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James_16
December 6th, 2018, 01:11 PM
What do you think about being naked with the opposite sex (excluding having sex)? Does it make a difference whether they're your friend, sibling or a stranger? If it's something that has happened to you before, what was the situation/ story?

Katie2003
December 6th, 2018, 01:15 PM
My family are naturists/nudists and I've grown up not wearing clothes around the house or yard, and we also attend naturist resorts and nude beaches during the summer months. It's never been an issue for people to see me naked, or for me to see them naked whether they are friends, relatives, or total strangers. Being casually naked is never sexual when that's your lifestyle, but unfortunately quite a few people seem to associate the two things when they actually shouldn't. I've probably been seen naked by 10,000 people since I was a little girl, and I've seen that many people naked too. You get so used to it, that you often don't even realize or care that you are naked around other people.

TessTheGreat
December 6th, 2018, 01:51 PM
I'm okay with my cousin seeing me because we have always seen each other since we were babies. But I wouldn't want any other boy to see me.

Pultost
December 6th, 2018, 01:53 PM
Being naked with anyone besides my boyfriend is not ideal, but if I had to, it'll be less of a big deal with a friend, than it would be with any other options.

Jordan99
December 6th, 2018, 02:06 PM
My friends and I have skinny-dipping parties frequently during the spring and summer. It's a lot of fun and being naked is no big deal. When new friends join us it's obvious they have a bit of "the nerves" to deal with at first but once the initial shock is over it's no big deal.

Maxbreak
December 6th, 2018, 03:58 PM
I've only seen friends in the changing rooms after PE or swimming. I get a boner way too easily!

MasonBA
December 6th, 2018, 05:02 PM
Haven't been naked with any girls my age, and not sure how I'd feel. Spent the summer naked around my pool so mom saw me every day but she's my mom and it was cool. My best friend's mom saw me a couple of times when we had a sleepover at his house, really didn't bother me cause it wasn't even for half a minute she saw me.

ska8er
December 6th, 2018, 05:21 PM
With good friends it wouldn't matter but
with strangers it would b uncomfortable.

Jake445
December 6th, 2018, 05:40 PM
Well I share a room with my twin sister so we're super open with nudity and have grown up like that. We've always been comfortable with showering together too. The same goes for close female friends. I've never been shy and am fine with changing in front of friends, or even skinny dipping with them.
It depends with strangers, but in general, I wouldn't really mind them seeing me. I'd still try to avoid it.

jamie_n5
December 6th, 2018, 06:27 PM
I have been naked with girls lots of times. We go group skinny dipping. It's loads of fun.

HardCandyGirl
December 6th, 2018, 06:28 PM
What do you think about being naked with the opposite sex (excluding having sex)? Does it make a difference whether they're your friend, sibling or a stranger? If it's something that has happened to you before, what was the situation/ story?

With the opposite sex? No, I'm very shy about it if it's not my bf or something.

Bri7
December 6th, 2018, 10:14 PM
My family are naturists/nudists and I've grown up not wearing clothes around the house or yard, and we also attend naturist resorts and nude beaches during the summer months. It's never been an issue for people to see me naked, or for me to see them naked whether they are friends, relatives, or total strangers. Being casually naked is never sexual when that's your lifestyle, but unfortunately quite a few people seem to associate the two things when they actually shouldn't. I've probably been seen naked by 10,000 people since I was a little girl, and I've seen that many people naked too. You get so used to it, that you often don't even realize or care that you are naked around other people.

Well said and i couldn't agree more.
As a nudist i couldn't even count how many people I've been nude around .
My mom sees me nude all the time too, we're ok with it too, as i see her nude too.
Its not sexual unless you want it to be, nudity is like freedom.

Caitigrrl
December 6th, 2018, 10:42 PM
I got into nudism with cousins etc since I was 11, they’re boys and it’s fine
Lots of fun
More shy around boys / men I don’t know or just met

unicornGirl
December 7th, 2018, 02:50 AM
Makes no difference to me. Was so educated the nude is natural and has nothing to do with sex. And think any clue as man and woman looks naked and is anyway everyone different. No big deal knows all my friends naked either.

AshleighB
December 7th, 2018, 10:17 AM
If it was with a friend or family member the same age as me then it wouldn’t bother me, as for a stranger then no

LITTLEANGEL19
December 7th, 2018, 10:36 AM
As a naturist it would not bother me in the slightest, like in the local swimming pool locker room / showers, I shower naked as do my friends but many girls and women of all ages shower in their swimsuit. :confused:

I WISH EVERYONE A GOOD AND SAFE WEEKEND

Katie2003
December 7th, 2018, 11:58 AM
As a naturist it would not bother me in the slightest, like in the local swimming pool locker room / showers, I shower naked as do my friends but many girls and women of all ages shower in their swimsuit. :confused:



I've never understood that either. There are sometimes one or two who always shower in their bathing suit, or they leave their panties on, this would be at the community pool during the summer. At school that's not an option, everyone is naked. But in both those cases, it's same sex locker rooms and showers, so it shouldn't matter to anyone, although moms often bring small boys into the women's lockers and showers at the community pool as they don't feel appropriate about letting them attend the men's showers alone.

Natacha
December 8th, 2018, 04:01 AM
It's fine if it's sibling or family, and It's fine if it's a stranger on the beach. I would be a little bit more nervous if it was a male friend

Mswimmer
December 8th, 2018, 06:03 AM
I am comfortable with some of my good friends from opposite sex, not everyone.

LITTLEANGEL19
December 8th, 2018, 08:56 AM
I've never understood that either. There are sometimes one or two who always shower in their bathing suit, or they leave their panties on, this would be at the community pool during the summer. At school that's not an option, everyone is naked. But in both those cases, it's same sex locker rooms and showers, so it shouldn't matter to anyone, although moms often bring small boys into the women's lockers and showers at the community pool as they don't feel appropriate about letting them attend the men's showers alone.
My school is all girls and we must have a shower after PE and also when we go to local pool with the school and of course you must be naked, although the showers are a open plan room, some girls can be a little shy and have a towel near the showers to cover up as soon as possible. I Would totally agree with mum's taking small boys into the female locker room / showers for safety reasons some of my friends take their younger brothers into ours, and I seen dad's/brother's taking small girls I'm to the male area. As safety comes first as you don't know who's around.

scott2002
December 8th, 2018, 08:58 AM
My friends and I have skinny-dipping parties frequently... When new friends join us it's obvious they have a bit of "the nerves" to deal with at first but once the initial shock is over it's no big deal.
I can relate to this very much. I've gone skinny-dipping with guys and girls 3 times in my life. Oh how I remember my very first time! I saw my friends, guys and girls, NAKED in the pool and they were all telling me to take off my clothes and jump in. I kept telling them NO, and finally admitted I was embarrassed because I had an erection going on. They finally convinced me, and I took off my clothes and they all saw my boner, and I quickly jumped into the water. Within 10 minutes my erection was gone and I felt completely natural and comfortable being naked with all my friends of both sexes. We then hung around outside the pool the rest of the night without ever putting our clothes back on. (Thankful for parents being out of town and HIGH FENCES.)

Zachary G
December 8th, 2018, 09:05 AM
My friends and I have skinny-dipping parties frequently during the spring and summer. It's a lot of fun and being naked is no big deal. When new friends join us it's obvious they have a bit of "the nerves" to deal with at first but once the initial shock is over it's no big deal.

Yeah, its the same for me and my friends. We have skinny dipping get togethers and its usually a mixed crowd of guys and girls, but its really no big deal to be naked around each other - unlike at first, we were all nervous.

nudiegurl13
December 8th, 2018, 06:03 PM
I wouldn't be naked around guys unless I was in a romantic relationship. Around other girls I couldn't care less though. But that post up there saying there's girls who leave their panties on in the shower? I honestly don't see the point in that lol They'll get wet and probably become see-through. And besides, the way I see it is that if other girls see my boobs, might as well not hide the rest. After all we all have the same bits. Some just have more hair than others lol

RileyX
December 8th, 2018, 06:21 PM
i havent really been nude in front of other girls unless we are having sex so normally i get hard when i get that view but afterwards when we cuddle its pretty normal i guess. im not sure what situation id be in for random girls or friends to see me nude

Tsall
December 8th, 2018, 10:20 PM
Besides my sister, I’ve only been naked in front of one girl who I wasn’t going to have sex with. It was extremely awkward because we didn’t know each other all that well, and we both had to be naked together.

Jericho14
December 9th, 2018, 04:26 AM
Never experienced it. I would totally be nervous

James_16
December 9th, 2018, 08:50 AM
Besides my sister, I’ve only been naked in front of one girl who I wasn’t going to have sex with. It was extremely awkward because we didn’t know each other all that well, and we both had to be naked together.
What happened? Why did you have to be naked together? Sounds like an interesting story

JuliaVT
December 9th, 2018, 02:14 PM
It may feel a bit awkward if it’s someone I’m actually attracted to. Otherwise I think it’s just a matter of getting used to it, then it would be fine.

wrecked
December 12th, 2018, 12:37 AM
What do you think about being naked with the opposite sex (excluding having sex)? Does it make a difference whether they're your friend, sibling or a stranger? If it's something that has happened to you before, what was the situation/ story?

I have no issues with any female seeing me naked. In a way it "excites" me

Dav1d
December 12th, 2018, 01:57 AM
i've never seen a girl naked in real life haha

Jesi234
December 12th, 2018, 11:21 AM
I am nude in front of my brother and cousins but not other males

benbeny
December 13th, 2018, 01:30 PM
I am uncomfortable to be naked in front of girls. With boy I think it's okay, although I prefer to wear some underwear

joefelix
December 13th, 2018, 02:24 PM
Never really been naked in front of any girls.

ShiningStar
December 13th, 2018, 09:45 PM
The only girls ive been naked with were ones I was having sex with

tessa-
December 16th, 2018, 02:01 AM
Getting used to
It around my bro, his gf and his buddy and others at the beach etc

NudistFun
December 16th, 2018, 10:07 AM
I got into nudism with cousins etc since I was 11, they’re boys and it’s fine
Lots of fun
More shy around boys / men I don’t know or just met

It's weird how unpredictable it is who will be okay with nudity and who wont. Some boys LOVE IT.. some hate it.. same for girls. So, you're lucky you at least have them to share that time with :)

jasondrums
December 16th, 2018, 09:21 PM
If it was around a girl I knew and found attractive I would probably get hard and that would probably not be cool.

Bri7
December 16th, 2018, 09:56 PM
If it was around a girl I knew and found attractive I would probably get hard and that would probably not be cool.

It happens at first and usually at nudist places no one cares as long as you're not waving it around
Or jacking where people see you

tessa-
December 16th, 2018, 10:07 PM
I think it’s fun
It feels very natural and probably something that used to be totally normal

Caitigrrl
December 21st, 2018, 10:18 AM
❤️❤️❤️

Maxbreak
December 21st, 2018, 10:32 AM
I'd love to try one day. We don't really have nude beaches in Scotland. Too cold!

Oddone121
December 23rd, 2018, 11:44 PM
I visit nude beaches often and when you are they it's no big deal... it's normal

NudistFun
December 24th, 2018, 12:42 AM
I visit nude beaches often and when you are they it's no big deal... it's normal

:metal::metal::metal::metal: Right on :)

Codeblue
December 26th, 2018, 01:58 PM
I have visit nudist resorts and camping areas....no big deal. Everyone is all the same. I recently joined a nudist group that holds nude game nights.....great fun sitting around nude playing cards or board games...all non-sexual.

kro814
January 11th, 2019, 11:24 PM
Being naked around other boys is no big deal and happens all the time. Girls ..not so. Some of my friend's moms have seen me naked on sleepovers or skinny dipping. But moms don't count.

ArfyMcPeesh
January 11th, 2019, 11:37 PM
Haven’t seen my sisters and they haven’t seen me since we were real little and I don’t plan on changing that. Other girls, if it’s not sexual, why be naked? Like guys you shower and change but if I’m with a girl, I’m sorry maybe it’s ignorant but I’m going to be thinking about her body and wondering if she’s thinking about mine. And hiding my crotch.

ImXur-girl
January 14th, 2019, 02:12 AM
If it was around a girl I knew and found attractive I would probably get hard and that would probably not be cool.

Guys.... there is no reason to get embarrassed when you get erections!!!

Pultost
January 14th, 2019, 08:09 AM
Guys.... there is no reason to get embarrassed when you get erections!!!

Exactly this. It's not something they can decide, if it happens it happens, no harm done.

ArfyMcPeesh
January 14th, 2019, 08:28 PM
Guys.... there is no reason to get embarrassed when you get erections!!!

After being told for so long that it is bad to get one, it’s hard to not be embarrassed. Especially when you try to hide it and people see. And if you like the girl. And especially dancing, how are you supposed to act? You don’t want her to feel. It’s just embarrassing

NudistFun
January 15th, 2019, 09:56 AM
Guys.... there is no reason to get embarrassed when you get erections!!!

Mostly true! Young guys get a lot of leeway with erections at nude resorts and events. Just don't draw attention, laugh it off. It's cute !

ArfyMcPeesh
January 15th, 2019, 09:54 PM
Mostly true! Young guys get a lot of leeway with erections at nude resorts and events. Just don't draw attention, laugh it off. It's cute !

Nothing about me there, or in general, is cute

Sammy_03
January 17th, 2019, 08:25 AM
What do you think about being naked with the opposite sex (excluding having sex)? Does it make a difference whether they're your friend, sibling or a stranger? If it's something that has happened to you before, what was the situation/ story?

Never been around someone myself, but I wouldn't find it terrible. I don't have any siblings so I've never seen them. My parents, same. And I'd never do that with my friends. But I wouldn't see any problem with it for someone else to do so, I probably would, but never had/ will have the chance.

PositiveVibes
January 19th, 2019, 08:35 PM
[QUOTE=James_16;3744929]What do you think about being naked with the opposite sex (excluding having sex)? Does it make a difference whether they're your friend, sibling or a stranger? If it's something that has happened to you before, what was the situation/ story?[/QUOTE

unwanted boners lol

mixel19
January 30th, 2019, 02:55 AM
I don't mind being naked with girls at all. what makes it differ between being nude with one of my sisters and with a friend is that with a family member the sexual element is removed completely. With friends their's still a chance one or both of us will get turned on by the other's naked body. I've only been naked around female strangers at a nude beach, and if we start talking it becomes the same situation as with friends. otherwise I try not to stare or gawk or anything rude