when a real life g/f doesn't love every conceivable position, scream like a banshee and beg for it all over her face. A real girl's interests may be more modest than that. So we have to understand that about porn and we do need to avoid getting into a situation where porn is the only thing that will get us there. It should be possible to get aroused, and cum, by using our imagination or even just being mindful or how good it feels and it's worth making sure we don't get "struck in tramrails".

[grant2]

I think there is nothing wrong with jerk off as long as it doesn’t get in the way of other things or if it hurts because of how much you do it.

[Djdj112]

Unless it has some negative impact, your just expressing a primal urge so it’s completely natural and fine.

[Chris298]

yes and i wish there was a way for every single boy in the world to be banned and stopped from ever masturbating but obviously it will never happen and boys will still do it.

personally i don't think any boy should be allowed to masturbate until we are about 18-21 when we might be more mature and ready for it , i believe its harmful for us, but like i say its impossible to enforce a ban.

Why would you want to ban wanking? I think for 99.99% of boys it is totally harmless, and there are benefits to it... I mean, we have to release our sperm one way or the other, we just have wet dreams if we don't take matters into our own hands. It's not like I started because I was being a bad kid or nothing, I just kinda stumbled upon it because I was starting to notice changes down there, and more erections, and playing with it felt nice. It's a great way for guys to get comfortable with exploring their bodies.

[teenboyNathan]

You don't need to stop if you don't want to and you're not addicted

[Jthompson]

Not addicted at all. I’m 18 and I jerk off 2-4 x a day. Listen to your penis and make urself fee happy

[arca]

There is no such thing as an addiction to masturbation. You're fine and don't need to stop. (Honestly it would be weird if you did stop lol)

[PCwrestles]

It's what us boys do, so I don't think there is a need to stop. If you WANT to stop, than stop. But don't feel guilty about something that is natural for us as males.

[PCwrestles]

Not addicted at all. I’m 18 and I jerk off 2-4 x a day. Listen to your penis and make urself fee happy

Exactly!

[Falcons_11]

Jerking off 2 or 3 times a day isn't that excessive or addictive. It's normal for us at our ages to want to jerk off as much as we can as long as it doesn't interfere with your other activities.

[flogrown2001]

No you definitely shouldn't stop! And don't worry dude you're not addicted. You're a boy, it's just what we do. 2 times a day is perfectly normal, heck I sometimes do it 3 or 4 times a day if I'm bored!

[PCwrestles]

No you definitely shouldn't stop! And don't worry dude you're not addicted. You're a boy, it's just what we do. 2 times a day is perfectly normal, heck I sometimes do it 3 or 4 times a day if I'm bored!

i agree. just do what feels good.

[Janas]

everything is alright, you don't need to stop.

[arca]

There is no addiction to masturbating. And doing it a couple times a day is perfectly fine. Do it as much as you want as long as it isn't interfering with your life.

[ska8er]

Once or twice a day is not addicting