Is Size that important

[onyx]

Everyone everywhere is always saying size is important but do girls and gay/bi men really care?

[Pultost]

I can only speak for myself, but I couldn't care less. From what I've picked up from similar threads here, boys seem to be more obsessed about sizes than girls.

[Oscar-V3.0]

I guess there is a minimal size. Under 3 inches the girl may not feel anything at all. I saw in a documentary that girls vagina is only about 5" deep so "it's useless having a penis longer than that because not all of it is gonna fit in'
And I guess too long or too wide could hurt you

[AshleighB]

No size isn’t important to me I like to be with the person for who they are

[KatieCO2003]

I have never, ever, not even once, EVER cared about the size of a guy's junk....EVER!

[tessa-]

Too big sucks
It hurts so much

[Pultost]

Too big sucks
It hurts so much

This is the truth. Even an average sized one can hurt if it gets too far inside.

[InternetTeen]

Not really. If you're under 4" you might struggle though.

[tessa-]

Not really. If you're under 4" you might struggle though.

True, too small isn’t going to excite

[tessa-]

This is the truth. Even an average sized one can hurt if it gets too far inside.

Totally does :(

[Zachary G]

Size for me isnt an important thing - its not like I like a guy because of the size of his penis, its because I like him for who he is and if he penis happens to be large, small, or in between - oh well, Ill work with what hes got.

[mick01]

I had a boyfriend who was small, like 4", but that never once mattered. By the time we decided to have sex, I wouldn't have cared how big it was.

[Katie2003]

Sometimes smaller is better. :)

[unicornGirl]

So I have the experience that the size of the Penises already plays a role.
Always had with my friends rather average.
Was ok and normal for me.
Had however at the naturist or in the sauna already seen some particularly large parts.
Has always fascinated me.
Now my current German friend has really the biggest where I ever had (20x6 cm) That's so big, oh meuin god I thought only the never fits in.
But it must say so intense and horny with him oh yes it depends on the size.
I have never come so often and intensely as with him.

[Jrunner]

I think it's really good to hear that most girls on here don't think size is important. But of course some girls will say that it IS important, and I would hope that they aren't just shallow and that it's their legit preference, bc rejecting a guy bc his dick is "too small" would be a really crushing thing. In my opinion, not being attracted to someone (of either sex) bc that person is say, overweight, is not the same as not being attracted to someone bc his dick is "too small" or her breasts are "too small." Now when it comes to guys themselves and whether size matters FOR THEMSELVES, sure no one should get too hung up on something that is really beyond their control and ultimately doesn't matter for reproduction, but that the same time I think it's normal for a guys self image to be at least partly connected to the size of his dick, I'm not saying that it's right or that he SHOULD think that way or that a guy with a "small" one should feel like less of a man, I'm saying it's not abnormal for a guy to THINK that his manhood is connected to well, his manhood lol

[Caycedilla]

A million times no, every single time this question comes up. The person you’re with is infinitely more important than the size/appearance of them naked

[JakeMakes]

Everyone everywhere is always saying size is important but do girls and gay/bi men really care?

Gay guys talk about it a lot. Size queens are real. But I noticed most guys don't really care when they get with someone. I know I get turned on by seeing a big dick but that's porn. I get turned on by pretty much any dick tbh! Diversity is a beautiful thing. :wub:

[Taylorrrb]

No it doesn’t, all about how you use it:)

[Maxbreak]

Size is not everything. It can have an effect on how U use it and compared to where U put it. It's all about communication. If U are large and just "ram it in" you can hurt your partner, and need to be gentle, possibly letting them dictate how they take it, if they are small to receive. There are ways to have fun if it's small too

[ChloeF]

It matters, it's one of the last things l'm thinking about when l'm getting into it and doing the deed though.

[jamie_n5]

I agree that a lot of guys are obsessed about how big or small they are. You are what you are and have to learn to live with it. I am sure some girls are obsessed about breast size too.

[Jordan99]

I never really considered myself a "size queen". I've been with my BF for over 4 years now and his penis is very large and thick. I'd love him no matter how large his penis is however I must admit that his having a large package is a big bonus. I absolutely love that "FULL" feeling I get when he's inside me.

[Uniquemind]

It depends, just like guys come in all lengths, girth/thicknesses, so do girls. But with girls the muscles and stretchability (didn’t know what else to call it) varies and also based on the level of hormones flowing through the blood, which is why being turned on in the mind-brain (because of social context or environment) is important for those horny hormones to get in the bloodstream and travel to those intimate tissues of the body causing them to react.



If you think about it the same thing happens during childbirth, you only are able to stretch or dialate because of hormones levels being high.

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If a guy doesn’t know how to provide adequate foreplay it's hard to know if that girl’s experience is a fair Apple’s to apple’s comparison to another girl’s experience with the same guy.


If a guy’s sexual technique or method is just copying what he sees in porn it can be a real bad time for the girl, it is not just a wham bam bam bam bam cum.

It would be better for you to look at the medical studies done on sex.


There have been university studies in the journal of human reproduction with functional mri’s Showing intercourse and what happens to those organs and the cervix.

Too big a penis lengthwise will result in a cervix bashing, but also the cervix moves around as well during sex depending on position and the way the guy thrusts in terms of where he’s directing the kinetic energy.

Too thick can also be a problem because it can make entering extremely hard and the sheer size visually is enough to prevent mental relaxation and therefore adequate healthy arousal for sexual security. (I.e. feeling safe, relaxed, loved, and slightly energized zen state of mind).


Physically the perinium is also put under a lot of strain from thick penises (5 to 6 inches girth is a LOT).

This is because it can only comfortably stretch so much, before it starts to feel strained and taut to where it burns a little bit. In childbirth this same area of the vagina is termed “the ring of Fire) when a baby’s head drops and begins to exit the vagina.


So if you think your pensis is anywhere close to the thickness of a soda can let alone a baby’s head, a LOT of girls are going to say. “oh. HELL.NO!!!!!”



So guys you need to stop believing these myths you’ll be wiser humans for the rest of your lives because of it and perhaps a lot less depressed.

2.5-4.5. Girth is almost universally good.

4-6 inched in length is also good.

7 inches, you may have girls who won’t even use the last inch of the anatomy, and DONT attempt to ram it in balls deep if it doesn’t fit. Doing so just puts pressure on the cervix and strains the Fallopian tubes connection to the ovaries and hurts badly.

[unicornGirl]

I never really considered myself a "size queen". I've been with my BF for over 4 years now and his penis is very large and thick. I'd love him no matter how large his penis is however I must admit that his having a large package is a big bonus. I absolutely love that "FULL" feeling I get when he's inside me.

Good i think so too with my Boyfriend