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maddybear
January 2nd, 2019, 12:22 PM
Im 13 and I never had a boyfriend. I always look at guys and talk to them and I think I want to start dating but I'm kinda scared to ask a boy out. Any advice?

Zachary G
January 2nd, 2019, 12:24 PM
if you find a boy that you like, then you should invest some time in getting to know him better as a friend -- see if hes really the ideal boy for you -- before you ask him out.

ska8er
January 2nd, 2019, 02:50 PM
I think at 13 u r too young to start
dating. U should meet and talk to
some guys and find common things
that u like and then first build some
sort of a relationship.

arnorway
January 2nd, 2019, 02:54 PM
I think at 13 u r too young to start dating

why is 13 too young to date? i'm 13 too and i would love to date

Im 13 and I never had a boyfriend. I always look at guys and talk to them and I think I want to start dating but I'm kinda scared to ask a boy out. Any advice?

i never had a boy- or girlfriend either. i'm planning on talking to my crush this weekend. i think that's the first step. just talk to the boy you like, if he's shy like me, he will certainly like that you started the conversation

Bluegrass
January 2nd, 2019, 03:05 PM
Don't put to much pressure on yourself it will eventually happen.Try to be smart with who you really think is good for you cause many guys will leave you heartbroken.

ska8er
January 2nd, 2019, 03:12 PM
why is 13 too young to date? i'm 13 too and i would love to date



i never had a boy- or girlfriend either. i'm planning on talking to my crush this weekend. i think that's the first step. just talk to the boy you like, if he's shy like me, he will certainly like that you started the conversation

Only u know what the boy is like. Teens cant
make mature decisions at 13. Im not saying
that u r this way but a lot of guys and girls r.
It is ok to talk with a guy and go out for some
thing but would not get into serious dating. :)

Devinsoccer
January 2nd, 2019, 04:08 PM
why is 13 too young to date? i'm 13 too and i would love to date

Along with what he said, if you ever did the dating age equasion, 1/2(age)+7; 14 is the minimum age in order to get a positive result.

jamie_n5
January 2nd, 2019, 07:24 PM
Well at 13 you have lots of time. My sister is 15 and my parents won't let her date until she is 16.
If you like a boy just talk to him and get to know him. As time goes on you could ask him if he wants to go to a movie or dinner or something.

TRAbitha13
January 2nd, 2019, 07:28 PM
I dated a guy when I was 13 but I really regret it

Adamant
January 3rd, 2019, 11:34 AM
I know a boy on this site whose girlfriend asked him out and i dont think he minded.
Don't think its a race to ho out with someone but i reckon some kids do.
Its cool that there are boys around you like to spend time with. Enjoy that before it starts to get all complicated with pairing up.

Not an expert though as still waiting for my first g/f.

Oscar-V3.0
January 3rd, 2019, 11:46 AM
I think at 13 u r too young to start
dating. U should meet and talk to
some guys and find common things
that u like and then first build some
sort of a relationship.

Only u know what the boy is like. Teens cant
make mature decisions at 13. Im not saying
that u r this way but a lot of guys and girls r.
It is ok to talk with a guy and go out for some
thing but would not get into serious dating. :)
It depends what dating means for you. I had my first gf at 11, we kissed, hanged around and did stuff together

(Edit : by doing stuff, I dont mean anything sexual at 11 lol)

ska8er
January 3rd, 2019, 02:29 PM
It depends what dating means for you. I had my first gf at 11, we kissed, hanged around and did stuff together

(Edit : by doing stuff, I dont mean anything sexual lol)

Doing stuff-talking-hugging-a little kiss is Ok.
Girlfriend at 11-Huh? Early hormones I guess. ;)

Oscar-V3.0
January 3rd, 2019, 02:35 PM
Doing stuff-talking-hugging-a little kiss is Ok.
Girlfriend at 11-Huh? Early hormones I guess. ;)
Ilttle kisses on the lips at 10
Big kisses with the tongue at 11

ska8er
January 3rd, 2019, 07:27 PM
Ilttle kisses on the lips at 10
Big kisses with the tongue at 11

Take it easy-ur too fast. :what:

Naters2000
January 4th, 2019, 12:36 AM
I wouldn't get too caught up in dating, it's kind of a massive pain in the butt. Now that I've put that in...

If you really like a guy and think a relationship would be plausible, get to know him. Talk about shared interests, and be open with him. Just be completely honest.

Oscar-V3.0
January 4th, 2019, 04:22 AM
Take it easy-ur too fast. :what:
I sure aint the only one in my school

ska8er
January 4th, 2019, 12:51 PM
I sure aint the only one in my school

Then all u bloody mates r horn dogs.;) Just
b careful and not mess up ur lives.

Oscar-V3.0
January 4th, 2019, 06:19 PM
Then all u bloody mates r horn dogs.;) Just
b careful and not mess up ur lives.
I'm not a horny dog... :mad:
I just feel good when I'm around my gf :rolleyes:

vandilization
January 4th, 2019, 07:19 PM
13 isn't too young to date. it's not like she's asking to get married. Get to know the boys you like better. Guys like girls who can like similar stuff they do.

ska8er
January 4th, 2019, 08:16 PM
:cool:I'm not a horny dog... :mad:
I just feel good when I'm around my gf

LOL-Mate Im just messen with ya. :cool: