My boyfriend is insecure

[Deivis]

So I have been dating this guy for 2-3 weeks. He is very my type. We sext time to time but he gets very insecure I say that he is hot and all. Most attractive guy to me, ect. Is he manipulating me ? Does he like compliments and do that for it? What should I do? I really like him and he is 100% beautiful and handsome for me I wouldn’t lie.

[ska8er]

Ur not saying much. How insecure do
u feel he is? What does he do to make
u feel u have to ask?

[Deivis]

Amm. Well he says that I’m too good for him, he is ugly, I don’t like how he looks, ect. And I get that vibe too that he isn’t proud of his looks. He suffers kinda depression too he don’t want to talk about it but he mentioned before that have had rough time. Every day I tell that I love him and that he looks good, rarely get compliment back but idk I don’t to need them tbh. I just want to make him happy because I love him. And feel sad not understanding what he is going trough. He gets very shy sometimes too. Idk what else to tell.

[ska8er]

I wouldn't get into a romantic relationship
with him cause I don't think it would work
out. No matter what u will tell him he is not
going to believe u. Does he tell u he loves u
too. I would b there to listen to him and b his
friend but I don't c anything else happening.
Tell him he needs to c someone else to talk out
his feelings to help make him feel better of himself.

[Deivis]

But... I love him ;( I don’t want to lose him. And he doesn’t have any good friends. And I fell responsible. He wasn’t like this when we first met. And maybe he have problems that’s why he is acting like that. I’m not leaving him for sure ;( have too big connection idk how he feels about me but I hope... well will keep you updated. Will try to bring this topic to him and maybe he will make me less worried. Thanks for answers

[Fuwod9giw9s9c9e9]

As someone who is really insecure, i kinda understand the whole not accepting compliments thing. But you're not obligated to be this therapist though, one of my friends ended up in an unhealthy relationship with a guy who was extremely depressed, but refused help and just wanted my friend to constantly be with him. It's probably nothing like your situation, but it always stuck with me. You know him better than us, so just try and be a good friend, but keep your own mental wellbeing in mind :)

[jamie_n5]

There is nothing wrong with complimenting and talking sexy things to your boyfriend. Some people eat that all up and it turns them on. I see no reason that you should feel insecure. Just keep on your relationship and maybe ask him for some more intimacy and acts of love for you. Nothing to be up tight or insecure about.

[Deivis]

There is nothing wrong with complimenting and talking sexy things to your boyfriend. Some people eat that all up and it turns them on. I see no reason that you should feel insecure. Just keep on your relationship and maybe ask him for some more intimacy and acts of love for you. Nothing to be up tight or insecure about.

I think you understood me wrong. My boyfriend is insecure. I’m all good I’m secure proud of myself, my looks. I fell my boyfriend isn’t...

[jamie_n5]

Well then just be supportive of him and give him time. Keep up the encouragement and compliments and see how thing progress.

[ska8er]

I don't think that He feels insecure-It is his
boyfriend who cant take a compliment. Yeah
He can made more physical contact with him
to get him turned on but it seems nothing is
good for him. Again u say u love him but does
he show the same toward u?

[Deivis]

Idk he says he is bad at expressing emotions. I haven’t met anyone like that so... I’m very emotional well I could get more attention from him but I’m very easy to please so I’m happy with how much I get. I said something about this to him he was kinda embarrassed and said that everything is ok he is fine ect... I might be overreacting but I fell something is off.

[Deivis]

Well fuck today he broke up with me... idk why he didn’t say anything he blocked me on everything.

[TRAbitha13]

Well fuck today he broke up with me... idk why he didn’t say anything he blocked me on everything.

You said you were dating him 2-3 weeks? That doesnt sound very long

[Deivis]

You said you were dating him 2-3 weeks? That doesnt sound very long


Doesn’t matter anymore tbh idk for me it’s kinda long because I drop most of them in 2 days :D. Well I what ever he did what he wanted not here to judge or cry over him.