for anyone who is attracted to boys

[arnorway]

this is a poll for anyone who is attracted to boys (sorry straight boys, you're out for this one): as i said in another thread (http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/showthread.php?t=2049022), i have a crush on a girl but am not only very shy, but also often tent my pants around her.
so the question is, would you think less of a boy who is talking to you if you noticed he had a boner?
and yes, before any comments towards that, i am dressed in front of her and try to hide it but it's not like i want to carry a book in front of me either. not that that would be any better!

[AshleighB]

I wouldn’t, plus I wouldn’t be looking down there if I was talking, but if I did notice I wouldn’t say anything

[Natacha]

We can't be sure she doesn't notice it. Some of us do look.
I wouldn't think less of you in any way. We know it's an uncontrollable thing at the best of times.
Probably sounds like a cliche, but what can it be other than a compliment.

Some people like to point fingers and try to be funny or get attention at the expense of others, so that's where you need to be careful. Somehow I don't think this girl is one of those.

[Shiny Moon]

Probably not, but depends of the context, who the other person is, etc.
If a guy I don't know suddenly approaches me with a big boner and starts talking with me, it would be a bit weird. I mean, try to hide it at least lol

[MasonBA]

I wouldn't. At our age our penises get hard at anytime and boys sort of understand that so it may not mean anything. If he was hard because he was talking to I'd be flattered

[Caycedilla]

I’m not usually looking there when I’m talking to someone :lol: so it’s got to be unbelievably obvious. I wouldn’t think less of him, but I think I may be trying to figure out whether to take it as a compliment or wondering if sexual things are the only things he thinks about. I know it’s pretty normal (trust me lol) to get spontaneously horny as a teen though. At least try not to make it SO obvious if you’re trying to have a conversation

[Claire Asteroid]

I wouldn't think less of him. I probably wouldn't notice and if I did I'd know that these things happen.

[Oscar-V3.0]

this is a poll for anyone who is attracted to boys (sorry straight boys, you're out for this one): as i said in another thread (http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/showthread.php?t=2049022), i have a crush on a girl but am not only very shy, but also often tent my pants around her.
so the question is, would you think less of a boy who is talking to you if you noticed he had a boner?
and yes, before any comments towards that, i am dressed in front of her and try to hide it but it's not like i want to carry a book in front of me either. not that that would be any better!
I am a straight boy :lol:
But if you go talk to her why would she be looking at your pants? You guys should stop thinking that people watch you below the waiste all the time... :rolleyes:

[SethfromMI]

No because why the boner could be from attraction, guys can get boners randomly for completely non-sexual reasons.

[mick01]

If a guy was getting boners when he was around me I'd either take it as a compliment and maybe even like it if I was attracted to or into the guy. If I wasn't and he was getting boners around me, I don't think I'd like it very much.

[NudistFun]

I see it all the time, clothed boys and not, I think it can be cute or even hot. I never think less of the boy unless he is being an idiot and touching himself or being gross.

[ska8er]

Ive talked to many guys with
noticeable tents-that doesn't
mean I think any less of them.
Ive been like that also. Y does
it matter?

[Zachary G]

If there was a guy who liked me popped a boner while he was talking to me, if I happened to notice, I wouldnt say anything and would consider it a compliment - ya know? Nothing to be embarrassed about, its a part of life.

[arnorway]

I see it all the time, clothed boys and not, I think it can be cute or even hot. I never think less of the boy unless he is being an idiot and touching himself or being gross.

why would someone touch himself at that moment? hell no

[Pultost]

Of course not. They can't help that I'm hot! :P Jokes aside, I understand that boys' penises live a life of their own. As long as the boy doesn't act up on it (unless it's my boyfriend, of course), it's all good, and I just pretend I don't see it.

[Jordan99]

Growing up with two brothers, having a BF and just being around guys in general, I know that random boners pop up sometimes and usually the guys can't do anything about it so no, it wouldn't be a problem for me. In fact, if a guy were to get a boner while chatting with me, I'm likely to take it as a compliment. Like Laura stated though, if a guy started touching himself or behaving in an inappropriate manner I'd think he was a bit of a creep and would remove myself from the situation.

[NudistFun]

Growing up with two brothers, having a BF and just being around guys in general, I know that random boners pop up sometimes and usually the guys can't do anything about it so no, it wouldn't be a problem for me. In fact, if a guy were to get a boner while chatting with me, I'm likely to take it as a compliment. Like Laura stated though, if a guy started touching himself or behaving in an inappropriate manner I'd think he was a bit of a creep and would remove myself from the situation.

Like PLEASE get it guys, if you get aroused by chatting or looking at us only, it's cute and hot because it betrays what you are thinking in no uncertain terms but you didn't do anything to make your penis do that... so it's not alarming to us, lets us look casually and not be threatened.

Way different than some guy looking at you and stroking himself on a beach or something. Yuck.

[arnorway]

Growing up with two brothers, having a BF and just being around guys in general, I know that random boners pop up sometimes and usually the guys can't do anything about it so no, it wouldn't be a problem for me. In fact, if a guy were to get a boner while chatting with me, I'm likely to take it as a compliment. Like Laura stated though, if a guy started touching himself or behaving in an inappropriate manner I'd think he was a bit of a creep and would remove myself from the situation.

seriously, do guys fondle themselves in a situation like that? that sounds super creepy!

[Jordan99]

seriously, do guys fondle themselves in a situation like that? that sounds super creepy!

My big brother and my BF have kicked guys out of our pool parties for doing things like that but it's only happened very, very few times because the guys quickly catch on that they don't want to be kicked out of our parties by anyone. As for being on a nude or topless beach, I guess I'm just oblivious because I've never seen a guy stroking himself while looking at me or one of my friends. Then again, when we go to the beach, we're there to get a tan, play in the surf and sand and aren't really looking around. Of course, we do notice the cute guys LoL!

[tessa-]

I’ve seen it at the beach when nude and in the sauna / showers
Mom said it’s only rude if the touch it draw attention to it etc, that it’s natural and doesn’t even have to have been caused by someone else

[arnorway]

just a reminder: it's not at nude beach! she and i will see each other at church and we're both fully clothed

[Oscar-V3.0]

just a reminder: it's not at nude beach! she and i will see each other at church and we're both fully clothed
Put on 3 pairs of underpants.
That should restrain willy... :lol: 😂

[NudistFun]

I’ve seen it at the beach when nude and in the sauna / showers
Mom said it’s only rude if the touch it draw attention to it etc, that it’s natural and doesn’t even have to have been caused by someone else

Yep, pretty much! If I'm talking to a guy and he gets a boner, that's awesome!! But if he is just stroking his dick talking or looking at me, that's weird!

[tessa-]

Yep, pretty much! If I'm talking to a guy and he gets a boner, that's awesome!! But if he is just stroking his dick talking or looking at me, that's weird!

Yeah that’s being a jerk/creep/douche
But if he gets one just chatting I feel really special

[pauly]

Arne, I think you're sensible and sensitive enough to use your own judgement.

Basically, if a boy gets hard without touching himself, then there's nothing he or you can do about it. So it's best to accept it.

It seems most people here think the same, and of course girls could be flattered if they caused the boner to appear.

[Naters2000]

Not even a little, it'd be totally fine. It's a natural thing that happens sporadically.

[KatieCO2003]

You don't seem like a creep to me, so I'm assuming you won't seem like a creep to her. In that context, I'd think it was actually kinda cute. I mean, it's really no different than if you were talking to a girl and noticed that she suddenly had really hard nipples for no obvious reason.

[arnorway]

I mean, it's really no different than if you were talking to a girl and noticed that she suddenly had really hard nipples for no obvious reason.

i thought about that comment for a while but i'm pretty sure i wouldn't notice that when i am talking to a girl (or woman). i don't look at that area when i talk with them, i look at the face

[Oscar-V3.0]

i don't look at that area when i talk with them, i look at the face

I guess its the same for girls
Or at least most of them
So dont worry for your boner she prolly wont even notice it...

[vandilization]

Despite what a lot of girls may think, we aren't constantly walking around with visible boners lol

[arnorway]

Despite what a lot of girls may think, we aren't constantly walking around with visible boners lol

it was my question and i got all the relevant boy bits

[arnorway]

thanks for the support, i would not have talked to her without the help from on here. so yes, we talked after church. not for long, her family wanted to leave. i asked if she wanted my phone number and she did. and she already texted me :D