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SweetFang
March 28th, 2014, 02:57 PM
Hi. First of all I have had this thought for the past 2 days and I thought I would share it with you and get your opinions. This is NOT something that I plan to do, so please don't freak out.
I used to think girls who got preg at my age were either stupid for not using protection, or mentally ill for doing it on purpose. 13 is not mom material.
We did that thing at school that I called RoboBaby. We took a plastic baby home for the weekend and everytime it cried we had to stick a key in its back and turn it so it would shut up. It made no sense to me. That was the most unrealistic simulation ever.
Anyway, I'm kinda in the mood where I want a baby but maybe just borrow one. I couldn't handle that shit 24/7. I do wonder a lot about what my baby would look like though. I guess it depends on the sperm donor.
I dream about my daughter sometime.
So, do you ever want to be preg even though you're not ready?
Have you been preg already? How is it?
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ninja789
March 28th, 2014, 03:09 PM
never been and don't want to. Cant handle kids for longer than 3 hours at a time :/ I do think about what my kids might look like sometime. I think that's kinda normal
Lisa R
March 28th, 2014, 03:23 PM
I would like to have a baby later in life but not at thus time.
I have done babysitting for a baby boy before, it was nice but better to send him home .
I do think what my child would look like and if it will be boy or girl.
ImAurora
March 28th, 2014, 03:28 PM
Yeah... I don't really like kids. Or babies. Or anyone not in high school or above. In the future I might want kids, yeah, but definitely not now.
NotShortButFunsized
March 28th, 2014, 04:39 PM
same as Aurora said, I dont want kids right now
Taryn98
March 28th, 2014, 05:07 PM
no
I babysit a lot so I get to have fun with kids but then get to go home after a couple hours which is perfect.
I couldn't handle having to deal with them 24/7 for at least 18 years. Plus I have so many things already going on with school/work/friends that I would never be able to do if I had a kid.
Babysitting is perfect!
ozteen
March 28th, 2014, 06:56 PM
never been and don't want to. Cant handle kids for longer than 3 hours at a time :/ I do think about what my kids might look like sometime. I think that's kinda normal
this pretty much sums it up for me too, not to mention that my parents would have a fit if l did get pregnant!!!
Karkat
March 28th, 2014, 08:19 PM
I definitely feel that way, but like, I know that I'm not ready as it is, and I want to marry my boyfriend first. Kids having stable homes and such, and the weird last name issues, shotgun weddings, no thanks. I'm planning on marrying my boyfriend and having kids with him anyways, so it's more that I'd like to plan out life with my future husband before mini-me's come in the picture.
I have been pregnant before, but I miscarried a few weeks to a month along. It didn't really feel that much different- I wasn't far enough along.
I did get INSANE cravings at first though. Which might've just been because of the placebo effect. (Cravings don't usually come until later, I thought I might've been pregnant, Sausage egg and cheese McGriddles for breakfast, Big Mac Wraps for lunch and dinner. Didn't help that I was working at McDonald's. In other words, it probably wasn't so much hormonal as psychological, but boy did I crave those Mac Wraps.)
But yeah, sometimes I'll get a little baby crazy, or my boyfriend will insinuate that he wants to get me pregnant (and I'm just like, no dude) but both of us are pretty level-headed in the fact that we're poor, unmarried, we don't even live together quite yet, and SO NOT READY. (I mean, he's more ready than I am, he's 21, but I think he needs to build up his resumé and become more financially stable first, even then. And I have tons of issues. Meh.)
I think we'll have kids soon, like maybe 4-6 years from now, but I would very much like to make sure that we are nice and married, and settled into being husband and wife first.
KaraaaHope
March 28th, 2014, 09:06 PM
I think about what it would be like a lot, but I'm not even close to ready to have a baby..
I think every girl whether they admit it or not thinks about those things. I mean, it seems like a natural thing to think about starting the moment you become ready to carry and have a baby. Human nature is definitely not bad!
cherylcherylX2
March 28th, 2014, 09:56 PM
I don't know about others, but I hate kids, they seem like so MUCH work and I think I'd rather have a pet :P
Luminous
March 29th, 2014, 06:06 PM
I would love to be pregnant and have a child. I want someone who loves me and unconditionally and vice versa. But not yet!! I do dream about being pregnant now but it's completely unrealistic and I'm obviously not ready. It's really only because I want to love and be loved. I have no good friends or anything so having someone that loves me is a fantasy of mine. But it's not going to happen. I have a lot of other plans for my life that come before a baby.
jenny2234
March 30th, 2014, 05:22 PM
I don't really like kids but I think about being pregnant a lot. The thought of being pregnant makes me feel like a real woman and when I am having sex with my bf I think about it even though I don't actually want one and am not ready.
jenna123
March 30th, 2014, 06:54 PM
tbh right now im not thinking about getting pregnant or having children. Im not gonna give it a thought until im older, 25 or so, or until i have found the guy i wanna be with for the rest of my life. Right now i cant stand children and having a baby would be a total nuissance, yea babies are cute but having to take care of one is the worst thing, not to mention my parents would kill me if one day i came back home pregnant
runnergirl
November 9th, 2014, 06:53 PM
I can relate to the feeling! I often long for a baby and to be pregnant. Actually, this is embarassing but getting pregnant is like a fantasy of mine. The idea of a guy getting me pregnant is such a turn on. Im weird!
Luminous
November 9th, 2014, 08:11 PM
I can relate to the feeling! I often long for a baby and to be pregnant. Actually, this is embarassing but getting pregnant is like a fantasy of mine. The idea of a guy getting me pregnant is such a turn on. Im weird!
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