talking to your dad

[benjs5000]

the other day my dad tried to talk to me about puberty and stuff it was really akward has anyone else had that?

[Aurelianus]

In my family it's actually pretty normal just to causally talk about that kinda stuff, so thank goodness it's never been awkward when I talk about sex with my dad

[Turbofan explosion]

I never talked to my dad about puberty, except some things like getting deodorant

[Maxbreak]

I'd rather talk with my friends or on here!

[Bri7]

Idk my dad has passed so i only have my mom

[toby69]

My Dad is not living. No talk with Mom except when I was 11 she said sperm would soon come out of my penis. That is all she said. I came at 12 masturbating after school.

[ska8er]

My Dad just told me that if there was anything
I had a question with concerning puberty just
ask. If u feel uncomfortable and he asks u bout
anything just tell him that if u have any questions
just do the same as I did. Walk away and forget it.

[Oscar-V3.0]

the other day my dad tried to talk to me about puberty and stuff it was really akward has anyone else had that?

My parents are definitely not into that kind of subject. I have all found out on internet and here

[Second Chance]

the other day my dad tried to talk to me about puberty and stuff it was really akward has anyone else had that?

I had that happen, and it was awkward, too. However, give your Father credit for at least trying to talk to you about puberty, and I would go to him if you have questions. At least he is not avoiding sexuality like some parents do, and he is only trying to help you. He was a boy at one point, too, and I would give him a chance since he is making an effort.

[scott2002]

my dad tried to talk to me about puberty and stuff... it was really awkward...
I think it's hard for us to understand that our dads went through all of this puberty stuff, too, when they were our age. Did you feel it was awkward for you, or for him, or for both of you? Was the awkward stuff about puberty stuff (body changes, masturbating, hygiene) or was it stuff about sexuality (girls, making out, getting erections, gay or straight, etc.)?

[Alex_Swim]

Its Just me and my dad....

He more or less said if I have any question I should ask, He does sneak in talks,comments,questions,stuff while we are in the car driving.

[mick01]

I have a brother who is 4 years older who had the talks with our dad. So me and my little brother relied on him more than my dad but my dad is still cool about it when anything puberty related comes up.

[benjs5000]

thanks for the replies ya he basically said if i have any questions i can ask him but i would feel weird asking him

iim glad i found this place tho cause i feel better asking here

[Jake445]

My parents always made it clear that I was welcome to ask but I never needed to.

[Adamant]

I have had various versions of the talk from socisl workers as i have been in care. Thats not too embarrassimg as its just a job for them and they are used to kids basically pretending not to listen even if they are.
My dad (when I was adopted) just said it would probably be awkward for both of us but he would be ok to chat anytime
I wanted. Not asked him yet. Dont ecpect I will.

[MasonBA]

Had the talk with my dad and he was cool with it. Really explained things well and I can, and do, ask him questions still

[jamie_n5]

My mom is a nurse and she had the basic talk with me.

[Oscar-V3.0]

I think it's hard for us to understand that our dads went through all of this puberty stuff, too, when they were our age. Did you feel it was awkward for you, or for him, or for both of you? Was the awkward stuff about puberty stuff (body changes, masturbating, hygiene) or was it stuff about sexuality (girls, making out, getting erections, gay or straight, etc.)?
Gosh!! Man, you just sent me the image of my father may have been wanking off when he was my age... I really dont thank you for that... :eek:
No... That's... Uh... Just not possible :o

[some]

i think most everyone goes through that

[Second Chance]

thanks for the replies ya he basically said if i have any questions i can ask him but i would feel weird asking him

iim glad i found this place tho cause i feel better asking here

It is great that you find this place comfortable, but do not write off your Father though. It may be weird at first talking about puberty with parents, but you will feel fine once you two talk as guys. It may have been awkward when he brought it up for him, too, but at least he is willing to have the conversation.

[scott2002]

Gosh!! Man, you just sent me the image of my father may have been wanking off when he was my age... I really dont thank you for that... :eek:
No... That's... Uh... Just not possible :o
Deal with it...Your dad WAS wanking off when he was your age! He was probably just as obsessed with playing with his dick when he was 13 as you and I have been! :whoops::eek:

[will2005x]

well me and my step dad have talked about it, and he's said if i need to talk to him then i can. he sees me with boners etc - he hasn't walked in on me though

[Zachary G]

my parents are pretty liberal and are always open for me to talk to them about anything and everything. So yeah, I have had puberty/sex related talks with dad

[Gamer.]

Deal with it...Your dad WAS wanking off when he was your age! He was probably just as obsessed with playing with his dick when he was 13 as you and I have been! :whoops::eek:
There's a decent chance he is *still* just as obsessed...

[RileyX]

never, kinda just figured everything out on my own

[jimbojones]

Not really, but that’s kind of something fathers are supposed to do.

[EthanMTX]

Yes, both my parents have had talks with me about puberty and sex. Also, if I have questions and stuff like that I can always to come to them about it just like with anything else. Both are easy to talk too and never been awkward…funny and embarrassing at times as dad tries to be funny….but they went through it too.

[Jeff1857]

Yeah my dad has talked to me and also said I can always ask questions.

[Deleted00]

My dad didn't give me the talk, he just went to talking about sex and stuff like it was normal and I'm supposed to know what it was lol. i didnt care cus i already knew

[somna2345]

I learned most everything from my older brother, but he learned the hard way from our dad

[arnorway]

the other day my dad tried to talk to me about puberty and stuff it was really akward has anyone else had that?

yes, i had a series of talks, not just one, with dad. i think the first was at around 9. all of them were awkward too, but i am still thankful. he didn't just cover puberty changes and where things supposed to go but also about love and respect. also not only boy and girl but boy and boy too. i never asked any question but know i could. but honestly prefer talking to my best friend or asking on here

[Mika27]

Oh god yes :( it's super embarrassing! I've been caught jerking off a few times so I often have "the talk" about not to do it so much, make sure its private, no porn etc etc

[TristanM]

My dad asked me if I had any questions and I could always ask so did I have any? I said "Um, no, not right now" and he said "O thank you Jesus" and said he needed a beer. I laughed for like two hours :)

[Kazuki-San]

It's fine. He just wants to know how you are going, it can be awkward and I know it can be embarrassing to think of but he has gone through the same.

[Fuwod9giw9s9c9e9]

My dad never gave me the talk lmao, he's a really awkward person. Luckily, I had friends and the internet to help

[Oscar-V3.0]

My dad never gave me the talk lmao, he's a really awkward person. Luckily, I had friends and the internet to help

My dad is not awlward but he's definitely not open about this kind of topic :/

[jakec2100]

my dad has and it was really awkward - i guess me and my parents have never been particularly close

[teen110]

Yeah. it isnt fun to listen too. It is hard for dads to talk about it as well.Dont be ashamed. He went thru the same thing we are going thru.

[Ricky.h]

the other day my dad tried to talk to me about puberty and stuff it was really akward has anyone else had that?

When he first talked to me it basic.
When my dad talked to me again as I was a little bit older it very straight forward and like I was an adult.

[ArfyMcPeesh]

My dad has pretty much ignored the entire subject with me, I think the whole daughter menstruating thing traumatized him so I got ignored, which is okay. In 8th grade when I was trying to lose weight he was like, well now the ladies will be after you, that was about the extent of us talking sex. Thank god for my cousin

[Hhfjjfhd6]

My dad talked to me. I mean he was pretty open. Told me everything I needed to know about the basics.

[justa16yearoldaussie]

oohh no luckily I haven't but its kinda one of those things you just have to endure lol

[JonnyH]

I didnt have it with my father but I have it with my mother. But most of the time my school mates have a long conversation about it.

[Jason2005]

My parents separated, but I really trust my grandfathers, they are funny and to the point. I got a dad I talk on phone with alot and my mom listens and offers advice. I get most information from my older brothers. VT is a good source but when your confused, there is nothing like family.