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thatboi
December 29th, 2018, 02:23 PM
Hi!
Thanks to anydbody who is going to read it!

At this point I have to mention that I was using my second account (I can't risk being considered gay at school) to be on group and chat with this guy who you will soon read about.

I'm a part of situation that is complete mess. Somewhere in the end of November I joined a group on Facebook called "LGBT+ let's get to know"(it's not a group for old creeps, most members are 13-25). And after few days I saw one boy who written he is 15 and is seeking some friend and that he is gay. First I commented "add me to friends", he did. His account was legit because he had many members of his family as well as schoolmates and account on Instagram so I'm sure he wasn't some pedophile or creep. We began to get to know each other, we talked about our schools, life, families, etc. He told me about his ex-boyfriends. We exchanged nudes, however I was sure that he won't use them to something illegal. We began to talk more often and to be more open on each other. And then we have chatted for last time 7th of the December. Few days later when I logged into second account I saw that he is no longer my friend and I can only "write the message to him if i know him", but when we weren't friends in the beginning it was the same. It made me feel calmer, as I thought that he had received ban on Facebook. But recently I have checked it and he probably banned me but not my whole account just messages from me. I really miss writing with him and I miss him a lot!

I also used this account to join some meme groups, to troll on some groups and he might have thought that I'm strange person. Or he might have thought I'm pedo or creep because I use second account without friends and without profile pictures. I tried to write to him but it says "he's not avilable right now" but I can see his profile while search. I don't know what happened. Maybe his parents saw this chat and made him block me, or some friends saw it?

What should I do? Nothing, as it's all over? Although it's too late write from my official Facebook why he has stopped and blocked me? Or write on Instagram to him? I'm a bit afraid that if I wrote to him he would tell someone of my friends I'm gay and send them screenshot of our chat. And probably if I wrote from other account on Insta he would think I'm definitely some kind of creep that wants to be anonymous.

And btw nudes exchange was his idea not mine, so this doesn't make me look like pedo.

I really miss him and don't know what to do? And if I should write to him, what I ought to write?

Zachary G
December 29th, 2018, 02:41 PM
If he blocked you, you woldnt be able to find him in search or anything like that. He could have deactivated his account and that is why you still see him there. I would say leave him be, if he doesnt want to have contact with you, then there really isnt much you can do about it, so it would be best to move on. Maybe find a new friend or friends.

ska8er
December 29th, 2018, 05:13 PM
U only messaged with him for a
short time. Maybe the thing with
him was to get someone to send
him nudes and then afterwards
end it. Not saying he did this. It
could b a lot of other reasons but
ur blocked so I would look for some
one else in that LGBT group. Maybe
he will reappear.

TRAbitha13
January 2nd, 2019, 07:23 PM
Weird that he would block you

jamie_n5
January 2nd, 2019, 07:30 PM
You might have to try your legitimate account and message him. Does he know that you want to keep being gay a secret for now? If you trust him then you should try your real account. I hope things work out man.